Zamkati
- Dziwani bwino kwambiri
- Kambiranani zomwe mukuyembekezera m'banja
- Lankhulani za tsogolo lanu
- Onaninso momwe mungathetsere kusamvana
- Kumbukirani tsiku lanu laukwati
- Khalani othokoza
Posachedwa kuti akwatire? Nazi zinthu zofunika kuziganizira musanalowe m'banja.
Mu chisangalalo cha kukonzekera ukwati, maanja amatha kuganizira kwambiri za "ukwati" ndikunyalanyaza tanthauzo la "ukwati". Kungakhale kulakwitsa.
Ukwati watha m'maola ochepa. Ukwati umakhala moyo wonse. Komabe anthu ambiri amatha miyezi akukonzekera ukwati osaganizira mozama momwe angapangire ukwati wokongola.
Nazi zinthu zina zofunika kuchita musanalowe m'banja zomwe zingakuthandizeni pokonzekera ukwati.
Dziwani bwino kwambiri
Nthawi yayitali pakati pa tsiku loyamba ndi ukwati ndi pafupifupi miyezi 25. Izi ndi zaka ziwiri momwe maanja amachokera pa "moni" kupita "Ndimatero." Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi imeneyo kuti muphunzire za mnzanu.
Zina mwazomwe mungachite musanakwatirane ndikuti muziyenda limodzi, kuchita zovuta limodzi, kudziyika nokha pamalo omwe simungakwanitse kuchita, ndikuwona momwe mumathandizirana wina ndi mnzake mukatopa, mutakwiya, mukudwala.
Kodi izi zingakuthandizeni bwanji pokonzekera ukwati?
Kupyolera muzochitikira izi, mukadatero onani momwe mnzanu amachitira ndi nkhani yabwino komanso yoyipa, amatani ndi nkhawa, ndi zochitika zosadziwika, ndi zosintha zomwe sangathe kuzilamulira.
Mutha kudziwa zambiri za momwe banja lanu lidzakhalire mukamadziwana kwa nthawi yayitali. Musalole kutengeka ndi kutengeka kukusokonezeni inu ndi mbendera zofiira zilizonse.
Ndipo pamene mbendera zofiira ziwoneke (ndipo zitero), ziyankhani. Osalakwitsa kuganiza kuti zinthu zidzatha mukadzakwatirana.
Mukamakonzekera ukwati, kukambirana za izi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yolankhulirana yomwe mungafune mmoyo wanu wabanja.
Onetsetsani momwe mumagwiritsira ntchito izi tsopano, musanalowe m'banja. Ngati muli ndi vuto lakusamvana, chitha kukhala chisonyezo kuti mukuyenera kubweretsa thandizo lina lakunja ngati mlangizi wapaukwati.
Mlangizi atha kukuthandizani kukonzekera ukwati pokuphunzitsani zida zofunika kuthana ndi mavuto m'njira yopindulitsa.
Zalangizidwa - Asanakwatirane
Kambiranani zomwe mukuyembekezera m'banja
Ndi zinthu ziti zomwe muyenera kukambirana musanalowe m'banja? Mutha kuyamba ndi kukambirana zomwe mukuyembekezera kupanga m'banja lanu.
Mukamakhala pachibwenzi ndikudziwana bwino, kukambirana komwe mungafune kubwerera nthawi zambiri kumakhala koyembekezera.
Kodi banja mumaliona motani? Kodi mudzagawa bwanji ntchito zapakhomo? Kodi bajeti yanu ingawonekere bwanji? Ngati ndalama zanu zopezera ndalama ndizosafanana, kodi izi zikuwuza kuti ndi ndani amene amalipira chiyani, kapena ndi ndalama zingati zomwe mudzapereke posungira?
Mukuyembekeza chiyani pankhani yolera, ana, ndi chisamaliro cha ana? Kodi chipembedzo chiyenera kutenga mbali yanji mu banja lanu?
Kudziwa zomwe mnzanu akuyembekeza kumathandiza pakupanga banja lomwe lingakhutiritse nonse, choncho kambiranani mosabisa, ukwati usanachitike ndiponso pambuyo pake.
Kukambirana zomwe mumayembekezera m'banja kungathandizenso kumvetsetsa momwe mungakonzekere banja lanu pachuma.
Onaninso:
Lankhulani za tsogolo lanu
Magazini amapangitsa moyo wabanja kukhala wowala komanso wokongola. Mumasamukira kunyumba yatsopano; Chilichonse chilibe banga ndi mitsuko yamaluwa odulidwa mwatsopano kulikonse.
