Zamkati
- Kuyamba kovuta kukambirana
- Kusasamala kwambiri
- Maluso olankhulana
- Kupanda kanthu
- Kukonzekera koyipa kwa ma timers oyamba
- Kupereka mofulumira
- Kukhala ndi chidwi ndi msinkhu komanso mawonekedwe
- Zabwino kwa anthu otanganidwa
- Malo abwino kukumana ndi anthu atsopano
- Ndi wotsika mtengo
- Osapanikizika kuti musankhe wokwatirana naye
- Mwayi wokumana ndi mnzanu
- Kukanidwa kochepa
- Amakonda kukonda mawonekedwe osagwirizana
- Chibwenzi chothamanga chimatengera mawonekedwe ndi mawonekedwe oyamba akhoza kusocheretsa
- Simungathe kuwongolera omwe akubwera pamwambowu
- Kusiyana kwa ziyembekezo ndi cholinga
- Kusakhulupirika
- Makhalidwe ndi zikhulupiriro zosiyanasiyana
Kuchita zibwenzi mwachangu, komwe ndi kupanga machesi, ndi cholinga cholimbikitsa ma single kuti akumane ndi anzawo angapo nthawi yayifupi kwambiri, kwakhala kotchuka kwambiri masiku ano.
Kodi zolakwitsa zomwe ophunzira amatenga nawo mbali ndi ziti?
Kodi zabwino ndi zoyipa zapa chibwenzi chothamanga ndi ziti?
Munkhaniyi, tiwona chimodzimodzi ndikulowerera mwakuya kuti tione mavuto omwe angabwere muubwenzi wapakati pa okwatirana. Choyamba, tiyeni tiyambe ndikuwona zolakwitsa zomwe ambiri amatenga nawo mbali.
Zolakwitsa zomwe muyenera kupewa mukakhala ndi tsiku lofulumira
Kuyamba kovuta kukambirana
Kusakhala ndi njira yosangalatsa yoyambira kukambirana kukuwonani kuyambira ndi moni wosavuta. Njira yothamangirayi sikungakutengereni kutali ndipo munthu winayo sangathenso kuchita chidwi ndi zokambiranazo.
Izi zidzakupangitsani kuti mupeze zochepa kapena zosasangalatsa za mnzake.
Kusasamala kwambiri
Onetsetsani kuti mukupewa kunyalanyaza.
Kusasamala sikungakupatseni mfundo zambiri koma kukuwonetsani ngati munthu wopanda pake amene samawona mbali yabwino yazinthu.
Chifukwa chake yesetsani kukhala otsimikiza momwe mungathere popeza anthu abwino amakonda kukopa anthu.
Maluso olankhulana
Chifukwa chakuchepa kwakanthawi komwe mumapatsidwa pazokambirana zilizonse, muyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti zokambiranazo zimangokhala zokambirana osati munthu m'modzi yemwe amakhala gawo lonse.
Kulamulira zokambirana zanu kumapangitsa munthu winayo kukuwonani ngati wodzikonda kapena wamanjenje.
Kupanda kanthu
Sizachilendo kuti abambo azitsogolera, chifukwa chake mukamachita zibwenzi mwachangu, khalani ndi chidwi ndikuwongolera.
Khalani ndi malingaliro okhazikika pazomwe mukufuna panthawi yopanga zibwenzi.
Kukonzekera koyipa kwa ma timers oyamba
Ngati mutenga nawo gawo tsiku lanu loyamba liwiro onetsetsani kuti mwakonzekera mokwanira.
Funsani maupangiri azibwenzi ndi upangiri waubwenzi kuchokera kwa anzanu omwe adaziwonapo kapena muwone pa intaneti.
Ambiri mwa omwe akutenga nawo mbali, ngakhale omwe amakhala nawo nthawi zonse, azomwe amachita zibwenzi mwachangu amalephera kukonzekera mwambowu. Chifukwa chakukonzekera kosakwanira, anthuwa amadzidzimutsa pamwambowu ndipo pamapeto pake samapeza ngakhale malangizidwe azibwenzi pazochitikazo.
Kupereka mofulumira
Ntchito yopeza munthu woyenera siyophweka ndipo siyikhala yosavuta.
Mukakhumudwitsidwa ndi liwiro lanu loyamba, sizomwe zimachitika kuti deti lililonse lomwe lidzatsatire likhale chimodzimodzi.
Kumbukirani kuti mukufuna ubale wosangalala, osati ubale wodzazidwa ndi mavuto. Chifukwa chake musataye mtima msanga chifukwa kutero sikungakuthandizeni pakufuna kwanu kupeza munthu woyenera.
Kukhala ndi chidwi ndi msinkhu komanso mawonekedwe
Muyenera kukhala ndi chidwi chofananira ndi munthuyo komanso komwe mumakonda zinthu zosiyana ndi mawonekedwe ndi msinkhu. Kuyang'ana kwambiri mawonekedwe ndi msinkhu kudzakupangitsani kutaya amene mungakhale naye pachibwenzi.
Chifukwa chake nthawi yotsatira mukadzaganiza zodzachita nawo chibwenzi chothamanga, musatsatire paketiyo yomwe imayang'ana kwambiri mawonekedwe ndikumaliza kuphonya munthu yemwe akanakhala wokondedwa komanso wachikondi.
Khalani otseguka ndipo gwiritsani ntchito nthawiyo ndikuyesa kuphunzira za umunthu wa mnzakeyo komanso umunthu wake.
Ubwino wa chibwenzi chothamanga
Zabwino kwa anthu otanganidwa
Zochitika izi ndizabwino kwa iwo omwe ali ndi zochita zambiri omwe alibe nthawi yozungulira kuti akayang'ane madeti atsopano.
