Zamkati
- Adakudziwitsani kwa abwenzi ndi abale
- Sikuti chikondi chonse chimatsogolera ku kugonana
- Anasiya ziyembekezo zina zonse
- Amapanga mapulani omwe akuphatikizanipo inu
- Amachita chidwi ndi zofuna zanu
Mukangoyamba kumene kukhala pachibwenzi ndi wina muyenera kumangoganizira momwe mungadziwire ngati amakukondani kapena ndikungopitilira chikondi cha chilimwe.
Vuto ndiloti amatha kuwoneka ofanana m'masiku angapo oyambilira komanso masabata ngakhale miyezi. Komabe, izi ndi za diso losaphunzitsidwa.
Pali zizindikiro zina zosonyeza kuti ubale wanu ndi chikondi osati chilakolako chongotengeka mwachidule. Nawa malangizo asanu okhudzana ndi momwe mungadziwire chikondi chenicheni zikakuchitikirani komanso kuti musamangoganizira za nthawi yanu yokasangalala.
Adakudziwitsani kwa abwenzi ndi abale
Sichinthu chachilendo, ngati amakusamalirani ndipo akufuna kuti mukhale nanu mtsogolo, adzakuwuzani kwa abwenzi komanso abale.
Inde, si atsikana onse omwe amadziwana ndi amayi aamuna ndi mnzake wapamtima (ngakhale kucheza nawo kwakanthawi) omwe amakhala misisi. Koma, pali chinthu chimodzi chotsimikizika - palibe mtsikana m'modzi yemwe adakhala mkazi yemwe sanakumanenso ndi amuna ena ofunika.
Ngati simukudziwa kuti ndi yanji kwa inu, chinthu chokhudza momwe chiyambi chidachitikira. Kodi kunali kuwonongeka kosalephereka wina ndi mnzake m'mawa, kotero adakufotokozerani? Kapena mwaitanidwa ku chakudya chamadzulo kapena kusonkhana pamodzi?
Kodi mwakumana ndi abwenzi ake ku kalabu komwe mudakumana naye, ndipo simunawaonenso? Kapena adaonetsetsa kuti akudziwitsani ngati mtsikana wake watsopano?
Sikuti chikondi chonse chimatsogolera ku kugonana
Kumayambiriro kwa chibwenzi, ndizachilendo kuti simungathe kuchotserana manja.
Ndipo ndichachizolowezi kuti mumakonda nthawi zonse, nthawi zonse. Koma, pali kusiyana pakati pa kusilira ndi chilakolako chokha. Chibwenzi chilichonse chimayamba ndi chisangalalo chogonana chomwe chimakhala chovuta kuwongolera.
Muubwenzi wokondana, kugonana sikutali ndi chikondi. Ndi chisonyezero chachikondi.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake, ngati amakukondani ngati chinthu china kuposa kungomangirira, adzafunafuna chikondi, koma sikuti kukumbatirana ndi kupsompsona konse kumabweretsa kugonana. Okondedwa omwe amamva kulumikizana kwakukulu safunikira kuti achite pachimake kudzera mu kugonana.
Nthawi zina kungogwirana manja kumakhala kosangalatsa kwambiri, kapena kungokwaniritsanso chimodzimodzi.
Anasiya ziyembekezo zina zonse
Ichi ndi chachikulu. Ndi zachilendo kuti okwatirana amasungabe zosankha zawo m'masiku oyambirira aubwenzi chifukwa mwina sangadziwe komwe ziwatsogolere.
Koma, pomwe wina ali wofunitsitsa za munthu wina, amasintha malingaliro awo kwathunthu ndikuyang'ana pa mnzake yekhayo.
Izi zimachitikanso pamlingo wopumira, monga kafukufuku wasonyeza. Munthu wina wokongola akamadutsa, mnzanu wadzipereka amaletsa chidwi chawo ndipo samamuzindikira.
Kumbali inayi, ngati bwenzi lanu latsopanoli silisiya zina zomwe angathe kuchita, ndiye kuti, mukungokhala. Kutha komwe kumatha miyezi kapena ngakhale zaka, koma siwothandizirana naye zomwe muyenera kutsatira.
Amapanga mapulani omwe akuphatikizanipo inu
Mwamuna akamakondadi mkazi, malingaliro ake amamuphatikiza nthawi yomweyo. Ayamba kulankhula zamakonsati oimba omwe amatha kuchezera limodzi, kusintha zina ndi zina paulendo wake, kapena kufunsa kuyitanidwa kwina kuukwati wa mnzake.
Mwinanso mutha kutenga kabati yanu. Kapena, ngati muli ndi mwayi, mutha kumumva akulankhula za tsogolo lanu limodzi.
Kumbali inayi, mutha kumva kuti wina samakukhudzani kwambiri akamapanganso zambiri monga momwe amachitira asanakwatire.
Ndizabwino kwa iye kuti azipeza nthawi yocheza ndi abwenzi ake, koma ngati mungopeza china chake chomwe chikufanana ndi foni yolanda, ndi nthawi yoti muganizire zina zomwe mungasankhe.
Amachita chidwi ndi zofuna zanu
Akakukondani, amafuna kuti azikhala nanu nthawi yonse, akufuna kuti adziwane nanu, ndipo akufuna kumvetsetsa zomwe zimakusangalatsani.
Chifukwa chake, adzakhala ndi chidwi ndi zomwe zimakusangalatsani. Osati kuti mukuyenera kumamukoka kupita kuukadaulo wanu, koma, mutha kugawana nawo zakukhosi kwanu.
Mnyamata akakhala kuti alibe mwa inu, adzafuna kudziwa pokhapokha mukapezeka kuti mudzakumana. Mudzazindikira kuti amasokonezeka mukayamba kulankhula za zokonda zanu. Atha kukudodometsani, kapena kuyesa kutembenuza zokambiranazo kukhala zofuna zake.
Mulimonsemo, palibe chikondi chachikulu popanda chidwi chenicheni pazonse zomwe mungadziwe za mnzake.