Zamkati
- 1. Kudzipeza
- 2. Maganizo abwinoko
- 3. Ufulu
- 4. Kukula msinkhu ndi chidziwitso
- 5. Chimwemwe
- 1. Kudzidalira
- 2. Chisangalalo
- 3. Maubwino otayika
Ukwati ndichisankho chofunikira kwambiri pamoyo, makamaka mukachiganizira kachiwiri. Gawo ili la moyo limafunikira nthawi yanu, khama lanu komanso ndalama zanu. Inuyo ndi anthu ena ofunika muyenera kupanga chisankho chokhudza chuma chanu, chuma chanu, ana, misonkho ndi zina zotere.
Tsopano, palibe ukadaulo wokhala ndi zaka zoti munthu akwatire. Ophunzira, akazi osakwatiwa, okalamba, akazi amasiye, amuna kapena akazi amasiye, osudzulidwa; onse akhoza kukwatira.
Munkhaniyi, tikambirana za zabwino ndi zoyipa zomwe mkazi wamasiye akwatiwanso. Kaya ndi wamasiye kapena wamasiye, nayi mndandanda wazabwino ndi zoyipa zomwe mungakumane nazo mukaganiza zokwatiranso.
Ubwino wake
1. Kudzipeza
Kudziwika kuti ndinu ndani komanso kukhala ndi mayankho kwa omwe muli, ndikofunikira kwambiri. Izi zimathandiza kuti munthu adzidziwe yekha ndipo zimathandiza anthu kuti atsegule kwa anzawo.
Pokhala wamasiye, mutha kuzindikira zinthu zina zokhudza inu zomwe mwina simunkadziwa kuti munalipo mutakwatirana.
Chifukwa chake, monga wamasiye, ngati mungasankhe kukwatiranso, mudzadziwa zambiri za inu nokha. Izi zipangitsa moyo wanu wokwatiranso kukhala wopambana chifukwa mudzatha kudzifotokozera momveka bwino kwa mnzanu watsopano.
2. Maganizo abwinoko
Kukwatiranso monga wamasiye kungatanthauze kuti mudzawona mbali iliyonse mwanjira yatsopano.
Zomwe mudali kapena momwe mudamvera mukakwatirana kale zimasiyana kwambiri ndi momwe mulili komanso momwe mumamvera kukwatiranso ngati wamasiye.
Chisangalalo chatsopano chitha kukupatsani malingaliro anu pazinthu zabwino. Komanso kusintha kumeneku kungatanthauze kuti ndinu okhwima kwambiri zomwe zingathandize kuti mukwatirane bwino.
3. Ufulu
Kukwatiranso ngati wamasiye wachinyamata kumakupatsani mwayi wachiwiri wosangalala. Ngati mulibe ana kale, kukwatiranso kumakulolani kuti mukhale ndi mwana ndi wokondedwa wanu watsopanoyo. Komanso mutha kukambirana ndi mnzanu ngati nonse mukufuna kudikira kaye musanakhale ndi ana.
Izi zingapatse inu ndi mnzanu ufulu komanso nthawi yambiri yodziwana bwino.
Komanso, ngati mukukwatiranso ngati wamasiye mtsogolo, inu ndi mnzanu watsopanoyo mwina mudakula kale.
Ngakhale potengera izi, nonse awiri ndi awiri mungasangalale limodzi. Sipadzakhala chifukwa chodandaulira za ana monga momwe mukadakhalira ngati akadakhala ochepa.
4. Kukula msinkhu ndi chidziwitso
Mutakhala wamasiye, mutha kuzindikira maudindo omwe muyenera kuchita nawo tsopano.
Kudutsamo zokumana nazo zazikulu, monga kukhala wamasiye kungakupangitseni kukhala okhwima komanso anzeru zadziko chifukwa cha zovuta zomwe mukudutsamo.
Chifukwa chake, izi zikutanthauza kuti mudzalowa muukwati watsopano monga munthu wachikulire komanso wanzeru. Izi zimathandizanso kudzipeza nokha ndikupangitsa banja lanu latsopano kukhala lolimba.
5. Chimwemwe
Ili ndiye phindu lofunikira kwambiri lomwe mungakhale mutakwatiranso ngati wamasiye.
Mkazi wamasiye kukwatiranso zingatanthauze kuti moyo ukupatsa mwayi wachiwiri wosangalala.
Osazisiya. M'malo mwake, gwirani zolimba kuti mulimbitse ubale wanu ndi mnzanu watsopanoyo.
Khalani ndi nthawi yocheza ndi kukondana ndi kusamalirana. Izi zingawonjezere chimwemwe cha anzanu komanso kulimbitsa mgwirizano wanu.
Zovuta
1. Kudzidalira
Monga wamasiye, mwina unazolowera kukhala wodziimira payekha. Kudalira wina kungakhale chinthu chomwe simukuchiwona.
Izi zitha kuyambitsa mavuto mukakwatiranso chifukwa zitha kuwonedwa ngati kubwezera ndi mnzanu.
Chifukwa chake, ndi kwanzeru kukambirana ndi mnzanu zakomwe mukumva komanso momwe mungafunire kudzidalira.
2. Chisangalalo
Kukwatiranso monga wamasiye, mwina simungamve chisangalalo ndi changu chomwe chimadza ndi banja. Ungakhale ukwati woyamba kwa mnzanu yemwe angakhale akuyembekezeranso chisangalalo kumapeto kwanu.
Komabe, kusowa chisangalalo ndi changu kudzachepetsa kuyambitsa pakati panu. Chimenechi chimakhalanso chifukwa chofala cha mikangano yomwe pamapeto pake imabweretsa chisudzulo.
3. Maubwino otayika
Mwina mukulandira ndalama za boma ngati ndinu wamasiye. Komabe, penshoni iyi idzadulidwa ngati mungaganize zokwatiranso. Chifukwa chake, uku ndikulingalira kwakukulu kwa anthu ambiri.
Atha kukhala osalolera kuti ndalama za penshoni zitheke, potaya mwayi wawo wachiwiri wokhalanso achimwemwe.
Lingaliro lililonse pamoyo limabwera ndi zabwino zake komanso zovuta zake. Chisankho ndichofunika popeza kuti wamasiye kukwatiwanso sayenera kuchitidwa mopepuka. Kambiranani zovuta zomwe mungakumane nazo ngati wamasiye kukwatiwanso ndi mnzanu.
Pomaliza, musaiwale kuti gawo lililonse la moyo limabwera ndi zovuta. Musachite mantha ndi zovuta zomwe mumataya mwayi wanu wosangalala.