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- Pezani mlangizi wazokwatirana kapena wothandizira ... Mwachangu
- Tsegulani chowonadi poyera
- Yesetsani kukhululuka ndi kuleza mtima chimodzimodzi
- Sichidzakhalanso chimodzimodzi
Anthu ndi opanda ungwiro. Popeza kuti ukwati umalumikizana ndi anthu awiri moyo wawo wonse, ulinso wopanda ungwiro. Palibe amene angakane kuti anthu azilakwitsa m'banja lawo.
Padzakhala ndewu. Padzakhala kusagwirizana. Padzakhala masiku oti, monga mumakonda munthu amene muli naye, simumawakonda kapena momwe amachitira. Ndi zachilengedwe. Zimabwera ndi kutha kwa mabanja kapena ubale uliwonse. Ponseponse, nthawi zosakhutira ndi wokondedwa wanu sizithetsa banja lanu.
Kusakhulupirika, komabe, ndi nkhani yosiyana kwambiri. Zochitika ndi kusakhulupirika ndizolekanitsa mitu yaukwati. Mwayi ndikuti mumamva kwambiri za izi, zilizonse zomwe mungakhale nazo.
Mutha kutenga ukwati kuti ndi wopatulika; chomangira chomwe sichiyenera kudulidwa ngakhale zitakhala bwanji. Chifukwa chake, mosasamala kanthu za kusakhulupirika kulikonse, mungasankhe kukhalabe okwatirana ndikuwongolera mavuto amnyumba.
Kapena ... mutha kuwona kusakhulupirika ngati kusakhulupirika kwa malonjezo omwe adawerengedwa patsiku lanu laukwati. Izi zitha kukupangitsani kuti musiye wokondedwa wanu ngati atakhala osakhulupirika kwa inu.
Palibe malo apakati pankhaniyi. Izi ndichifukwa choti kusakhulupirika kumawononga kwambiri komanso kumakhala kopweteka. Mulimonse momwe mungathere, mukuyesera kusunga kena kake: mwina kuti mupulumutse banja kapena kupulumutsa ulemu wa munthu wolakwiridwayo.
Tiyerekeze kuti mwasankha kupulumutsa ukwati. Kodi mungatani? Kodi mungasinthe bwanji zomwe zakhazikika muubwenzi? Kodi mungalankhule ndi ndani, kuti muchepetse mabala am'maganizo? Zitenga nthawi yayitali bwanji kuti mubwerere mwakale?
Mukufuna pulani yamasewera. Mukufuna upangiri womwe mungadalire. Mwamwayi, mwafika pamalo oyenera
Pezani mlangizi wazokwatirana kapena wothandizira ... Mwachangu
Akatswiriwa amatenga gawo lachinsinsi, woweruza komanso wopereka malo otetezeka. Simungayese kuyendetsa nokha mavuto omwe mwakumana nawo pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika. Si chinsinsi kuti mwina nonse kapena awiri munali osasangalala muubwenzi wanu, zomwe zidapangitsa kuti mukhale osakhulupirika. Lolani upangiri wothandizila kuti akuwoneni panthawi yovutayi. Adzakupatsani zidziwitso zokuthandizani kuchira ndipo atha kukhala othandizira nthawi zonse munthawi zovutazi.
Tsegulani chowonadi poyera
Mukhale pamalo otetezeka omwe angakuthandizeni, onetsetsani kuti mwapeza zonse zomwe zikuchitika patebulopo. Ngati ndinu wachigololo, yankhani mafunso omwe mnzanu angakhale nawo. Ngati ndinu amene munaberedwa, funsani mafunso ambiri momwe mungafunire. Kusatekeseka ndi nkhawa ndizomwe sizingapewereke pachibwenzi, koma pofikitsa chowonadi choyipa poyera, onse awiri atha kuyamba kulumikizana ndi mabwinja a ubalewo. Ngati pali zinsinsi kapena mitu yomwe simukambirana, nkhawa imakulirakulira. Mwina simungatero ndikufuna kudziwa zinsinsi zonse zonyansa, koma mwina zosowa mpaka ngati ndiwe wozunzidwa ndi chigololo. Simungapeze mtendere wamaganizidwe kuchokera pazinthu zomwe simudziwa zambiri. Funsani mafunso omwe muyenera kumva mayankho ake.
Yesetsani kukhululuka ndi kuleza mtima chimodzimodzi
Ngati inu ndi mnzanu mwasankha kukhala limodzi pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika, muyenera kuyesetsa kukakhululukirana.
Ngati ndinu wachigololo, onetsani kudandaula mopanda malire. Ngati simumva chisoni kwenikweni ndi zomwe mwachita, simukuyenera kukhala pachibwenzi.
Ngati mukuzunzidwapo, muyenera kumukhululukira mnzanuyo pang'ono ndi pang'ono. Simuyenera kudzuka tsiku lotsatira ndikupukuta mbaleyo. Izi ndizachilengedwe ndipo ndizosavomerezeka. Koma ngati mukufuna kubwerera m'chifanizo cha banja lachikondi, kukhululukirana kuyenera kuchitika.
Pomwe njira yakukhululukirana ikupitilira, kuleza mtima kuyenera kuchitidwa. Simungayembekezere kudzakhala osakhulupirika tsiku lina ndikukhala bwino tsiku lotsatira. Ngati mnzanu wabera, ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti mufunika nthawi yokhululuka. Ngati ndinu wachigololo muukwati wanu, muyenera kupereka ulemu kwa mnzanu, nthawi, ndi malo omwe akufuna.
Kukhululuka sikungathamangitsidwe kapena kukakamizidwa. Khalani oleza mtima panthawi yomwe pamafunika kuti mufike kumeneko.
Sichidzakhalanso chimodzimodzi
Simungasankhe kukhalabe muukwati mutachita zosakhulupirika ndikuyembekeza kuti "ibwerera momwe zidalili". Sizowona kapena zotheka. Kusakhulupirika ndiko kusokoneza kwakukulu osati ubale okha, komanso miyoyo ya anthu awiriwa. Nonsenu mudzakhala anthu osiyana fumbi litakhazikika.
Kuyesera kugwiritsitsa chiyembekezo chobwezeretsanso zomwe zidalipo kale ndi ntchito yopusa, kukupangitsani kuwononga zaka zambiri mukuyembekezera china chomwe sichingabwererenso. Chiyembekezo chanu chokha ndikugwira ntchito yofanana ndi chikondi chomwe mudagawana nawo, koma mosiyana. Asanachite chigololo, zonse zinali zatsopano, zatsopano, komanso zosadziwika. Ndikosavuta kuwona kuti kunyengedwa kumatha kusiya wina akusochera, ndipo pamakhala zotsalira zake zomwe zimatsalira pambuyo pake.
Simudzatha kugunda batani kuti muyambirenso. Inu ndidzatero, komabe, athe kuvomereza zenizeni zaubwenzi wanu ndikuvomera kupita patsogolo mwanjira yabwino.
Kusakhulupirika ndichimodzi mwazinthu zowopsa zomwe maanja angakumane nazo. Sizingatheke kuthana ndi chinyengo chomwecho ndikupeza njira yokondananso. Koma zimatenga nthawi. Pamafunika kuleza mtima. Pamafunika khama. Zitenga kuti mupeze mlangizi yemwe angakuthandizeni kukuchiritsani.
Pomwe zoopsa izi zakusakhulupirika zikuchitika, dziwani kuti muli ndi zosankha. Ngati mukufuna kukhala ndikumenyera nkhondo munthu amene mumamukonda, khalani okonzeka kumenya nkhondo ngati gehena.