Zamkati
Nthawi zambiri anthu amadabwa kuti zimatheka bwanji kuti azimayi ambiri amamenyedwa komanso omwe amachitiridwa nkhanza zosaneneka, koma amakhala ndi omwe amawachitira nkhanza. Ndipo ndi funso lovuta kumvetsetsa. Komabe, tikudziwa kale zambiri pazomwe zimachitika pakati pa wovutitsidwayo ndi womuzunza, komanso zazinsinsi zomwe zimasokoneza ubalewo komanso onse okhudzidwa. Komanso, tikudziwa zambiri za iwo omwe amazunza azimayi omwe amayenera kuwasamalira ndikuwateteza kuti asavulazidwe. Pali mitundu iwiri ya ozunza, ndipo onse awiri ndi ovuta kusiya mwanjira ina.
1. Mtundu wosachedwa kuziziritsa wamzunzo
Galimoto yamwamuna wake ikalowera, akumva kuti china chake chalakwika lero. Ndipo si nzeru zina zachilengedwe, ndikuti izi zakhala zikubwereza kwazaka zambiri ndipo akudziwa kuti nthawi yayandikira kuti mwamuna wake ataye chiguduli chake ndikukhalanso wachiwawa. Zakhala kanthawi kuyambira pomwe adamumenya, kenako ndikupepesa kwamasiku angapo, adalonjeza kuti sadzachitanso. Ndipo aliyense anaiwala za kupepesa ndipo mavuto adayambiranso. Lero, chilichonse chomwe anganene kapena kuchita sichikhala cholondola, adzakhala ndi mlandu pachilichonse, ndipo ngakhale atachita chiyani, zosapeweka zidzachitika - ayamba kufuula ndi kumenya nkhondo, akamayankha (ngakhale atayankha bwanji) adzakhala wankhanza, ndipo kuzungulira kudzayamba konsekonse. Uwu ndi umodzi mwamitundu iwiri yochitira nkhanza, omwe amakuzunzani pang'onopang'ono. Ngakhale pali chenjezo loti chiwawacho chibwera pamavuto omwe amakhala pakati pa wozunza ndi wozunzidwayo, palibe zambiri zomwe wovutikayo akadachita kuti athetse kupsa mtima komwe kukubwera. Amunawa ndiosavuta kusiya kuposa mtundu wotsatira womwe tidzafotokozere, koma ndizovuta kuti tisabwerere kwa iwo. Nthawi zambiri amapempha kuti awakhululukire, azitsata omwe awazunza, ndipo izi zimasandulika kukhala china, choopsa kwambiri, chiwawa, chifukwa amatha kuvulaza anzawo, kuwanyengerera, ndipo mwina kuwapha pomwe samayankha kupepesa ndi malonjezo.
2. Fuse fuyusi ya wozunza
Mtundu wachiwiri wa omwe amazunzawo ndiwowopsa komanso wowopsa chifukwa nawo sakhala pang'ono pang'ono pang'ono. Zonse zimawoneka ngati tsiku labwino kwa J. ndi bwenzi lake. Anaseka, kusangalala limodzi, kupita ku konsati ndipo anali kungokhala ndi tsiku lopambana. Ku konsatiyo, mnyamata wina adapita kwa J. chibwenzi chake chikapita kukamwa. Sakuwoneka kuti akumukana mwachangu mokwanira chibwenzi chake. Amawoneka wodekha kwathunthu pamene adamutengera panja ndikuthwanima kwa diso, mwakachetechete, adamugunda mwamphamvu mpaka adagwa pansi. "Osandinyoza" ndizo zonse zomwe adanena. Amunawa amachitapo kanthu nthawi yomweyo ndikupita kuchokera pa zero kufika zana mwadzidzidzi. Palibe chenjezo, komanso osawaletsa. Ndipo kusiya munthu woteroyo kumakhala kovuta kuposa mtundu wam'mbuyomu, chifukwa cha zifukwa ziwiri. Ozunzidwa nthawi zambiri amasangalatsidwa ndi anzawo mothandizidwa ndi matenda ena, komanso - amawopa moyenerera miyoyo yawo ngati atasiya womuzunza. Amuna awa amawona akazi awo ngati chuma chawo ndipo ngati samvera, sali kutali ndi kuwaphunzitsa phunziro.
Chomwe chimakhala chosangalatsa komanso chokhumudwitsa kwa azimayi omwe agwidwa ndi amunawa ndikuti, monga zikuwonekera, palibe kubwerera kamodzi pomwe nkhanza zikuyamba. Kaya ndi kuthamanga kwamphezi popanda chenjezo, kapena tsoka lomwe likukula pang'onopang'ono, "switch" ikangodumpha, palibe njira yothetsera mphepo yamkuntho komanso ndewu. Ubale uliwonse uli ndi njira yawoyawo, ndipo kuphatikiza kulikonse sikulondola kwenikweni. Koma chinthu chimodzi ndichachidziwikire - chiwawa chakuthupi m'banja ndichowopsa komanso chowopsa. Kaya ndi upangiri wa maanja kapena kusiya wochitiridwayo, china chake chiyenera kuchitidwa, ndipo chikuyenera kuchitidwa mwachangu. Gawo loyamba ndikukhala ndi chithunzi chomveka cha zomwe zikuchitikadi. Sichinthu chodutsa, sichitha, ndipo si chokongola kuposa momwe chikuwonekera. Chifukwa chake ngati mukuzunzidwa, pemphani thandizo, chifukwa mudzalifuna, ndipo molimba mtima thandizani zovuta zomwe muli nazo.