Zamkati
- Kodi kuyerekezera zakugonana nchiyani?
- Malingaliro apamwamba kwambiri azimayi pamapeto pake adawululidwa
- 1. Kupita kumusi uko
- 2. Kugonana kosangalatsa pagulu
- 3. Lamulirani (Makumi asanu a Shades ouziridwa)
- 4. Kuzengereza
- 5. Mtsikana pa zochita za atsikana
- Zolingalira zakuda kwambiri za akazi zomwe zingakusokonezeni inu!
- 1.Kusakhulupirika
- 2. Kugonana ndi mlendo
- 3. Kugonana ndi EX wanu
- 4. Kugonana ndi amuna angapo
Kutulutsidwa kwa kanema wapamwamba kwambiri ma Fifty Shades of Grey kwathandiza azimayi ambiri kuti azigwirizana ndi kugonana kwawo. Zinapatsa mwayi amayi kuti azitha kutulutsa mawu pazokhudza malingaliro awo komanso zosowa zawo zakugonana.
Ndizowona! Azimayi ali ndi malingaliro nawonso ndipo mungadabwe kudziwa zomwe ali. Kukhala otseguka ku zokhumba zanu zakugonana sizachilendo ayi, koma zimawoneka ngati zathanzi komanso zotentha!
Tiyeni tiwone zopeka zodziwika bwino za mkazi wokwatiwa komanso zoyipa zakuda kwambiri zomwe akazi ambiri amakhala nazo.
Kodi kuyerekezera zakugonana nchiyani?
Mudamvapo mawuwa nthawi zambiri koma malingaliro abodza pankhani yakugonana nchiyani?
Mwakutanthauzira, malingaliro azakugonana ndi gulu lazithunzi zomwe zimadzutsa munthu. Munthu aliyense amakhala ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana ogonana ndipo kukhala nawo ndikwabwinobwino. Anthu ambiri amakayikira pamene nkhaniyi ikukambidwa chifukwa cha nkhaniyo koma tonsefe timakhala ndi malingaliro azakugonana.
Ili ndi gawo la omwe tili ndipo palibe cholakwika ndi izi.
Kukhala ndi malingaliro okhudzana ndi kugonana sikukutanthauza kuti simukukhutira ndi mwamuna kapena mnzanu, sizitanthauza kuti ndinu ogonana, makamaka, malingaliro azakugonana omwe akazi amakhala nawo mwachibadwa ndipo amatanthauza kuti muli ndi thanzi labwino chilakolako chogonana. Tumizani kukomeza kwamakanema a Fifty Shades, kanemayo walola azimayi ambiri kukhala omasuka ndi zogonana zawo ngakhale kukambirana zongopeka zodziwika bwino za mkazi wokwatiwa yemwe akufuna mwachinsinsi kuti akwaniritsidwe pamodzi ndi kusilira kwawo amuna achigololo ndi otentha!
Ngati mukuganiza kuti malingaliro anu azakugonana ndi abwinobwino kapena amdima pang'ono, ndiye kuti tiwone malingaliro azimayi omwe akazi amakhala nawo.
Malingaliro apamwamba kwambiri azimayi pamapeto pake adawululidwa
Kaya mukufuna zowoneka bwino kwambiri za mkazi wokwatiwa kapena zongopeka chabe za akazi, ndiye kuti mwatsala pang'ono kuzipeza.
1. Kupita kumusi uko
Izi zitha kuwoneka ngati zochitika zogonana pakati pa maanja koma chowonadi ndichakuti, si azimayi onse omwe amakhala ndi chisangalalo chodzisisitidwa kumeneko.
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zofala kwambiri zomwe akazi ambiri amafuna kuti zitheke.
2. Kugonana kosangalatsa pagulu
Sitikunena zakugonana pamaso pa anthu ambiri, koma tikulankhula za malo omwe anthu angakugwireni ngati mukuchita "ntchito".
Ingoganizirani kukhala ndi mnzanu wotentha mulaibulale? Amapita patsogolo ndipo simungamuletse!
Chisangalalo chogwidwa chimatha kuyambitsa libido yanu!
3. Lamulirani (Makumi asanu a Shades ouziridwa)
Chifukwa cha kanemayu, chimodzi mwazinthu zodziwika bwino kwambiri zazimayi masiku ano ndikuti azilamuliridwa ndi amuna otentha.
