Zamkati
- 1. Amakulemekezani
- 2. Amapereka nsembe chifukwa cha inu
- 3. Mumagawana zomwezo
- 4. Chikondi chake chilibe malire
- 5. Achibale anu komanso anzanu amamukonda
- 6. Amakuwonetsani
- 7. Nthawi zonse amakumverani
- 8. Kukambirana naye ndikopindulitsa
Yerekezerani izi; mwangokumana ndi munthu wabwino kwambiriyu yemwe ali ndi mikhalidwe yonse yomwe mwakhala mukufuna mwa mamuna. Mumagwa chifukwa cha chithumwa chake ndipo mumavomera kupita naye limodzi. Ndizodziwikiratu kuti mumamukonda ndipo palibe nthawi yomwe muli pachibwenzi naye. Zomwe muli nanu ndi zokongola, chabwino, kwa miyezi ingapo zisanakumenyeni kuti chibwenzicho sichikugwira ntchito.
Mphindi yakudziyesa, mumayang'ana kumbuyo ndikuzindikira kuti panali zinthu zambiri zomwe mudanyalanyaza za iye poyamba. Mwinamwake, munachititsidwa khungu ndi chikondi koma tsopano gawo laukwati wanu latha ndipo mukuwona zinthu momveka bwino. Ndipo zikuwonekeratu kuti mudangokhala mnyamata wolakwika.
Mukudziwa kuti anzanu komanso abale omwe adakuwuzani kuti siabwino kwa inu anali kulondola. Sichirikiza maloto anu ndipo malingaliro anu pa moyo ndi osiyana kwambiri ndi ake. Zatheka bwanji kuti iwe ukhale naye?
Zoterezi nthawi zonse zimakhala zotheka ngati chibwenzi chimangokhazikika pamalingaliro. Ndipo kotero pamene malingaliro athamangitsidwa pamapeto pake palibe chomwe chingagwirizane. Koma chabwino ndikuti nthawi zonse pamakhala njira yodziwira ngati mnyamatayo amafunikiradi inu. Nawa maupangiri amomwe mungadziwire ngati ndi mnyamata woyenera kwa inu.
1. Amakulemekezani
Choyambirira chomwe chikuyenera kukuwuzani ngati ali mnyamata wokuyenerani ndi ulemu womwe amakupatsani. Zimakhala zosavuta nthawi zonse kudziwa ngati ali munthu waulemu ndi momwe amachitira ndi anthu ena kapena anzanu komanso abale. Amuna amatha kukhala otanganidwa kwambiri, ndiye ngati atachita zonse zomwe angathe kuti apange nthawi yoti mukhale nanu ndiye kuti akuyenera kulingalira. Popeza izi zikuwonetsa kuti amalemekeza udindo wanu monga mkazi m'moyo wake ndipo ndiko ulemu. Komanso, palibe chomwe chimapambana kuwona mtima pokhudzana ndi kuwunika ngati mwamuna ndi waulemu. Ichi ndiye chokhacho chomwe chingamulepheretse kukulemekezani pobisalira zinthu.
2. Amapereka nsembe chifukwa cha inu
Ubwenzi wabwino umapangidwa ndi anthu awiri omwe ali ndi cholinga chofuna kupanga zinthu pakati pawo. Ndipo chomwe izi zikutanthauza kwa inu nonse ndikuti mudzayenera kudzipereka kwambiri panjira. Chifukwa chake ngati munthu wanu akukayikira kudzipereka chifukwa cha inu, samakuyenererani. Chifukwa ngati ndiwe amene nthawi zonse umamuperekera nsembe, umatha kukhala ndiubwenzi wosayenerera. Chifukwa chake, zomwe amapereka kapena zomwe samapanga zitha kuwulula ngati amasamala za inu komanso thanzi lanu. Kodi mungadalire iye kuti adzakuthandizireni pamavuto?
3. Mumagawana zomwezo
Chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe nthawi zambiri zimabweretsa mikangano pakati pa maanja ndikuti amakhala ndi malingaliro osiyana pa moyo. Mutha kupewa kupewa kugwera mumsampha uwu pomvetsetsa zofunikira zake komanso momwe zimapangitsira kumvetsetsa kwake kwa moyo.Kodi mfundo zake ndi zofanana ndi zanu? Ngati sakumveka bwino, ndiye kuti palibe vuto kumufunsa kuti amveke. Zomwe zimakhalira zofunikira ndikuti zimaonetsetsa kuti zisankho muubwenzi ndizosavuta.
