Zamkati
- 1. Onetsani chikondi chanu ndi kuthandizira
- 2. Muzithandiza kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu akhale ndi mpata wochira msanga
- 3. Onjezerani zovuta zanu zokhalira limodzi ngati banja
- 4. Limbikitsani thanzi lanu
- 5. Limbitsani chikondi chanu monga banja
Ngati mnzanu ali m'gulu la anthu 10 pa 100 alionse achikulire omwe akuchira mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena mowa, ndiye kuti mwina mukukumana ndi vuto. Ndilo vuto lomwe nthawi zambiri limanenedwa ndi okwatirana akuchira msanga, monga ndidadziwonera ndekha pantchito yanga ndi mabanja amakasitomala pochiza mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Nthawi zambiri, wokwatirana ndi kasitomala yemwe akuchira chifukwa chomwa mowa mwauchidakwa angadzifunse ngati angawongolere mowa momwe angawonongere. Ngati mukufunsa funso lomweli, ganizirani zifukwa zisanu zotsimikizira kuti musiye kumwa nokha:
1. Onetsani chikondi chanu ndi kuthandizira
Kuledzera kumadyetsedwa ndi kudzipatula. Mankhwala ake ndi chikondi ndi kulumikizana. Okondedwa akamakondedwa ndikuthandizidwa kwambiri, chilimbikitso chawo chachikulu ndikungokhala ndi kuchira kwawo - ndipo thandizo lanu ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri lachikondi ndi kuthandizira lomwe lingathandize mkazi wanu, mwamuna kapena mnzanu kukhalabe olimbikitsidwa kuti achire.
2. Muzithandiza kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu akhale ndi mpata wochira msanga
Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti zotsatira zakubwezeretsa zimayenda bwino ngati onse awiri ali odzipereka pakudziletsa. Chaka choyamba kutsatira kumwa mowa ndi nthawi yomwe mnzanu amakhala pachiwopsezo chobwereranso, zomwe zimachitika mukakhala ndi zakumwa zakale, monga kukuwonani mukumwa kapena mowa uli mnyumba.
3. Onjezerani zovuta zanu zokhalira limodzi ngati banja
Ngati mumamwa mowa mwauchidakwa, chiwerengerochi chikukukhudzani: Maukwati omwe mwamuna kapena mkazi mmodzi amamwa kwambiri akhoza kutha ndi banja. Kafukufuku wa 2013 adapeza kuti maukwati momwe wokwatirana m'modzi yekha amamwa kwambiri (zakumwa zisanu ndi chimodzi kapena kupitilira apo kapena kumwa mpaka kuledzera) adatha ndi chisudzulo 50 peresenti ya nthawiyo.
4. Limbikitsani thanzi lanu
Ngakhale mutangomwa mowa mwauchidakwa, pali chifukwa chabwino choti musiye kumwa chifukwa choti zili bwino kwa inu. Kafukufuku waposachedwa wakayikira nzeru yodziwika bwino yoti kumwa tambula ya vinyo wofiira ndi chakudya chamadzulo kulibwino ku thanzi lanu. M'malo mwake, ofufuza akuti adamaliza mu Journal of Study on Mowa ndi Mankhwala Osokoneza bongo kuti maubwino azaumoyo akumwa "satekeseka ngakhale pang'ono."
5. Limbitsani chikondi chanu monga banja
Mnzanuyo atakhala kuti ali pachidakwa chomwa mowa mwauchidakwa komanso kuledzera, mowa umagwira ngati munthu wachitatu m'banja mwanu: zinali zopinga kulumikizana kwenikweni. Izi ndichifukwa choti mowa umapangitsa kuti mnzanu asamve bwino ndikupezeka nanu. (Tikudziwa izi kuchokera pakufufuza kwa makasitomala omwe amadalira mowa omwe akuwonetsa kuti mowa umawasokoneza kuti athe kumvera chisoni.) Tsopano popeza kuti mnzanu saledzera, nonse muli ndi mwayi wopitilira kulumikizana kotereku. Izi ndizowona zowona mukasankhanso kukhala odziletsa.
Anthu okwatirana ayenera kusankha okha momwe angagwirire ndi vuto la mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndi mowa pamene mnzawo akuchira. Amuna ndi akazi ena amatenga chidziletso monga njira yachidule yomwe imathandizira wokondedwa wawo kupyola "malo owopsa" obwereranso (chaka choyamba atalandira chithandizo). Mabwenzi ena amachepetsa ndi kumwa moyenera momwe amamwe (kungomwa kokha m'malo omwe amuna kapena akazi awo kulibe). Komabe, ena onse adzadzipereka kudzisunga kwa moyo wawo wonse. Njira yachitatu iyi ikhoza kukhala kusankha kwanzeru kwambiri, kutengera izi.