Zamkati
- 1) Kambiranani za izi
- 2) Gwiritsani ntchito limodzi
- 3) Landirani kufuna
- 4) Pitani paulendo wakumunda
- 5) Pezani zida zina
Tivomerezane; kugonana kumatha kukhala kosangalatsa nthawi zina. Ma oxytocin ndi ma pheromones atangomaliza zinthu zomwe timachita ngati banja sizimasangalatsanso monga kale. Izi kapena sitimamva ngati olumikizana komanso osagonana kwambiri. Zimachitika kwa opambana a ife. Anthu ena amakhala ndi chizolowezi chogonana, pomwe ena amasankha zosiyana. Ndikukhulupirira kuti zonsezi zitha kukhala zowona nthawi imodzi.
Komabe, ngati mukumva ngati inu ndi mnzanu muli pachigololo pano pali zinthu zisanu zomwe mungachite kuti musinthe moyo wanu wogonana.
1) Kambiranani za izi
Nthawi zambiri maanja amakhala ndi vuto polankhulana zakukhosi kwawo. Zingakhalenso zovuta kuwongolera ndikuuza mnzathu zomwe timakonda. Tonsefe timadziwa kuti anzathu samatha kuwerenga nthawi yomweyo timaganiza kuti akudziwa momwe tikumvera kapena china chake chikugwira ntchito kapena sichikutigwirira ntchito. Chilichonse chomwe mungakonde (pafupipafupi, chizolowezi, nkhawa, magwiridwe antchito, ndi zina zambiri) zitha kukhala zothandiza kugawana izi ndi mnzanu.
Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, adzamvetsetsa komwe mukukhala komanso zomwe mukukumana nazo. Ndizovuta kupeza zomwe mukufuna ngati mnzanu sakudziwa kuti ndi chiyani.
Kumbukirani kuti kulumikizana ndi njira ziwiri. Nonse muyenera kuyankhula komanso kumvetsera. Anthu nthawi zambiri amandiuza momwe amapewa zokambirana zofunikira ndi anthu chifukwa "safuna kupweteketsa mtima". Dziwani kuti kupewa kuyankha zinthu zofunika zomwe zikukhudza chibwenzi chanu kumatha kukhala kopweteka kuposa kukhala wowona mtima.
M'malo mwake, tikupewa zovuta zakukhala pansi ndi zomwe wokondedwa wathu akuchita. Ichi sichinthu chophweka kuchita. Izi zikunenedwa, kukhala chete kumawonongetsanso kwambiri ndipo nkhaniyi siyothetsedwa.
2) Gwiritsani ntchito limodzi
Ndikukhulupirira kuti mabanja omwe ali ndi thanzi labwino kwambiri amachita zinthu limodzi komanso moziyenda pawokha. Izi zikunenedwa, mutatha kukambirana za zomwe zimakhudzana ndi kugonana / cholinga / cholinga chanu, kugwirira ntchito limodzi kuti muchite izi ndi kopindulitsa.
Gawo ili limayendera limodzi ndi gawo lomaliza. Nthawi zambiri, munthu m'modzi akamayesetsa kuchita zonse zomwe mnzakeyo akufuna kapena akumangoyenda simumapeza zotsatira zabwino. Izi zimasiyanso malo oti mkwiyo uzikula. Bwerani ndi malingaliro ndikugawana nawo. Yesetsani kubweretsa ena kuti azisewera. Kugonana kuyenera kukhala kosangalatsa.
Tiyeneranso kuvomereza kuti maanja ena atha kukhala ndi vuto poyesa kupeza njira zothetsera nkhani zofunika (kapena ngakhale kukambirana). Izi sizimawonetsa zoyipa nthawi zonse koma njirayi imatha kuthandizidwa ngati mungafunefune banja kapena wothandizira zogonana.
Izi zitha kukuthandizani kuti mupeze zomwe mungagwirizane ndikuthana ndi kukana kulikonse pazomwe zikubwera. Ngakhale titakhala osasangalala zitha kukhala zovuta kuyamba kusintha zomwe zikufunika kuti tikhale bwino. Thandizo lowonjezera lingakhale lopindulitsa panthawiyi.
3) Landirani kufuna
Nthawi zina zimachitika kuti injini zogonana za onse awiri sizikuyenda mofanana. Ngati ndi choncho paubwenzi wanu ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti simuyenera kuchita kukakamizidwa kuti mukhale ndi chiwonetsero chogonana ndi wokondedwa wanu. Muyenera kukhala ofunitsitsa. Anthu samayambira pamalo amodzi nthawi zonse. Wokondedwa mnzake akhoza kukhala wokonzeka nthawi zonse kupita pomwe winayo amatenga nthawi yochulukirapo pa injini yawo.
Monga banja, mutha kukhala ndi ma code osiyanasiyana kuti muwonetse kufunitsitsa kukhala pachibwenzi. Mutha kubwera ndi dongosolo lanu limodzi, lomwe limawonetsa kalembedwe kanu. Zitsanzo zina zitha kukhala zazing'ono ngati bolodi lowuma lomwe mutha kulemba "pa" kapena "kuzimitsa" kapena mutha kulenga zambiri. Kungakhalenso kothandiza kupatsa wokondedwa wanu malingaliro amomwe angakupangitseni kuti mukhale otseguka komanso okonzeka kuchita nawo.
