Zamkati
- Kusiyana pakati pa mgwirizano ndi ukwati wina uliwonse?
- Maubale ochita kusintha ndiwopikisana kuposa mgwirizano.
- Zogulitsa motsutsana ndi ubale
- Kodi umunthu wogulitsa ndi chiyani?
- Kusintha ubale wamgwirizano kukhala mgwirizano wowona
Ubale wogulitsa ndi nthawi yosangalatsa. Chinthu choyamba chomwe chidabwera m'maganizo mwanu ndichinthu chonga kukwatiwa kapena kugulitsa mwana wanu wamkazi kuti apindule ndi banja lanu.
Ubwenzi wogulitsa ndi pamene maanja amatenga banja ngati bizinesi. Zili ngati kuti wina abweretsa nyama yankhumba kunyumba, ndipo mnzakeyo amaphika, ndikukhazikitsa tebulo, kutsuka mbale, pomwe wopezayo amawonera mpira.
Udindo wachikhalidwe pakati pa amuna ndi akazi ndi zitsanzo zabwino za maubwenzi.
Onaninso:
Kusiyana pakati pa mgwirizano ndi ukwati wina uliwonse?
Kodi ubale wapakati pachiyambi ndi uti, ndipo chifukwa chiyani wachikulire wachikondi wamkulu akuyesera kuwononga ubale womwe anthu mamiliyoni ambiri anali nawo osasudzulana.
Pabizinesi iliyonse, mgwirizano umangoyang'ana phindu. Nthawi zambiri, anthu omwe ali mgwirizanowu amaganiza kuti ndikupeza chiyani.
Chifukwa chake tiyeni tifananize mawonekedwe amgwirizano wamgwirizano.
- Ganizirani zodzipindulitsa
- Zotsatira pazotsatira
- Kulimbitsa kwabwino komanso kolakwika
- Zoyembekeza ndi Chiweruzo
- Othandizana nawo amapikisana wina ndi mnzake
Maubale ochita kusintha ndiwopikisana kuposa mgwirizano.
Anthu omwe ali mu ubale wogulitsa amapereka ndikutenga, koma amasamala zokhala ndi zochulukirapo kuposa zomwe amafunsira. Maukwati owona samasamala za zinthu izi.
Zogulitsa motsutsana ndi ubale
Mgwirizano weniweni ndi gawo limodzi. Okwatirana samatsutsana; amaonedwa ngati gulu limodzi ndi Mulungu komanso Boma. Mabanja enieni samasamala zomwe amapereka kwa okondedwa awo; makamaka, maanja owona amasangalala kupatsa anzawo.
Palinso vuto la anthu kusintha akangokhala pachibwenzi. Ndi zomwe zimapangitsa zinthu kukhala zovuta.
Ndiye munthu amatani popereka zinthu kwa wokondedwa wawo popanda iwo kugwiritsa ntchito mwayi wawo?
Maubwenzi ogwirira ntchito amakhala osakondera komanso osakondera. Pali mitundu ya maubale omwe ali ngati ukapolo kuposa mgwirizano.
Maubale amgwirizano amatengera mbali ya ubale "wathanzi". Sizabwino, ndichifukwa chake ikulandila zodabwitsatu kuchokera kwa akatswiri azachikondi amakono.
Koma ubale wopatsana pogonana umamveka pafupi ndi uhule kuposa ukwati. Ndilo vuto lalikulu ndi ubale wogulitsa.
Maukwati owona ali pafupi kuthana ndi zonse pamodzi ngati chinthu chimodzi. Palibe kupatsa kapena kutenga.
Inu ndi mnzanu ndinu ofanana; kutenga kuchokera kwa mnzako ndikofanana ndikutenga kena kako m'thumba.
Kupereka kwa mnzanu sikosiyana ndi kudzipangira nokha. Zili ngati kupatsa mnzako zovala zamkati kapena zamaliseche.
Kodi umunthu wogulitsa ndi chiyani?
Pali ma mumbo-jumbo ambiri pamitundu yamaubwenzi apakati komanso umunthu potengera izi.
Kuti zinthu zikhale zosavuta, munthu wogulitsa ndi amene sachita chilichonse (zabwino kapena zoyipa) ngati palibe chomwe angapindule.
Zimamveka ngati zanzeru pokhapokha mutaganizira zachifundo komanso kuzunza komwe kumachitika padziko lonse lapansi.
Zinthu zambiri mdziko lino lapansi zimachitika mwakufuna kwawo kapena sizimatsata malingaliro anzeru - zinthu monga kupha ana, kupha anthu wamba, komanso mowa wosakhala mowa.
Munthu yemwe ali ndi zochitika zogulitsa amangopereka ngati angathe kutenga. Amagwiritsa ntchito izi kumaubale awo onse, kuphatikiza wokondedwa wawo.
Chibwenzi chogonana ndi pamene wina amasunga ma tepi pazomwe amapereka ndi kulandira kuchokera kwa mnzake.
Ndiwo mchitidwe, kutanthauza kuti ndi wozika kwambiri mumtima mwa munthu ndi umunthu wake. Sizoipa konse, ndichifukwa chake sizimveka kwa madokotala amisala azaka zoyera koposa.
Kwa munthu yemwe ali ndi zochitika zogulitsa, amawona maubwenzi onse, kuphatikiza achikondi, ngati ubale wophatikizana.
Kusintha ubale wamgwirizano kukhala mgwirizano wowona
Ngati muli pachibwenzi chotere, ndipo mukufuna kusintha ubale wanu kukhala mgwirizano wowona. Nawu mndandanda wazinthu zomwe mungachite kuti musinthe.
- Osatchula zolakwitsa zakale
- Musamawerengere zopereka zanu kubanja
- Osangotenga mnzanu ngati wopikisana naye
- Osamamuyang'ana mnzanu ngati cholemetsa
- Musalole tsiku kudutsa popanda kupereka kwa mnzanu
- Konzani zinthu limodzi
- Chitani zonse (kuphatikiza ntchito) limodzi
- Dziperekeni kuti musangalatse mnzanu
- Mvetsetsani kukayika kwa mnzanu
- Perekani moyo wanu kwa mnzanu
- Maudindo onse amagawidwa
- Ngongole zonse zimagawidwa
Ngati mudakhala ndi nthawi yowerenga mgwirizano wamukwati, akuti muyenera kugawana nawo zinthuzi.
Kutsatira malangizo onsewa ndikosavuta kunenedwa kuposa kuchita, koma machitidwe amapangidwa kuchokera kuzolowera. Zizolowezi zimapangidwa pobwereza ndikuchita.
Sizingachitike mwadzidzidzi, koma ngati inu ndi mnzanu mukuzichita, mutha kukhala chizolowezi. Malinga ndi kafukufukuyu, zimatenga masiku osachepera 21 kuti munthu asinthe chizolowezi chake kukhala chizolowezi.
Mwezi siwotalika kwambiri kuti muthandizane komanso kupewa zinthu zomwe muyenera kuchita. Ndizowona makamaka ngati muli kale pachibwenzi chanthawi yayitali. Ndikofunika kwambiri ngati mukufuna kukhalabe muubwenzi zaka zikubwerazi.
Gawo lovuta kwambiri pakusintha maubale ndi mgwirizano ndi kufunitsitsa kwa onse awiri kusintha. Ndizovuta kwambiri popeza ubale wamalonda ndiwofanizira, ndipo anthu angaganize kuti palibe chifukwa chokonzekera china chomwe sichinasweke.
Zonse zikalephera, mutha kuyesa njira zatsopano zokulitsira chikondi muubwenzi wanu.