Zamkati
- 1. Kukhudza kosadziwika kwenikweni
- 2. Nthawi yodzifunira wina ndi mnzake
- 3. Kuchita m'malo mongokhala chabe
- 4. Zodabwitsa!
- 5. Lankhulani za moyo
Sizovuta nthawi zonse kupeza njira yosonyezera kuti mumakonda mwamuna wanu. Nthawi zambiri zimatha kumva ngati kuti tachitanso zinthu zomwezo mobwerezabwereza mpaka kufika potopa. Ndipo ngati mukusoweka chonena, ndikulingalira kwachilengedwe kukhulupirira kuti nayenso watopa! Ndi pakadali pano muukwati ndikofunikira kuti mukhale opanga. Pali njira zambiri zowonetsera kuti munthu amamukonda komanso kumuyamikira; mndandandawo ulibe malire ndipo ulibe malire.
1. Kukhudza kosadziwika kwenikweni
Zitha kuwoneka zopusa kuphatikiza kukhudzana mwadala muubwenzi wanu ndi amuna anu. Kugonana komanso kukondana ndi gawo lachilengedwe laukwati, chifukwa chake zikuwoneka zowonekeratu kuti iyi ingakhale njira yosonyezera amuna anu chikondi. Komabe, zomwe amayi ambiri amalephera kuzindikira ndizosowa zogonana amuna awo! Kukumbatirana, kukumbatirana, kuvina limodzi, kugwirana manja - amuna omwe amasangalala ndi kukhudzana ndi anzawo ngati njira yosonyezera chikondi atha kuyankha chilichonse mwanjira izi! Khalani anzeru pamachitidwe anu ndi amuna anu. Mutha kupereka kutikita minofu kapena kugona usiku, koma nanga bwanji masewera amategi kapena kuyenda ndi manja kupita kugolosale yapafupi kapena malo ogulitsira kuti mutenge soda? Izi, ngakhale sizokwera mtengo kapena zopitilira muyeso, zimatha kuyankhula zambiri.
2. Nthawi yodzifunira wina ndi mnzake
Ndikosavuta kutayika mukusinthana kwa moyo watsiku ndi tsiku. Zomwe zimawoneka ngati nthawi yocheza wina ndi mnzake zimadyedwa ndi nthawi, nthawi, kuyeretsa, kuphika, komanso ntchito. Imani ndi kupuma. Sikuti mudzangopindula chifukwa chosiya chipwirikiti, komanso ukwati wanu ungakhale chimodzimodzi. Mukamacheza ndi amuna anu, khalani ndi cholinga. Simuyenera kuchita kulankhula kapena kuchita zina zachilendo, koma konzekerani kugwiritsa ntchito bwino nthawiyo limodzi. Mpatseni mpata wolankhula kapena wachikondi. Kuti mupange sapota wapadera, khalani ndi chinthu chakuthupi chomwe chikuyimira kutseka dziko lonse lapansi. Mwachitsanzo, kugwiritsa ntchito bokosi kuchotsa mafoni anu mukamacheza nthawi imeneyi - palibe mafoni am'manja omwe amatanthauza nthawi yochulukirapo nonse awiri!
3. Kuchita m'malo mongokhala chabe
Padzakhala nthawi zomwe amathedwa nzeru ndikupeza nthawi yosonyeza chikondi amatha kupsinjika. M'malo moyembekezera kufikira atapezeka, tengani zina mwa ntchito zake kuti mumusonyeze kuti mumakonda nthawi yanji chitani khalani pamodzi. Peputsani katundu wake potulutsa zinyalala ngati akuchedwa kugwira ntchito kapena powonetsetsa kuti chakudya chatentha komanso patebulo akafika kunyumba. Dulani kapinga ngati mufika kunyumba mofulumira kuposa momwe mukuyembekezera; ayenera kuti apepukidwa chifukwa chosadandaula za ntchito ina akabwera kunyumba madzulo. Amadziwa kuti nthawi yanu ndi yamtengo wapatali ngati yake, ndipo mosakayikira amayamika chifukwa chogwira ntchito mwakhama komanso adzakhala ndi nthawi yambiri yosonyeza chikondi.
4. Zodabwitsa!
Palibe chomwe chimati 'Ndimakukondani' ngati mphatso yanthawi yabwino. Kaya ndi maluwa kapena chizindikiro chaching'ono chomwe chimamukumbutsa za inu, munthu wanu ayenera kuti ali ndi mwayi wopeza mphatso yabwino ngakhale masiku angapo osasinthika. Kupatsana mphatso sikumangokhala chinthu chamunthu! Kumupatsa mphatso yapadera komanso yapadera kumatha kuwonetsa kufunikira kwake kwa inu. Kuti mukhale waluso kwambiri, mutha kukhazikitsa kosaka nyama ndi zina zokuthandizani. Mphotho yake ikhoza kukhala yophweka ngati keke yatsopano yomwe amawotcha kapena zimamudabwitsa ndi gofu watsopano yemwe mukudziwa kuti akuyang'anitsitsa. Mphatso siziyenera kukhala zodula kuti zikhale zopindulitsa - ngakhale sizimapweteka kumawononga zochulukirapo kwa iye kamodzi kwakanthawi!
5. Lankhulani za moyo
Koposa zonse, kuyankhula mawu amoyo kwa munthu wanu ndichizindikiro chosayerekezeka chachikondi. Ndi inu nokha amene mungalimbikitse mtima wake ndikumuputa malingaliro ake m'njira zomwe mumachita. Kugwiritsa ntchito mawu olimbikitsa komanso mawu olimbikitsa kungathandize kuti banja lanu likhale lolimba. Ndiye mumachita bwanji izi mwaluso? Kuyankhula ndikosavuta kokwanira, koma pangani luso! Bisani kalata yachikondi mchikwama chake kapena lembani kalilole mukasamba. Akawona mawu omwe mwalemba, mtima wake udzatutumuka podziwa momwe mumaganizira za iye komanso momwe mumamukondera.
Monga nsonga, samalani momwe amakuwonetsani chikondi. Mukamuyankha mwa kumusonyeza chikondi m'njira zofananazo, mungaone kusintha kwakukulu kwa kutentha kwa banja lanu. Zomwe zingawoneke kukhala zofunda pakadali pano zitha kutentheka ngati bambo anu akumva kuti amakondedwa komanso kuyamikiridwa m'njira zapadera komanso zapadera!