Zamkati
- Chimalimbikitsidwa - Sungani Njira Yanu Yokwatirana
- 1. Maluso osayankhulana bwino komanso kapangidwe kake
- 2. Palibe mikangano yogwira mtima komanso yathanzi
- 3. Simukuwona tsogolo limodzi
- 4. Mumakhala moyo wosiyana
- 5. Pasakhalenso kugonana kapena kukondana mbanja
- 6. Mumadzimva osatetezeka mu banja
- 7. Simukuwoneka ngati wolumikizana wina ndi mnzake
Ngati ubale wanu ndi wokondedwa wanu wagunda madzi owoneka bwino. Phunzirani momwe mungazindikire zizindikiro za banja losasangalala. Phunzirani momwe mungapangire chisankho kuti chithandizire kukhala bwino komanso kukhala achimwemwe kwa onse omwe ali pachibwenzi.
Ngati banja lanu likuwonetsa zizindikilo zoyipazi ndi nthawi yoti muwone zinthu, onani mbendera zofiira ndikuyang'anitsitsa ukwatiwo. Yesetsani kuwona zomwe zikufunika kusintha kapena kukonza m'banja musanapange chisankho chokhala kapena kusiya njira zina.
Chikondi ndiye maziko, maziko a ukwati. Palibe amene amafuna ukwati wopanda chikondi komanso wosasangalala.
Koma ngati simuli achimwemwe komanso osangalala muukwati wanu, simuli nokha. "Ndi 60 peresenti yokha ya anthu omwe ali osangalala m'mabungwe awo" malinga ndi National Opinion Research Center.
Kungakhale kovuta kwambiri kudziwa ngati muli mu banja losasangalala, makamaka ngati mwakhala pachibwenzi kwa nthawi yayitali. Ngakhale simunganene mokweza kuti muli pabanja lopanda chikondi komanso losasangalala, pali zizindikilo zina zomwe zikuwonetsa kuti banja ndilopanda chikondi komanso losasangalala.
Chimalimbikitsidwa - Sungani Njira Yanu Yokwatirana
Pansipa pali zizindikilo zina zosonyeza kuti muli m'banja lopanda chikondi komanso losasangalala
1. Maluso osayankhulana bwino komanso kapangidwe kake
Kusalankhulana momasuka ndichimodzi mwazizindikiro zazikulu za banja losasangalala.
Monga momwe kulumikizirana ndi moyo weniweni wa ubale wathanzi, kusowa kwake kumatanthauza kuti ubalewo ndiwosayenera. Simulankhulana wina ndi mnzake maso ndi maso ngakhale mutakhala pafupi. Mumakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zikwangwani ndi zolemba m'malo molumikizana ndi mawu.
Izi ndi zizindikilo zakuti kulumikizana kukuvuta.
Simungathe kulumikizana bwino muukwati wopanda chimwemwe. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mulibe chilichonse choti munganene kwa mnzanu. Pakakhala china chake m'moyo, kaya ndichokwaniritsa, chochitika kapena chochitika ndipo mnzanu si munthu woyamba kugawana nawo. Pali china chake cholakwika mu chiyanjanocho.
Kodi mungapulumutse bwanji banja lanu ngati muli ndi mavuto olumikizana ndi banja?
Kuthetsa mavuto olumikizana m'banja, kufunafuna upangiri waukwati kapena kutenga njira yodalirika yokwatirana pa intaneti kungakhale lingaliro labwino. Mumalandira upangiri wabanja woyenera kuti mubwezeretse chisangalalo ndi chikondi muukwati wopanda chimwemwe.
2. Palibe mikangano yogwira mtima komanso yathanzi
Ngati mwasiya kukangana ndi wokondedwa wanu, koma mukumva kuti ndinu akutalikirana kuposa kale, ndi chisonyezo kuti muli m'banja lopanda chikondi komanso losasangalala. Ndewu zimayambitsa kukondana kwambiri ngati awiriwo akonza ndewu ndikuyesetsa kukonza chibwenzicho. Koma kukhala chete chonchi kungakhale chimodzi mwazizindikiro za banja losasangalala lodzaza ndi mkwiyo.
Popita nthawi, pamakhala zokhumudwitsa zochepa zomwe zingayambitse mikangano muubwenzi wanu koma ngati izi zitathetsedwa zitha kulimbitsa chibwenzicho.
Ngati simukuthandizira kutengera wokondedwa wanu pazomwe angasankhe, ndiye kuti ndi chimodzi mwazizindikiro zowonekera kuti muli m'banja losasangalala.
3. Simukuwona tsogolo limodzi
Ubwino wa banja ndi chiyani ngati simungathe kuwona tsogolo limodzi? Okwatirana ali mmenemo mwabwino, ndipo kuwoneratu tsogolo limodzi makamaka mtsogolo ndi zochuluka za chisangalalo ndi chiyembekezo, ndikofunikira. Ngati simukuwonera tsogolo limodzi, pali mwayi kuti palibe chikondi muukwati wanu.