Kodi tingaimbe mlandu malingaliro athu potengeka ndi dongosolo ili? Ndani safuna kuti azilamuliridwa ndi munthu wotentha?
4. Kuzengereza
Akukufunani ndipo mukumva kuti mumamukondanso koma simukufuna kuchita tchimo! Amakukakamizani pakona, kukukhomani ndi kukupsopsonani. Amadzikakamiza mpaka pomwe sungathenso kumenya nkhondo.
Kukula kwa zochitikazi ndichinthu chomwe akazi ena amakonda. Ndikulingalira zakutengedwa motsutsana ndi chifuniro chanu zomwe zimakusangalatsaninso kuposa zomwe mumakhulupirira ndipo ndizongopeka zogonana zomwe ndizofala kwambiri kwa azimayi amisinkhu yonse.
5. Mtsikana pa zochita za atsikana
Pali azimayi ena omwe amatsegulidwanso ndi malingaliro oti azigonana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Ndizosangalatsa komanso zimadzutsa nthawi yomweyo.
Ichi ndichinthu chomwe amuna angakonde kuwona.
Zolingalira zakuda kwambiri za akazi zomwe zingakusokonezeni inu!
Ngati mukuganiza kuti kudziwa malingaliro abwino kwambiri a mkazi wokwatiwa kukupangitsani kukhala otentha, ndiye konzekerani kudziwa malingaliro abwino kwambiri azakugonana omwe angakhalepo.
Kwa amuna omwe akuwerenga izi, mutha kumuthandiza?
1.Kusakhulupirika
Shhh! Chimodzi mwazinthu zodziwika bwino kwambiri za mkazi wokwatiwa ndikuchita kusakhulupirika. Anyamata, musadabwe, tonse tikudziwa kuti mukuganiziranso za kuchitadi izi.
Pali malingaliro okhumudwitsa awa ogonana ndi mnyamata wina kupatula mnzanu. Atha kukhala woyendetsa wanu wotentha, mlamu, kapenanso mnzanu wapabanja, chisangalalocho chakhala chokwanira kale kuti musangalatse kugonana.
2. Kugonana ndi mlendo
Ingoganizirani kuti mukukopeka ndi munthu wina yemwe simunamudziwe ndipo akubwezerani? Kuledzera? Bwino! Amakugwira ndikukutenga! Simungathe kudzithandiza nokha koma mverani zofuna zanu!
Tsopano, mukumvetsetsa chifukwa chake iyi ndi imodzi mwazinthu zodziwika bwino kwambiri zogonana za akazi?
3. Kugonana ndi EX wanu
Amuna samakwiya pano apa chabwino?
Zachidziwikire, okwatirana anu sangafune kubwereranso ndi akazi awo akale koma akuganiza zogonana nawo kachiwiri - ndi nkhani ina. Ndikulingalira zakugonana komwe mudagawana komwe kumadzutsa chilimbikitso, kuphatikiza kuti mwakwatirana kumapangitsa kukhala kosangalatsa ndipo mubwerera kuzinthu zosakhulupirika za kusakhulupirika.
4. Kugonana ndi amuna angapo
Mungadabwe kudziwa momwe azimayi ena amakondwerera. Mulole akhale atatu kapena kupitilira apo! Ndizosangalatsa zakugonana zomwe amayi ambiri amabisala ngakhale ndi anzawo.
Sitikufuna anzathu akhale ndi lingaliro lolakwika, sichoncho?
Kodi mukufuna kuti malingaliro azakugonana awa akwaniritsidwe osasokoneza ubale wanu kapena ulemu wanu? Ndiye kuchita masewero ndi yankho lanu.
Lolani nokha ndi mnzanu kuti muzilankhula momasuka. Khalani omasuka polankhula zazabwino izi ndikugwirizana kuti mudzayeseze - onetsetsani kuti nonse simutenga chilichonse pano.
Imeneyi ndi njira yabwino yobweretsera chikondi ndipo ingalimbikitsenso mgwirizano pakati pa okwatirana.
Masewero monga kuperekera chibwenzi ndi mkazi wosungulumwa ndichimodzi mwazinthu zodziwika bwino kwambiri za mkazi wokwatiwa zomwe amuna ndi akazi angachite mosavuta.
Izi zidzasangalatsa moyo wanu wogonana komanso zikuthandizani kuti inu ndi mnzanu musangalale ndi chiwerewere chomwe mwapeza.