Zamkati
Mukudziwa momwe zimawonekera, koma simudziwa kuti mungapeze bwanji. Mwaziwonapo pazenera komanso mwina ndi maubale aomwe muli nawo pafupi. Koma pazifukwa zilizonse, yakuthawa mobwerezabwereza. Amatchedwa chikondi.
Ambiri a ife tikuyifuna, koma ochepa okha omwe amapeza ndi mawonekedwe ake oyera. Cholinga cha nkhaniyi ndikukutsogolerani kuti mukhale mmodzi mwa anthu omwe ali ndi mwayi. Tiyeni tiwone njira zabwino zopangira chikondi chodabwitsa m'moyo wanu.
1. Khalani inu
Uku kukuwoneka ngati kukhudza kosavuta, eti? Ngakhale ndiupangiri wowopsa, ndikofunikira kuti mukhale nawo kwakanthawi ndikulilowetsa.
Chimodzi mwazifukwa zazikulu zomwe maubwenzi amatuluka ndikuti zomwe mumalemba, pachiyambi, zimasiyanitsidwa kwambiri ndi zomwe muli m'moyo weniweni. Mukakumana ndi munthu, nonse awiri mumakhala ndi chiwonetsero chambiri kuti musangalatse mnzake. Zonse ndi zabwino komanso zabwino, koma pamapeto pake, manja akulu ndi umunthu waukulu zitha kuchepa mpaka kukula.
Ngati simukuchita nawo basketball, koma mnyamata amene mwakumana naye ndiye, musayese ngati mumakonda timu yomwe amakonda chifukwa mukuganiza kuti zingamupangitse inu Zambiri. Khalani owona mtima ndipo mumudziwitseni kuti si kapu yanu ya tiyi, koma mungasangalale kupita naye limodzi kuti aziona zomwe amakonda.
Ngati mumadana ndi chiwonetsero chomwe AMAKONDA, musamachite zinthu ngati kuti mumachita. Koyamba, azikoka mofulumira kuposa momwe mumaganizira. Kwa awiri, mapulaniwo adzagwa nkhope yake.
Pazochitika zonsezi, mukupanga chiyembekezo choti mukufuna china chake chomwe simungathe kuyimirira. Chowonadi chikawululidwa kuti simulowamo, izi zidzatha chifukwa cha malingaliro abwino omwe mnzanu ali nawo. Akuganizirani pang'ono chifukwa "mwadzidzidzi" simukhala ndi chidwi ndi zomwe inu muli.
Mudzakhala bwino kukhala owona mtima komanso omasuka kudziwa zomwe muli. Onetsani dziko lenileni lomwe muli ndipo mupeza kuti anthu omwe mukufuna kuti muzikhala nawo nthawi ndikubwera kudzathamangira kwa inu.
2. Khalani athunthu kapena opanda wina
Ziri pafupi kungokuwuzani kuti "mudzikonde". Koma mkati mwazomwezi muli nzeru zina. Musanapite kukafunafuna wina kuti akumalize, khalani ndi nthawi yomverera okondedwa ndi amphumphu popanda wina aliyense pafupi.
Chifukwa chake ndikofunikira ndikuti mudzakonda mopanda mantha ngati simuli ndi nkhawa yayikulu yotaya. Pamene inu zosowa winawake m'moyo wanu, mumakonda kusunga makhadi anu pafupi ndi chifuwa chanu ndikuyesa kukonza ubale wanu.
“Chabwino, ndikufuna kumusonyeza kuti ndimamukonda, koma sindikufuna kupitirira malire. Sindikufuna kuti aziganiza kuti ndine wosowa. ”
Ngati mukukhutira ndi kukhala nokha, mupanga bwenzi lodabwitsa kwambiri. Mudzavala mtima wanu pamanja ndikudziwa kuti ngati zonse zitha kusokonekera, mudzakhalabe pakati pazowonongeka zonse.
Chinthu chimodzi choti muzindikire apa: mukamadzikonda nokha poyamba, sizitanthauza kuti simudzatero ndikufuna chikondi kuchokera kwa wina. Zimangotanthauza kuti simungatero zosowa chidwi ndi chithandizo. Mutha kukhala wabwino nokha kapena wamkulu mkati mwaubwenzi wachikondi.
3. Kuseka
Anthu ambiri akaganiza za chikondi, amaganiza ndakatulo ndi mphindi zopindulitsa. Zimakonda kukhala zovuta kwambiri. Koma chikondi chimakhudzanso kuseka. Mukuganiza kuti ndichifukwa chiyani nthabwala zachikondi ndizofala kwambiri? Kuwona chikondi chikuphatikizana ndi nthabwala kumatipangitsa tonse kukhala anthu osangalala.
Osamadziona kuti ndinu wofunika kwambiri.
Osangotenga mnzanu kwambiri.
Osatengera ulemu waubwenzi wanu.
Mukaseka, mumanyezimira kumwetulira kwenikweni komwe mwakhala nako mobwerezabwereza. Mnzanu akuyenera kuwona chisangalalo chotere tsiku lililonse. Aseka kwambiri ndipo mudzayamba kukondana kwambiri ndi mnzanuyo komanso moyo wanu.
4. Muzikhululuka zakale
Kaya mukukhululuka wakale yemwe adakuchitirani nkhanza kapena kudzikhululukira nokha pazomwe mudachita pachibwenzi choyambilira, onetsetsani kuti mukutsatira lingaliro lakukhululuka momwe mukumvera.
Mwa kusakhululuka zokumbukira zakale, mukukhalabe munthawiyo ndi malingaliro amenewo. Mukuyesera kulembanso chinthu chomwe chimayikidwa mwala mpaka kalekale.
Anzanu akale anali anthu, monga inu. Aliyense amalakwitsa, choncho ndibwino kuti muwasiye.
Ngati mumakwiyira winawake yemwe amakukumbutsani za bwenzi lanu lakale kuti simunapereke nthawi yokhululuka, palibe mwayi kuti mungakondane naye.
Ngati simungathe kudzikhululukira nokha pazomwe mudachita ndi bwenzi lanu lakale, mwina mudzadzipezanso muubwenzi wotsatira.
Mukapanda kukhululuka, mumalandira machitidwe oyipa kuti abwerezenso. Khululukirani chilichonse chomwe chingakulepheretseni kukonda kupeza njira yopita kwa inu. Mwinamwake mudzapeza kuti pali zambiri zokhululuka kuposa momwe mukuganizira.
Mapeto
Mutha kuganiza kuti mulibe mphamvu zowongolera chikondi chomwe mungapange pamoyo wanu, koma kwenikweni, mumatero. Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito nokha, kudzikonda nokha, kuseka pang'ono, ndikukhululuka zakale zomwe zakupweteketsani, mudzadziyika nokha kuti mulandire chikondi chochuluka m'moyo wanu.
Zabwino zonse anzanga!