Zamkati
- Kodi ndikumvana kapena kuchitira limodzi?
- Kukhazikika pansi zochepa kuposa momwe mukuyenera
- Simukumva kuti mukukula
- Wokondana naye kapena mnzake? Kodi ndi ndani? Sankhani
- Zomwe zimatengera chikondi
- Onse ayenera kukhala angwiro m'paradaiso
- Pezani malo ogulitsira amodzi, anthu
Chikondi nthawi zonse chimakhala chachikulu kuposa ungwiro. Ngakhale mutakhala wokondana komanso wogwirizana bwanji ndi munthu wina wa platonic, mukulakalaka nthawi zoyang'ana ngati zikusowa.
Ubwenzi wowona umafunikira kulumikizana kwakuya pamalingaliro ndi thupi. Zinthu zikuyenera kusungunuka popanda kulumikizana kwakukulu.
Kodi ndikumvana kapena kuchitira limodzi?
Palibe lamulo lovuta komanso lachangu loti mukhale pachibwenzi.
Mutha kudutsa gawo lopanda zolinga zikuluzikulu zachikondi, pomwe mumangokhala omasuka ndi munthu wina, mumakonda kukhala nthawi yayitali ndi munthu wina osadzimva kuti mumangokhalira kukondana, mumakondana wina ndi mnzake chifukwa cha chisangalalo koma simukumva kulakalaka. Uwu mwina ndiubwenzi wabwino.
Mukuganiza kuti mungafike patali motani? Padzakhala 'mphindi osakhalakonso' pakapita kanthawi.
Ngakhale ubale womwe ungakhale wotonthoza bwanji, ulibe chizolowezi chokhalitsa.
Komabe, imatha kukhala yathanzi kwa anthu ena nthawi zina. Kukondana sikungalowe m'malo mwa chikondi. Sichikhala cholinga chanu chachikulu. Palibe kukana kuti imatha kuthana ndi zosowa zanu kwakanthawi.
Kukhazikika pansi zochepa kuposa momwe mukuyenera
Anthu okonda kutchuka ambiri amafuna kugwera munthu wina molimbika.
Komabe amavutika kuti apeze winawake wapadera. Munthawi yovutayi, akatopa, amayang'ana komwe angapeze ubale wabwino. Amafuna kuti kulimbana kwawo kulipiridwe ndi chinthu china chotonthoza.
Apa ndipamene amasiya zolinga zawo zachikondi ndikupeza njira yabwino yopulumukira. Komabe, izi mwina sizingawapatse zomwe akhala akufufuza.
Simukumva kuti mukukula
Chibwenzi chabwinobwino chimakupanikizani kumbuyo kwa malingaliro anu kuti mupite kukasaka zambiri kuposa zomwe muli nazo, pomwe chikondi chimakusambitsani zambiri kuposa zomwe mudafunsa.
Chikondi chimachita zabwino zonse, chimachitanso mopanda ntchito. Chikondi sichikulolani kuti mudandaule za zomwe mulibe, chifukwa chake, zimakupatsani inu chisangalalo chosatha.
Wokondana naye kapena mnzake? Kodi ndi ndani? Sankhani
Nthawi zina, mumangofuna kukhala ndi munthu yemwe mungapite naye limodzi, yemwe mutha kugawana ngongole zanu, yemwe mungamudziwitse kudziko lapansi ngati mnzanu. Ndizomwe timatcha ubale wabwino.
Pazifukwa zonse zamanthu, mumasankha kulandira wina m'moyo wanu ndi manja ndikuyesera kusintha. Izi zitha kukuthetsani nkhawa zonse zomwe zikuwoneka, koma izi zitha kupangitsa kuti kulakalaka kukhale kwamoyo komanso kolimbikira mwa inu.
Ubale wabwino umabadwa pazifukwa zonse zakuthupi.
Mnzanu akaperewera kwambiri pazinthu zazing'ono, amayamba ubale wabwino. Komabe, zopanda pakezo zimapitilizabe kuyenda. Anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi choyenera sangachotse chiwerewere chomwe chimatsimikizira kuti pali zovuta zina.
Zomwe zimatengera chikondi
Chikondi, kumbali inayo, chimatsimikizira kusungunuka kwa moyo ndi mtima.
Mumakhala ndi chidziwitso chaubwenzi kulikonse. Mumayamba kudzikonda kwambiri ngati mwapeza yoyenera. Simumangokonda wokondedwa wanu, koma mumadzikondanso nokha.
Mphindi iliyonse ya chidwi amatanthauza dziko kwa inu. Inchi iliyonse ya mnzanu imamveka yaumulungu kwa inu.
Zomverera zenizeni zimadzuka posachedwa. Mumakongoletsa kuwona kwa mnzanu makamaka. M'malo mwake, mumakondwerera kupezeka kwa wina ndi mnzake padziko lapansi.
Mumakumbatirana zomwe wina ndi mnzake amakwanitsa ndipo mumamverana zofooka ndi zofooka za wina ndi mzake m'malo mongowayang'ana. Pali chiyembekezo mlengalenga komanso chiyembekezo champhamvu.
Onse ayenera kukhala angwiro m'paradaiso
Simulinso mmaiko awiri osiyana mukamakondana.
Maiko onse awiri akuphatikizana ndikukhala paradaiso mmodzi. Koma, muyeneranso kukhala ndi paradaiso weniweni. Chikondi si ndakatulo. Ndizowona pazolinga zonse. Ngati zingalotedwe, zitha kuchitika, monga tikudziwira.
Chikondi chenicheni chimadutsanso m'malo osakhazikika, koma malingaliro ophatikizika amakhalabe.
Izi maginito kulumikiza sangathe kukwaniritsa zosowa zakuthupi za banja. Zachidziwikire, pali zambiri zofunika kuyikapo kuti zilimbikitse ubalewo. Ngakhale, chikondi chimakuthandizani kuti musamangomangirirana wina ndi mnzake ubale wanu ukafika povuta. Chikondi ndiye maziko aubwenzi, popanda ubale uliwonse sungayime.
Pezani malo ogulitsira amodzi, anthu
Nthawi ndi nthawi, mudzamva zolemetsa zaubwenzi wabwino.
Idzakusowetsani pansi, ndipo mzimu wanu udzaleka kusamalira. Chibwenzi choyenera chimakhala ngati 'maudindo' osafunikira koma osapeweka omwe pamapeto pake amakutopetsani ndikufuna kusiya. Sindiwo mphepo pansi pamapiko anu, inde.