Komanso, ngati nthawi zambiri mumaganizira za tsogolo losangalala popanda mnzanu, ndicho chimodzi mwazizindikiro zosonyeza banja losasangalala komanso kuti zinthu sizili bwino m'banjamo. Mumayesetsa kudzitsimikizira kuti simusamalanso kotero kuti kupatukana komwe kumadzamvanso sikumva kuwawa.
Komanso, ngati mukuwona moyo wopanda mnzanu ndiye kuti zikutanthauza kuti phazi limodzi latuluka kale ndipo simunadzipereka kwathunthu ku banja.
4. Mumakhala moyo wosiyana
Simumakhala ngati banja panonso. Mumakhala miyoyo yosiyana, ndipo nonse ndinu okhutitsidwa ndi kukhalako koteroko.
Ngati mukumangika muukwati wopanda chimwemwe koma simungachoke, mumasankha kuchita zinthu panokha osafunsa mnzanu. Monga chimodzi mwazizindikiro za banja losasangalala, nonse simumamvetsetsana ndipo simukufuna kuperekana phewa wina ndi mnzake.
Simufunsanso mnzanu za malingaliro ake pazisankho zofunika. Mukakwatirana, wokondedwa wanu amatenga udindo wokhala bwenzi lanu ndi mlangizi wa zisankho zazikulu. Ngati salinso paudindowu, zikuwonekeratu kuti banja likusoweka chimwemwe ndipo nonse mukulimbana ndiubwenzi wosasangalala.
5. Pasakhalenso kugonana kapena kukondana mbanja
Chizindikiro chimodzi chokhudza banja losasangalala ndikuti simugonananso ndi mnzanuyo. Ngati nonse mukugonana ndipo mukugonana kosaposa ka 10 pachaka, ndi chizindikiro cha banja losakondana komanso lopanda chimwemwe.
Ngati simukuwonetsa momwe mumakondera wokondedwa wanu monga kupsompsonana, kukumbatirana, kukumbatirana, ndi chizindikiro chachikulu cha ubale wosasangalatsa.
Kupanda kukondana komanso kuwonetserana chikondi ndizizindikiro zakukwatiwa kosasangalala komanso chimodzi mwazizindikiro zomwe mudzasudzulane.
6. Mumadzimva osatetezeka mu banja
Mukamva kuti simukudziwa komwe mukuyimira kapena udindo wanu m'banja. Mukakhala osasangalala, osatsimikiza, kapena kuda nkhawa kuti banja likupita kuti, ichi chikhoza kukhala chisonyezero cha banja losasangalala.
Kusowa mtendere komanso mantha, kaya alibe maziko kapena zenizeni ndi zizindikiro za banja losasangalala. Mnzanu wosatetezeka ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wosasangalala yemwe akuyesetsa kuti apeze yankho la funsoli, momwe angakhalire ndi moyo wosangalala m'banja.
Kusatekeseka ndi kukayika ndi zinthu ziwiri zazikulu kwambiri muukwati zomwe zingakule mwachangu ngati mungalolere izi ndipo zingadzetse mavuto m'banja.
7. Simukuwoneka ngati wolumikizana wina ndi mnzake
Nthawi yomwe muli limodzi koma simuli kwenikweni, ndi chisonyezero chowonekera cha banja losasangalala.
Mutha kukhala mchipinda chimodzi, koma m'modzi wa inu akuwerenga ndipo m'modzi wa inu akugwira ntchito pakompyuta.
Simukumva kuti mukugwirizana ngakhale mutagona limodzi pabedi limodzi.
Nthawi zina, othandizana nawo amayamba kukhala motalikirana mamailosi miliyoni ngakhale atakhala pansi mapazi awiri.
Zonsezi ndi zisonyezo kuti banja lanu lili pamavuto.
Ngati mukuwona kuti simukuchita limodzi, nonse muli limodzi, koma muli nokha mukuchita zomwe mukufuna, ndiye kuti simukugwirizananso. Kutaya kulumikizana ndi mnzanu ndi chimodzi mwazizindikiro zapamwamba za banja losasangalala.
Chifukwa chake, izi zimafunsa funso, zomwe muyenera kuchita mukakhala osasangalala m'banja mwanu?
Kusiya ukwati ndi kowopsa koma nthawi yomweyo kupitiliza kukhala m'banja losasangalala kumabweretsa mavuto pamaganizidwe, malingaliro ndi malingaliro amnzake onse muukwati wopanda chimwemwe. Ndizotheka kuti banja losasangalala liyambirenso kusudzulana koma kukoka chibwenzi pavutoli kumabweretsa mikangano ndikupangitsa kuti anthu azidzidalira komanso kukhumudwa.
Pangani chiweruzo choyenera chokhudza kusankha kukhalabe osasangalala pabanja, kapena kuyang'ana momwe mungatulukire m'banja losasangalala. Mukangoona mbendera zofiira zaubwenzi womwe walephera, ndipo mupeza kuti mukunena kuti, "Banja langa laphwasuka", muyenera kupeza upangiri wa maukwati kapena chithandizo chokwatirana kuti muthane ndi mavuto am'banja mwanu, ndikupanga njira yoyenera kuchitapo kanthu - kugawaniza kapena kuyanjananso.