Maubale achikondi ndi omwe amapangitsa moyo kukhala wopindulitsa. Nthawi zabwino kwambiri m'miyoyo yathu ndizomwe timakhala ndi anthu omwe timawakonda. Ubale umadzaza miyoyo yathu ndikumwetulira, kuseka, ndi chisangalalo. Koma chisangalalo sindicho chokhacho chomwe maubale amatipangitsa kukhala nacho. Okondedwa athu, nthawi zina mosazindikira, amatipweteka, amatipangitsa kulira ndikutipangitsa kukhala achisoni ndi zisoni.
Koma kodi izi zikutanthauza kuti sitiyenera kuyika chuma chathu m'mayanjano? Ayi sichoncho. Zisangalalo ndi zisoni ndi mbali ziwiri za ndalama. Zisoni zimatipangitsa kuyamika kwambiri nthawi zakusangalala. Zovuta zaubwenzi zimapangitsa kuti nthawi zopepuka zizisangalatsa. Ubale umafuna kugwira ntchito molimbika koma ndiwofunika.
Nazi zinthu zingapo zofunika pa maubwenzi zomwe zingawapangitse kukhala osangalatsa komanso okwaniritsa:
1. Palibe chinthu chotchedwa "ubale wangwiro"
Pali zokwera ndi zotsika aliyense. Chomwe chimapangitsa iwo kukhala "angwiro" ndi momwe mumagwirira ntchito zotsika ndikupitilira.
2. Chibwenzi chilichonse chimafunikira ntchito yokonza bwino
Musayembekezere kuti zinthu ziziyenda bwino kwamuyaya, osachita chilichonse.
3. Kukhazikika ndikovuta pamavuto amibanja yonse
Zinthu zomwe sizimasintha, pamapeto pake, zimamwalira pang'onopang'ono. Zimapindulitsa kwambiri kukhala ndiubwenzi wolimba womwe umakula ndi nthawi, kuposa wosasangalatsa, wotopetsa, komanso wosalimbikitsa.
4. Ngati mumakonda wina, mumasuleni
Musawasunge mwachangu, musayese kuwongolera mayendedwe awo, abwenzi, zochita. Ichi si chikondi, zimangokhala ngati kuti akhale m'ndende moyo wonse osapatsidwa ufulu.
5. Lemekezani wokondedwa wanu pa momwe alili
Kumbukirani chifukwa chomwe mudakopeka nawo poyamba. Osayesa kuzisintha kuti zigwirizane ndi chithunzi chanu chongoganiza cha mnzanu. Izi zitha kukhala zosasangalatsa komanso zodziwikiratu.
6. Khalani oona mtima ndi omasuka
Palibe chomwe chimapweteketsa ubale kuposa mabodza ndi masks opitilira muyeso. Ndipo zimatenga mphamvu zambiri kuti zisamalire.
7. Osayesa kuchita zolondola nthawi zonse
Simungakhale. Ngati mukulolera kutaya ndikuvomereza kulakwitsa kwanu, ndiye kuti ndinu wopambana kale.
8. Lankhulani momveka bwino
Musaganize kuti mnzanu amadziwa zomwe mukuganiza komanso zomwe mukufuna.
9. Sungani malonjezo anu ndikukwaniritsa malonjezo anu
Kusunga malonjezo anu kumapangitsa mnzanu kuona kuti ndi ofunika kwa inu.
10. Sangalalani ndi kuseka nthawi zambiri
Osatupa thukuta pazinthu zazing'ono. Ndipo, moona mtima, chilichonse ndichinthu chaching'ono.
Zinthu 10 izi zithandizadi inu ndi mnzanu kuti mulimbitse ubale wanu. Ikuthandizani kudutsa nthawi zovuta osalimbana kwenikweni ndipo zidzakupangitsani nthawi yanu yosangalatsa kukhala yosangalatsa komanso yosangalatsa.