Zamkati
- 1. Idyani chakudya pamodzi tsiku ndi tsiku
- 2. Khalani oleza mtima
- 3. Kukumbatirana tsiku lililonse
- 4. Mverani iwo
- 5. Muzigwiritsa ntchito nthawi imodzi limodzi
- 6. Konzani zochita za banja
- 7. Samalirani ukwati wanu
Pamene ana anu anali aang'ono zimawoneka ngati mumadziwa zoyenera kuchita. Koma tsopano, kuti ana anu akugunda zaka zawo zaunyamata, amayi anu ndi abambo anu korona akuwoneka kuti akuwoneka ngati dzimbiri pang'ono. Nthawi zambiri mumatha kufunafuna upangiri wabanja.
Poyamba mudali okonza phwando komanso makolo abwino ana anu amafuna kukhala nawo, koma tsopano ali ndi anzawo omwe amakonda kukhala nawo. Kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza ndi thanzi labwino kwa achinyamata, koma monga makolo, zimakupangitsani kuti musamayanjane.
Nazi njira 7 zomwe mungalumikizane ndi ana anu monga makolo kuti mupange ubale wolimba, wachimwemwe.
1. Idyani chakudya pamodzi tsiku ndi tsiku
Upangiri wina wabwino kwambiri wokhudza maubale ndikuti mungodya kamodzi patsiku limodzi, osati pamaso pawailesi yakanema.
Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe mabanja ayenera kukhalira limodzi ndikudya nawo limodzi. Choyamba, ana amatsimikiziridwa mwasayansi kuti amasankha zakudya zabwino, amakhoza bwino, komanso amafufuza zakudya zosiyanasiyana akamadya chakudya ndi makolo awo pafupipafupi.
Kudya pabanja ndi nthawi yabwino kuti aliyense azilankhula, kuseka, ndikugawana pang'ono za tsiku lawo. Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti ana omwe adadya chakudya chamadzulo ndi makolo awo nthawi 5-7 pa sabata amatha kunena ubale wabwino, wokhutiritsa ndi makolo awo.
Kudya chakudya limodzi monga banja kumalumikizananso mwamphamvu ngati njira yopewa kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo mwa achinyamata.
Ana omwe amadya pafupipafupi monga banja amakhalanso ndi thanzi labwino m'masinkhu aunyamata kuposa omwe sanadye.
2. Khalani oleza mtima
Palibe amene ananenapo kuti kulera ana ndikosavuta. Padzakhala nthawi pamene amachita zinthu zomwe zimakukhumudwitsani, kukukhumudwitsani kapena kukukhumudwitsani. Koma ndikofunika kuleza mtima. Ganizirani zomwe mudali pazaka zawo.
Yang'anani pazabwino ndikugwiritsa ntchito zomwe mwakumana nazo zatsopano kapena zokambirana ndi mwana wanu kuti awadziwitse kuti muli nawo, kaya angafune kuthandizidwa kapena kuthupi. Adziwitseni kuti mudzakhala nawo nthawi zonse kuti mulankhule nawo, zivute zitani.
Mwana wanu akakuonani mukuyankha modekha komanso moleza mtima pazovuta zina, nthawi zambiri amabwera kwa inu ndi mavuto mtsogolo.
3. Kukumbatirana tsiku lililonse
Kukhudza thupi ndi njira yabwino yopangira kulumikizana. Pamene ana anu anali aang'ono, mwachidziwikire mumatha kuwakumbatira ndikuwaphatikiza momwe mumafunira. Tsopano popeza akula pang'ono, musaganize kuti muyenera kusiya kulumikizana kwakuthupi.
Kafukufuku wambiri lero awonetsa kufunikira kwakukhudza pakukula. Mwachitsanzo, kukhudza ndi njira yayikulu yomwe anthu amazindikira kutengeka. Kukhudza kumakupangitsaninso kuti muwoneke odalirika kwa ana anu.
4. Mverani iwo
Monga makolo kuyesera kulumikizana ndi ana awo, njira yabwino yodziwira ana anu ndikumamvetsera. Izi zikuwonetsa kuti mukuwapatsa ulemu wokhala ndi malingaliro komanso malingaliro awo.
