Zamkati
- 1. Kumbukirani makonda anu ndikukonda kwanu
- 2. Kutanthauzira kalembedwe kanu kaukwati ndi kuitanira kwanu
- 3. Sungani mitundu modekha osati mokweza
- 4. Onetsetsani kuti ndi zolembedwa
- 5. Sewerani ndi mawu
- 6. Musalemetse khadi
- 7. Khadi lanu liyenera kufotokozera tsikulo mokweza komanso momveka bwino
- 8. Khalani kutali ndi zomwe mukufuna
- 9. Sungani kuchuluka kokwanira
Kuyitanidwa ku phwando ndikowona koyamba kwa alendo anu tsiku lanu laukwati, chifukwa chake mukufuna kuti liwale.
Simukudziwa komwe mungayambire ndi khadi lanu loitanira ukwati?
Pomwe pano, tili ndi maupangiri onse oitanira kuukwati ndi malingaliro oitanira kuukwati omwe muyenera kudziwa za chidutswa chofunikira cha zolemba zanu.
1. Kumbukirani makonda anu ndikukonda kwanu
Maitanidwe achikhalidwe ndiye njira yoti mupitire- ndipo NO, SALI okwera mtengo monga mukuganizira!
Ndikukhulupirira kuti chifukwa mawu oti 'kalembedwe' ndi ofanana nawo, nthawi zina anthu amangoganiza kuti achoka pamitengo yawo.
Yang'anani motere, kodi mungakonde kukhala ndi chiitano chaukwati chomwe akwatibwi ena miliyoni adagwiritsa ntchito paukwati wawo?
Kapena mungasankhe china chake chomwe chingafanane ndi ukwati wanu ndi zokonda zanu zonse, zambiri, ndi zosowa zanu?
2. Kutanthauzira kalembedwe kanu kaukwati ndi kuitanira kwanu
Kuphatikiza pa kutchula komwe kuli, tsiku, ndi nthawi, kapangidwe kakuitanira kuukwati kuyenera kutchulanso zochitika zanu paukwati
Muyenera kukhala ndi lingaliro la mtundu wa zomwe mwaponya- zachikale komanso zovomerezeka, zosasinthika komanso zabwino, kapena zotsogola komanso zamakono- musanayambe kugula zikalatazo, kuti musankhe mtundu wa khadi laukwati lomwe limamveka chimodzimodzi.
Chifukwa chake, pitani kumawebusayiti a oyimilira kapena sakatulani maitanidwe achikwati ochokera kwa mabanja ena kuti musonkhanitse malingaliro kuti muthe kupatsa wozimirayo lingaliro lazomwe mukufuna.
3. Sungani mitundu modekha osati mokweza
Mungafune kuwonjezera zokongoletsa zanu ndi mutu (ngati muli nawo) mumaitanidwe anu aukwati - kenako muwasungire kuti musamveke pamapepala anu onse achikwati (monga ma tokeni operekera, mindandanda yazakudya, ndi madongosolo amwambo).
Ngakhale zonona, minyanga ya njovu kapena khadi yoyera yolumikizidwa ndi golide kapena wakuda ndiye njira yabwino kwambiri yoitanira maukwati, zikondwerero zokongoletsa kapena zachitsulo, mapepala, ma envulopu, ndi zipilala zomwe zitha kugwiritsidwanso ntchito kukometsa kuyitanidwa.
Mukasankha mithunzi, chonde kumbukirani kuti zitha kuwerengeka (zambiri pambuyo pake).
4. Onetsetsani kuti ndi zolembedwa
Osaganizira za kalatayo; mukapeza mitundu yoyenera ndi mapangidwe- tsatanetsatane womwe mudayika pa imelo ndiye cholinga chongozitumiza koyamba.
Zolemba zanu zitha kukuthandizani kukana ma inki owala pazakuwala komanso inki zakuda mdima wamba.
Ma yellow ndi ma pastel ndi ovuta kuwerenga mitundu, chifukwa chake mukamapita nawo, onetsetsani kuti chakumbuyo chikusiyana mokwanira kuti mukweze mawuwo, kapena muphatikize mitundu yapadera mu logo m'malo molemba.
Ngakhale, khalani atcheru ndi zilembo zovuta kuziwerenga ngati chiphaso chosafunikira- simukufuna kutaya kuwerengera zikalata zokongola.
5. Sewerani ndi mawu
Phunzirani malamulowo kuti muyitanidwe.