4. Chikondi chake chilibe malire
Timavomereza kuti palibe amene ali wangwiro ndipo chikondi chilibe malire, sichoncho? Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe zimapangitsa kuti amuna anu azichita izi. Akakukondani ndi zolakwa zanu zonse, ndiye yekhayo amene angakuthandizeni kuti musinthe. Ngakhale dziko lapansi likamaganiza kuti ndinu achabechabe, adzawonabe kufunika kokhala nanu. Ndipo izi zidzakuthandizani kukhala osangalala muubwenzi wanu kwa zaka zambiri zikubwerazi.
5. Achibale anu komanso anzanu amamukonda
Inde, ubale uli pakati pa anthu awiri koma musanaganize za munthu wotsatira uja, fufuzani zomwe abale anu apamtima komanso abwenzi amaganiza za iye. Awa ndi anthu omwe akhala mmoyo wanu kwazaka zambiri ndipo mwina amadziwa zomwe zili zabwino kwa inu. Amatha kukuthandizani kulingalira bwino musanapange chisankho chachikulu chokhudza munthu watsopanoyu. Komanso, onetsetsani momwe amachitira ndi anthu, omwe ali pafupi nanu, zikuwululirani umunthu wake weniweni. Ngati ali munthu woyenera kwa inu sadzangokulemekezani komanso anthu omwe mumawakonda kwambiri.
6. Amakuwonetsani
Amuna amafotokoza zakukhosi kwawo mosiyana kwambiri ndi akazi. Mwamuna wako sangakuuze kuti amakukonda koma adzawonetsa chikondi chake kwa iwe ndi momwe amakuchitira. Njira imodzi yomwe mwamuna angachitire izi ndikukuwonetsani kwa abwenzi ake apamtima. Mwanjira ina, ndiye kuti akukuuzani kuchuluka kwa miyala yamtengo wapatali komanso kuti amanyadira kukhala nanu. China chomwe akukuwonetsani ndichakuti akuyesera kuyika gawo lanu pafupi nanu. Ndipo amuna amangotetezedwa pazinthu kapena anthu omwe amawalemekeza.
7. Nthawi zonse amakumverani
Kulankhulana ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti mulimbikitse ubale uliwonse kudzera munthawi zake. Chifukwa chake, mukuyenera kukhala ndi munthu yemwe sangawononge nthawi zonse kuti achite zomwe inu mumafuna. Ayenera kukhala wokhwima mokwanira kuti amvetsere ndi kulingalira malingaliro anu pazisankho zonse zomwe muyenera kupanga limodzi. Khalidweli ndilonso lomwe lingakukhazikitseni inu monga chinsinsi chake komanso m'modzi yekha. Mudzakhala munthu yekhayo amene amathamangira kwa iye akakhala pamavuto ndipo amafunikira wina woti amuthandize kulingalira zinthu. Zachidziwikire, china chake chomwe mukufuna, ayi?
8. Kukambirana naye ndikopindulitsa
Tonsefe timayenera kukhala ndi munthu m'modzi yemwe timayembekezera kugawana naye za tsiku ndi tsiku za moyo wathu. Ngati mamuna wako si uyu ndiye kuti ubale wanu uli pamavuto akulu. Onani, kukambirana momasuka ndi njira imodzi yothandiza kwambiri yolumikizirana ndi aliyense. Chifukwa chake ubale uliwonse wabwino umayenera kukhala ndi malo omwe mumatha kukambirana chilichonse ndikulimbikitsidwa. Malo oterewa amapanga njira yotseguka muubwenzi wanu yomwe ingapangitse kuti mukhale ogwirizana kwambiri.
Ndikugwiritsa ntchito malangizowo tsopano kuthetsa mafunso onse omwe mudali nawo okhudza ngati munthu amene mukumuwonayo ndi woyenera kwa inu. Makamaka, izi sizingakhale zowonekera kwa inu pakuyanjana koyamba komwe mudzakhale nako. Koma muyenera kukhala ndi cholinga chofuna kudziwa ngati ali woyenera. Mufunseni mafunso onse omwe mukufuna ndipo onetsetsani kuti mumaphunzira momwe amachitira ali pafupi ndi inu kapena anzanu. Ndi izi, mudzatha kusonkhanitsa zambiri pa iye zomwe zingakuthandizeni kupanga chisankho chabwino.
John
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