Zovuta zomwe mwana wanu akukumbukira ngati simunali kumvetsera mukamatsanulira mtima wawo kwa inu. Chifukwa chake, mukamamvera, onetsetsani kuti mukupezekapo.
Zimitsani foni yanu kapena chida chanzeru kuti mwana wanu azimuganizira nthawi zonse. Simungafune kuti iye aganize kuti ukadaulo wanu wam'manja unali wofunikira kwambiri kuposa mavuto awo.
Njira ina yosonyezera ana anu kuti mukumvetsera ndi kuzimitsa wailesi yakanema kapena kutsitsa nyimbo zomwe zili mgalimoto akamalankhula nanu.
5. Muzigwiritsa ntchito nthawi imodzi limodzi
Ana amafunika kucheza limodzi ndi mabanja awo, koma ndizopindulitsanso kuti mupatse mwana aliyense nthawi imodzi ndi kholo lililonse. Ngakhale kupatula mphindi 15 patsiku kuti mukhale ndi mwana wanu aliyense kumawathandiza kukulitsa ubale wawo ndi inu ndi mnzanu kunja kwa banja.
Muthanso kuwonjezera nthawi yocheza ndi ana anu, mwina kuchita chidwi ndi zomwe amakonda, zomwe sakonda, ndikukonzekera tsiku limodzi kuti muwone zosangalatsa zawo.
6. Konzani zochita za banja
Monga momwe okwatirana amakondera tsiku lachikondi usiku, mabanja ayenera kupatula nthawi yocheza. Maulendo apabanja awa ndiabwino kupanga zokumbukira komanso kulumikizana ngati chinthu chimodzi.
Lolani ana anu kusinthana kukonzekera zomwe akufuna kuchita. Malingaliro ena abwino ndi monga kupita ku zikondwerero, bowling, kukhala ndi pikiniki, masewera apabanja usiku, kapena kuyenda tsiku limodzi pagombe. Muthanso kukonzekera ulendo wosangalatsa wabanja kapena wopita kumapeto kwa sabata limodzi, kufunsa ana anu kuti anene zomwe angafune kuchita.
Uwu ndi mwayi wabwino wolumikizana ndi ana anu ndikuwapangitsa kuti azimva ngati omwe mukufuna kucheza nawo, osati munthu amene mukufuna kupita kutchuthi kuti muchokeko.
7. Samalirani ukwati wanu
Kuti mukhale makolo abwino kwa ana anu, muyenera kulimbitsa mgwirizano wanu monga okwatirana. Ndipo palibe njira yabwinoko yochitira izi kuposa usiku wamasana.
Tsiku lausiku ndi mwayi wochoka Kutsogolo Kwawo, kuvala bwino, kukopana, kulumikizana, ndikukhala ndi nthawi yabwino monga kale kale musanakwatirane.
Konzani zosangalatsa kapena kukondana limodzi ndipo mugwiritse ntchito nthawiyo kulumikizana monga okonda, osati monga makolo.
Muthanso kugwiritsa ntchito tsiku lausiku ngati chakudya chamlungu sabata iliyonse kuti muzicheza nokha m'chipinda chogona. Amuna ndi akazi omwe amakhala ndi moyo wogonana amaonetsa kukhutira ndi maubwenzi apamwamba kuposa maanja omwe nthawi zambiri sagonana. M'malo mwake, kafukufuku wina adawonetsa kuti maanja amaonera kufunika kogonana mokangalika kuposa momwe amawonera ndalama.
Ana anu sayenera kungokuwonani ngati amayi ndi abambo, akuyenera kukuwonani ngati zinsinsi zawo komanso anzawo. Awa ndi malangizo abwino kwambiri okhudzana ndi mabanja omwe aliyense angapereke.
Mutha kuthandiza kupanga kulumikizana kwakuya ndi ana anu powonetsa kuleza mtima, kukhala opanda ziweruzo, kuwapatsa chidwi chanu chonse, ndikuwapangira mapulani anu apaulendo komanso momwe mumagwiritsira ntchito nthawi yanu yopuma.