Mwinanso muyenera kuyankhulidwa mwanjira inayake kapena mukufuna kuti mumve ngati wokondedwa wanu akufuna. Ngati mungawauze njira zina zomwe mukufuna kuti anene izi zitha kuwathandiza kukwaniritsa zosowa zanu bwino.
Nthawi yomweyo, ngati mnzanu alankhula sakufuna kukhala pachibwenzi ndikofunika kuti muzilemekeza izi ndikupewa kuyesa kuwakakamiza. Kuwakanikiza nthawi zambiri kumawonjezera magawano m'malo mongolimbikira. Ngakhale mutakhala okwatirana kapena mwakhala limodzi zaka zambiri, kuvomereza ndichinthu chofunikira pamoyo wogonana wathanzi.
4) Pitani paulendo wakumunda
Mutuwu ukhoza kumveka wosamvetseka koma ndikulangiza kuti mupite paulendo wokapanga ubongo wanu wogonana. Kaya mumapita kutchuthi kumapeto kwa sabata kapena mumakhala maola ochepa m'chipinda chapamwamba cha hotelo nthawi zina kusintha kosangalatsa kumatha kubweretsa chisangalalo. Sikuti nthawi zonse mumatha kuthawa koma ngakhale kusintha malo omwe mukugonana kumatha kusintha.
Yesani chipinda china mnyumbamo. Ngati muli ndi ana, lingalirani zopezera wosamalira mwana madzulo kuti mudzakhale ndi chinsinsi komanso mudzakhala ndi nthawi yofufuza mbali zosiyanasiyana za nyumba yanu zomwe sizingadziwike pazomwe mumachita zogonana.
Lingaliro lina lingakhale kugwiritsa ntchito mapulogalamu omwe amakulolani kuti mupeze chipinda chabwino cha hotelo kwa maola ochepa. Izi zimakupatsani malo atsopano ndipo zipangitsa kuti nthawiyo ichitike mwachangu koma osapha chikwama chanu. Mutha kuphatikiza sewero poyambira mu bala la hotelo ndikuchita ngati nonse omwe mukukumana koyamba.
Izi zitha kukupatsirani mwayi wopanga luso la momwe mumaganizira za moyo wanu wogonana ndi mnzanu. Nthawi zambiri timavutika kuganiza kunja kwa bokosi pomwe tazolowera kukhalamo. Mungafunike kufufuza kuti musinthe ulendo wanu wakumunda kuti mugwirizane ndi zosowa zanu.
5) Pezani zida zina
Kungakhale kothandiza kupita kumalo ogulitsira akomweko kuti mukaone zoseweretsa zawo zomwe ali nazo kumeneko. Iyi ikhoza kukhala njira yofunikira yofufuzira zinthu zatsopano zomwe mungafune kuyesa zomwe mwina simudaganizirepo. Njira ina ndikulembetsa kuntchito yomwe imakutumizirani kusokoneza kwa zinthu zazikulu za akulu. Izi zitha kupangitsa zinthu kukhala zosangalatsa powonjezera zopindika zatsopano ndipo nonse mutha kusankha zomwe mukufuna kuphatikiza madzulo anu (kapena m'mawa kapena masana).
Kupanga mindandanda yazakugwiranso ntchito ndi chida chabwino. Izi zingaphatikizepo kuchuluka kwa zinthu zomwe mukufuna kuyesa. Mutha kuchita izi munjira zingapo zosiyanasiyana. Munthu aliyense amabwera ndi magulu monga ma appetizers, entrees, ndi mchere. Izi zitha kulumikizana ndi foreplay, chochitika chachikulu, komanso pambuyo pa masewera. Monga banja, gawani menyu yanu ndikusankha zomwe mungachite kuti muyesetse mnzanu ndi china chake.
Mtundu wina wa izi ndikuti muchite zobiriwira, zachikaso komanso zofiira. Green ndi zinthu zomwe mumayesetsadi, zachikasu zingakhale zinthu zomwe mukufuna kuyeserera, ndipo zofiira zimasungidwira zochitika zomwe simukufuna kutenga nawo mbali. aliyense.
Izi zitha kuwunikiranso maanja. Mutha kukhala ndi malingaliro amomwe mungakhale nawo pazomwe zikhala pamndandanda wa mnzanu. Zochita izi zitha kuthandiza kumveketsa zinthu. Ngati menyu anu ndi osiyana kwambiri kungakhale kothandiza kusinthana posankha pamndandanda wina ndi mnzake. Simuyenera kuchita zonse nthawi imodzi. Cholinga ndikumverera kulumikizana wina ndi mnzake. Kumbukirani kuti kumva kulumikizidwa kumatha kutanthauza zinthu zosiyana kwa anthu osiyanasiyana.
Sinthani moyo wanu wogonana ndikulimbitsa ubale wanu woyenera
Tonsefe timafunikira kukonzanso pang'ono pazolemba zathu zakugonana nthawi ndi nthawi monga zosowa zathu zakugonana ndikufuna kusintha. Onetsetsani kuti mwayankhulana limodzi panjira. Ndi gawo lofunikira pakukula kwa ubale. Kumbukirani kufunafuna thandizo kuchokera kwa okwatirana kapena othandizira azakugonana ngati mungokakamira kapena kugunda. Ndicho chida china choyenera kusunga mubokosi lanu lazida. Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zikuthandizirani kukutsogolerani kuti mupeze chikondi, kukondana ndi chibwenzi chomwe mukuyenera!