Ambiri mwa anthu amtunduwu samakhala ndi nthawi yocheza. Akayang'ana upangiri wa chibwenzi amayenera kupita kuzokondana zothamangira izi chifukwa zimatenga kanthawi kochepa. Anthu oterewa amapita kumisonkhanoyi ndi chiyembekezo chopeza bwenzi loyenera lomwe azikhala nawo mosangalala.
Malo abwino kukumana ndi anthu atsopano
Madeti othamanga ndi malo abwino kukumana ndi anthu atsopano omwe ali ngati inu pamakhalidwe.
Otsutsa, adzawona zibwenzi zamtunduwu ngati mwayi wabwino wokumana ndi bwenzi lomwe lili ngati iwo monga kucheza ndi anthu zenizeni mdziko lapansi ndizovuta kwa iwo.
Ndi wotsika mtengo
Kuchita zibwenzi mwachangu ndikotsika mtengo komanso kosangalatsa mthumba ngati mukufuna china chake chomwe chingapangitse kuti mukhale osangalala komanso nthawi yomweyo yotsika mtengo ndiye izi ndi zanu.
Osapanikizika kuti musankhe wokwatirana naye
Pokhapokha mutakhala ndi chidwi ndikusankha kusankha wokwatirana naye, wina sakhala wokakamizidwa kuti asankhe bwenzi lokhala ndi zibwenzi mwachangu. Chifukwa chake musapite ku chibwenzi chothamanga ndi lingaliro loti muyenera kupeza bwenzi.
Ngati mulibe mwayi ingopezani upangiri waubwenzi ndi upangiri wa chibwenzi, kenako pitani ku chochitika china chofulumira.
Mwayi wokumana ndi mnzanu
Anthu ambiri akumanapo ndi anzawo pa zochitika ngati izi ndipo asamukira kuubale wosangalala. Chifukwa chake khalani ndi malingaliro abwino mukamapita kumisonkhano yotereyi ndipo ngati sizingachitike momwe mumayembekezera, osataya mtima koma yesetsani kufikira mutapeza mnzanu woyenera.
Kukanidwa kochepa
Ngati zifukwa zina zomwe mwasankha sizikusankhirani, simudzakhala ndi ndalama zochuluka malinga ndi nthawi, ndalama kapena malingaliro.
Kuipa kwa chibwenzi chothamanga
Amakonda kukonda mawonekedwe osagwirizana
Chibwenzi chothamanga chimakonda otenga nawo mbali omwe ali ochezeka.
Izi ndichifukwa cha omwe akutenga nawo mbali ambiri amayang'ana mawonekedwe a omwe atha kukhala anzawo m'malo mosiyana. Izi zimapangitsa omwe atenga nawo mbali omwe siosangalatsa kwenikweni kapena amanyazi, osalandira gawo lokwanira pazochitika zotere.
Chibwenzi chothamanga chimatengera mawonekedwe ndi mawonekedwe oyamba akhoza kusocheretsa
Munthu amene anakusangalatsani mkati mwa mphindi zisanu zoyambirira atha kukhala wopusa atakhala pachibwenzi milungu ingapo.
Nthawi ina mukadzachita nawo chibwenzi chothamanga, kumbukirani kuti maubale achimwemwe samachitika chifukwa cha mawonekedwe koma nkuti nonse awiri mukugwirizana.
Simungathe kuwongolera omwe akubwera pamwambowu
Zili ngati kupita tsiku losazindikira ndikutsimikiza kokha kuti padzakhala munthu woti mudzakumane naye.
Chifukwa chake nthawi zonse mukakhala nawo pamisonkhano yotere konzekerani chilichonse. Ngati palibe amene akwaniritse zomwe mukuyembekezera, mumatha kumva kuti mwangowononga nthawi yanu pochita nawo mwambowo.
Kusiyana kwa ziyembekezo ndi cholinga
Ngakhale zolinga zanu zokhala nawo pamwambo wothamanga zitha kukhala zomveka, zolinga za munthu winayo sizikudziwika bwinobwino.
Kwa ena zitha kuyiwala za chibwenzi cham'mbuyomu, ena kuti apeze bwenzi loti azisangalala nawo kwakanthawi kochepa pomwe kwa ena zonse ndi zongopeza wokwatirana naye.
Kusakhulupirika
Mutakhala pachibwenzi ndi bwenzi lothamanga lomwe simunatenge nthawi kuti mumudziwe bwino, mutha kudziwa pambuyo pake mgwirizanowu kuti ameneyo sanali mnzanu woyenera.
Zotsatira zake, maanja awa nthawi zina amayamba kufunafuna zokondweretsa kwina popeza sakukondana.
Makhalidwe ndi zikhulupiriro zosiyanasiyana
Wokondedwa m'modzi akhoza kukhala ndi zikhulupiriro ndi zikhulupiriro zosiyana zomwe ziziwonekera atakhala pachibwenzi chokwanira.
Ngati zosiyanazi sizinayende moyenera kudzera mu upangiri wa maubwenzi kapena kulumikizana kwabwino, momasuka, maanja amatha kutha ndikudzipeza komwe adayambirako.
Kuchita zibwenzi mwachangu kumatha kukhala kovuta kwa nthawi yoyamba, koma pakapita nthawi ndikukonzekera, pofunafuna maupangiri azibwenzi komanso upangiri wa zibwenzi mudzapeza bwino.
Njira yobweretserayi yathandizanso kukhala ndi maubwenzi okwaniritsa. Chifukwa chake ngati simunapange lingaliro loti mutenge nawo gawo limodzi kapena ayi, upangiri wanga ndikuti, pitilizani kuyesa. Mwayi wanu ukhoza kudikirira pamenepo.