Pachikhalidwe, chinthu choyamba pamawu oitanira anthu kuukwati ndi dzina la wolandirayo. Nthawi zambiri mumalemba zonse, kuphatikiza tsiku lantchitoyo.
Nthawi zonse pamakhala funso lomwe limayikidwa pambuyo pa dzina laomwe akukuitanirani pamitengo yachikwati yachikhalidwe. Mafunso onga akuti "choncho ndikufunsani mwayi woti mutenge nawo gawo." afola.
Chilankhulo chidzasinthira momwe zochitikazo zikusinthira, onetsetsani kuti mwayang'ananso kawiri kuti mwayitanitsa aliyense yemwe akuyenera kuphatikizidwa.
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6. Musalemetse khadi
Pakhoza kukhala zambiri zazovuta pakuyitanidwa kwanu: tsiku ndi malo a ukwati, alendo, mayina a chibwenzi chanu, kavalidwe (posankha), ndi zambiri zokhudzana ndi RSVP.
Kuyesera kufinya kwambiri pa khadi yoitanira anthu kudzakupangitsani kukhala kovuta kutanthauzira ndipo sikuwoneka kokongola.
Siyani zinthu monga mayendedwe opita kumalo anu achikwati ndi mafotokozedwe azokondwerera pambuyo paukwati patsamba lanu laukwati kapena muziwasindikiza pamapepala osiyanasiyana.
Njira yokhayo yoyenera kutchulira zowonjezera zaukwati ili patsamba laukwati.
7. Khadi lanu liyenera kufotokozera tsikulo mokweza komanso momveka bwino
Phatikizani zambiri za RSVP pakona yakumanja kwa imelo yanu, kapena pa emvulopu ina, ndi lolani nthawi yopitilira milungu itatu kapena inayi kuchokera pomwe oitanidwa atumizidwa.
Chotsatira, kambiranani ndi omwe amakupatsani zakudya kuti mudziwe nthawi yomwe chiwonetsero chomaliza chidzayembekezeredwe.
Kumbukirani: Nthawi yochuluka yomwe mumapereka alendo kuti ayankhe, nthawi zambiri amaiwala - koma mufunika nthawi kuti mupange tchati chokhala.
Kuphatikiza apo, kuwerengera kwanu komaliza kungakhudze kuchuluka kwa zinthu zapakatikati ndi zina zokongoletsa zomwe ogulitsa anu adzafunika kumaliza milungu ingapo ukwati usanachitike.
8. Khalani kutali ndi zomwe mukufuna
Maitanidwe aukwati amatanthauza kuphunzitsa alendowo, chifukwa chake, muyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti mumachita zomwezo!
Phatikizani mayina anu ndi anzanu, mayina a alendo, malo ndi zovala. Ngati mukufuna, mutha kuphatikiza ulalowu, koma ngati muli ndi khadi lowongolera, simukufunika.
Mwanjira imeneyi, nthawi zonse ndibwino kuti muphatikizire pakuyitanira kwanu chizindikiritso. Idzagwira ntchito yopereka zambiri kwa alendo anu kuposa momwe zenizeni zingakhalire.
Ndipo onjezerani tsamba laukwati!
9. Sungani kuchuluka kokwanira
Kumbukirani, simusowa kuyitanitsa kuitana kumodzi pagulu lanu la alendo kwa WONSE wogwiritsa ntchito. Ambiri mwa anthu omwe mukuwasunga adzakhala mabanja, ndipo ndikutsimikiza kuti ambiri mwa anthuwa amakhala malo omwewo.
Chifukwa chake mukamadandaula kuti ndi angati omwe angatumize, ingodulirani theka la alendo, ndipo mudzapeza kuyerekezera koyenera.
Nthawi zonse mumafuna kuwonetsetsa kuti mwawerenga komaliza, ndipo muitanitsanso maitanidwe owonjezera a ukwati kuti adzawonjezere!
Ngakhale mutagawanitsa mndandanda wa alendo kukhala mndandanda wa A ndi B, onetsetsani kuti muli ndi mayitanidwe owonjezera kuti mupereke mndandanda wa B ngati muli ndi RSVP mndandanda wa alendo omwe ali ndi 'ayi'!
Kumbukirani zinthu izi, ndipo sangalalani tsiku lalikulu kwambiri pamoyo wanu popanda zovuta zilizonse pankhope pa alendo anu.