Zamkati
- Kudziimba mlandu chifukwa chothetsa banja
- Ndi kwachibadwa kulimbana ndi vutoli
- Osadzimenya
- Ana atha kukhala osakhudzidwa ndi chisudzulo
- Ana ambiri osudzulana amasintha ndipo amakhala achikondi kwa makolo onse awiri
- Pamene kholo limodzi lasamuka mwadzidzidzi
- Makolo ayenera kuyesetsa maluso awo akulera panthawi yopatukana
Kudziwa zomwe mungasankhe mutasudzulana kumatha kuthandizira kupanga chimodzi mwazofunikira kwambiri pamoyo wa ana anu; Kusiya chibwenzi chomwe chimakukhudzani kwambiri. Mwina mwayesapo njira zonse zothetsera ubale kuphatikizira chithandizo, kukondweretsedwa, ndi kukana. Koma kumverera kwa imfa ya moyo wowawa, chowopsya chamoyo chomwe moyo wanu ukuwoneka kuti mwakhala sichidzatha.
Kudziimba mlandu chifukwa chothetsa banja
Mutha kukhala otsimikiza kuti chibwenzi chanu chatha koma mukuchita mantha kwambiri ndi zomwe mungathetsere ana anu. Ngakhale kumasuka monga momwe ndikanakhalira wekha mwina njira zomwezi zimapitilira "kodi ndikuwonongeratu ana anga pochita zomwe zimawoneka kuti ndizofunika kuti ndipulumuke m'maganizo mwanga".
Kuyesera kudziwa ngati mukufunikira kuchoka kapena kungokhala mtima wodzikonda ndi vuto lalikulu, lotengeka mtima.
Mukuganiza ngati mwina chinthu choyenera kuchita ndikukhalabe muubwenzi, kudzimana chifukwa cha ana anu ndikulimba mtima.
Ndi kwachibadwa kulimbana ndi vutoli
Ubale umasowa ntchito ndikudzipereka. Ngati kuyesetsa kwanu sikungabweretse ubale wodalirika, wodalirika komanso wogwirizana; ngati mukuwoneka kuti mukugwira ntchito yonse ndikudzipereka kwathunthu, ndiye kuti mwina ndi nthawi yoti musunthire.
Muthanso kulimbana ndi chifukwa chomwe ubale womwe umawoneka ngati woyenera udakudwalitsani m'maganizo, mwinanso mwakuthupi. Zomwe zimapezekapo pamalingaliro oyambira awa, mafunso omwe alipo alipo osiyanasiyana koma amakhala ndi nkhawa, kudziimba mlandu, komanso mantha.
Njira imodzi yothanirana ndi nkhawa iyi ndikuzindikira zomwe mungasankhe mukadzapanda kuleredwa kuti mupange zisankho zanzeru mokomera ana anu.
Osadzimenya
Ndi zachilengedwe kutenga udindo pazinthu zovuta, zovuta zomwe zimachitika m'miyoyo yathu. Ndikukhulupirira kuti timachita izi kuti timve kuti tili ndi malire pazovuta zomwe zimadza. Komabe, palibe chifukwa chodzimenyera chifukwa chokhala osavomerezeka.
Nthawi zambiri, m'moyo timapanga ubale ndi zisankho zina zofunika kutengera zolemba zathu zabanja kapena malo omwe tidakumana nawo tili ana. Ubale ukhoza kumveka "woyenera" kwa ife osati chifukwa ali athanzi koma chifukwa ndi ozolowereka, kapena timakhala pachiwopsezo cha anthu ena komanso ubale chifukwa cha zomwe tidakumana nazo tili ana.
Ana atha kukhala osakhudzidwa ndi chisudzulo
Ponena za funso lakuvulaza ana polekanitsa, palibe funso kuti kulekanitsa ndikupanga mabanja awiri kungawakhudze kwambiri.
Adzakhudzidwa mpaka kalekale ndikudzipatula, koma sadzakhala opanda mphamvu kapena kuwonongeka chifukwa cha zomwe olemba ena anena.
Kulimbana ndi kuthana ndi zovuta ndi gawo la moyo, osati mankhwala olephera.
Ana ambiri osudzulana amasintha ndipo amakhala achikondi kwa makolo onse awiri
Amatenga zabwino kwambiri kuchokera pazomwe kholo lililonse limapereka ndikupambana. Zowonongeka zakugawanikaku ndizomwe zimayambitsidwa chifukwa cha chisudzulo pambuyo pa chisudzulo pakati pa makolo. Ana omwe amawonetsa mavuto kusukulu komanso mavuto atatha banja atha kukhala pachiwopsezo pakati pa makolo.
Makolo omwe amakambirana zenizeni zakusudzulana ndi makhothi am'banja ndi ana amawononga kwambiri ndipo samamvetsetsa pang'ono zakufunika kuchitira zabwino ana awo.
Pamene kholo limodzi lasamuka mwadzidzidzi
M'mbuyomu, mikhalidwe yodziwika yopatukana yakhala yoti kholo limodzi lituluka mwadzidzidzi panyumba. Zitha kutenga milungu kapena miyezi kuti nthawi yofikira ana ikwaniritsidwe. Pakadali pano, chisokonezo chomwe chimakhalapo chifukwa chosowa mwayi kwa ana komanso / kapena magawidwe azinthu zanyumba zitha kukulirakulira.
Njira "yodabwitsayi ndi mantha" pamakonzedwe apanyumba ziwiri itha kusokoneza kwambiri ana ngakhale atawona kupatukana kukubwera.
Makolo ayenera kuyesetsa maluso awo akulera panthawi yopatukana
Mkhalidwe wapano wopatukana ndi makolo ambiri pambuyo pake umasiya zofunikira kwambiri pakupanga malo abwino kwa ana. Nthawi zambiri, chisokonezo pakati pa makolo chimakhala chosowa m'miyoyo ya ana.
Ana amasintha pogwiritsa ntchito anzawo komanso othandizira ngati mabatani olira ndikulimbana kuti asadziimbe mlandu chifukwa chodana ndi makolo awo.
Nthawi yomweyo, chidwi cha makolo ndikumverera kuti akuvutitsidwa chimakwanitsa kupatsa ana chisamaliro chomwe amafunikira kwambiri panthawiyi.
Munkhani zotsatirazi, ndiona njira zodziwika bwino zokhazikitsira dongosolo lokhala ndi ana awiri. Izi ziphatikizira kuyang'anira mbalame komanso njira zina zachikhalidwe zakusunga ana. Banja lililonse lili ndi zosowa zosiyanasiyana. Palibe kukula kwake komwe kumagwirizana m'njira zonse kuti zilekanitsidwe. Kudziwa zambiri zokhudza maubwino komanso mavuto omwe angakhalepo kungalepheretse makolo kuchita zomwe angadzanong'oneze nazo bondo pambuyo pake.