Koma kuchoka pa kukhala wosakwatira ndikukhala mwadzidzidzi ndikukhala awiri sikusintha nthawi zonse. Muli ndi zizolowezi zanu (kusiya tawulo lanu losambira pansi, mwachitsanzo), momwemonso wokondedwa wanu (kodi angaphunzire kuyika chimbudzi pansi?).
Ndiye, ndingakonzekere bwanji banja musanakwatire? Ndi zophweka; musayembekezere kuti zizolowezi zanu zikhale chakudya cha ndewu.
Pokonzekera kukwatira, kambiranani za momwe nonse mungagwirire ntchito limodzi kuti mupange ndi kukonza nyumba yomwe mikangano siyizolowereka, komanso komwe kuli malo awiri.
Zinthu zazing'ono zikafika, lankhulani nawo. Musayembekezere mpaka chaka cha 10 chaukwati wanu kuti muwuze mnzanu kuti mumadana kwambiri kuti sataya zinyalala nthawi yoyamba yomwe mumamufunsa.
Adabwa chifukwa chomwe mudadikirira zaka 10 kudandaula.
Onaninso momwe mungathetsere kusamvana
Zoyenera kuchita musanalowe m'banja? Mvetsetsani momwe aliyense wa inu amathetsa kusamvana. Kudziwa masitayelo a wina ndi mnzake othetsa kusamvana ndikofunika kwambiri pamene mukukula limodzi.
Simungagwiritse ntchito njira yomweyo poyesa kutsutsana. Mutha kukhala ogwirizana pomwe mnzanu, mwina wina yemwe akuyenera kupambana zivute zitani.
Kapenanso, amapewa mkangano palimodzi, posankha kugonja m'malo mongowononga mtendere.
Kaya masitaelo anu ndi otani, onetsetsani kuti akugwira ntchito bwino. Ngati sichoncho, mungafune kupeza thandizo lina lakunja kuti likuphunzitseni momwe mungamenyetsere "chilungamo" komanso kupewa njira zosagwirizana ndi zochitika zotsutsana.
Nthawi yanu yocheza ndi nthawi yabwino kuzindikira zosintha zilizonse zomwe zikufunika kusintha kotero kuti nonse muli okonzeka kukumana ndi zovuta ndikutuluka mbali ina ndi chisomo ndikukula.
Kumbukirani tsiku lanu laukwati
Pakadali pano, muli pachikondi chokongola, chotulutsa endorphin. Chilichonse chomwe wokondedwa wanu amachita ndichabwino, ndipo tsogolo lanu limodzi ngati banja likuwoneka lowala komanso lowala.
Koma moyo umakuponyera ma curveballs, ndipo padzakhala masiku omwe ungadabwe kuti chifukwa chiyani unena kuti "ndimachita" kwa munthuyu.
Izi zikachitika, gwetsani chimbale chanu chaukwati, kapena yang'anani tsamba lanu laukwati, kapena tsegulani zolemba zanu ... chilichonse chomwe muli nacho ndi umboni wamasiku abwinobwino omwe akutsogolera kudzipereka kwanu pagulu.
Ndipo kumbukirani zabwino zonse za mnzanu, zifukwa zonse zomwe mumawakondera, ndipo mumadziwa kuti kunalibe munthu wina amene mukufuna kukambirana naye tsogolo.
Kukonzekera ukwati, rkumbukirani kusinkhasinkha pa makhalidwe a mnzanuyo komanso chifukwa chake mumamukonda, izi zitha kukhala zothandiza kwambiri mukafika povuta paulendo waukwati.
Khalani othokoza
Chizolowezi chothokoza tsiku lililonse chokhudza banja lanu ndi njira yabwino yokhalitsanso chisangalalo chanu. Izi zitha kukhala zosavuta kapena zovuta momwe mungafunire.
Kukhala othokoza chifukwa chodzuka pafupi ndi mnzanu, ofunda komanso otetezeka pabedi losalala ndi njira yosavuta yoyambira tsiku lililonse kuthokoza.
Kupatsa abwenzi anu mapulogalamu akuthandizireni chakudya chamadzulo, mbale, kapena kuchapa zovala ndi njira yabwino yothetsera tsikulo moyamikira. Cholinga ndikuti kuyamika kuyendere, chifukwa imakhala ngati chowotcha, tsiku ndi tsiku.