Zamkati
- 1. Ndani ati achoke panyumba?
- 2. Kugawidwa kwa katundu
- 3. Kuyendera ana
- 4. Udindo
- 5. Nthawi
- 6. Kulankhulana
- 7. Chibwenzi
- Kutenga komaliza
Kulekanitsidwa kwamayeso ndi njira zosamveka zolekanitsira ndi zina zofunika. Mosiyana ndi milandu yoti mupatukane, ndichinthu chachinsinsi pakati panu ndi wamkulu wanu. Pamapeto pa nthawi yoyeserayi, malinga ndi momwe zinthu ziliri, awiriwo atha kupitiriza ukwati wawo kapena angasankhe kusudzulana, zomwe zingafune kuti banjali lipite kukhothi.
Posankha kupatukana koyeserera, banjali liyenera kukumbukira kuti mukasankha chisankhochi, pamakhala malire omwe akuyenera kutsatiridwa. Malirewa atha kuthandizanso posankha tsogolo lanu ndi mnzanu. Kusamalira bwino malirewa kungateteze ukwati wanu ku mikangano ndi chisudzulo.
Kukuthandizani kumvetsetsa bwino zomwe malamulowa ali, nayi mndandanda wa malire ofunikira oyeserera omwe inu ndi ena ofunika muyenera kuwaganizira.
1. Ndani ati achoke panyumba?
Inu ndi mnzanu nonse muyenera kusankha pakati pawo omwe achoka panyumba. Zili kwa inu ndi ena ofunikira pazomwe mungasankhe kuti muyankhe yankho la funsoli. Izi zimadalira:
- Ndani adagula nyumbayo
- Ndani adapereka zambiri pogula nyumbayo
- Ndani wa inu akufuna kuchoka panyumba paokha
Zomwezo zidzatsimikiziridwa nanu nonse popeza ndi lingaliro lothandizana.
2. Kugawidwa kwa katundu
Poyankha funso ili, "katundu" sangaphatikizepo nyumba kapena malo omwe nyumbayo yamangidwapo, komanso magalimoto anu, mipando, zamagetsi ngakhale mbale ndi zina zapakhomo. Apanso, kuti muyankhe funsoli, nonse awiri kapena awiri muyenera kusankha momwe mungayankhire funsoli. Monga wamkazi, mungafune kutenga mipando, mbale ndi galimoto yanu.
Ngakhale mutakhala wamwamuna, mungafunenso kutenga galimoto yanu, zamagetsi zilizonse zomwe mudagula ndi zinthu zina zofananira. Malo ndi nyumbayo zitha kugawidwa malinga ndi zomwe aliyense wa inu adapereka panthawi yogula. Komabe, ngati m'modzi wa inu anagula, ndiye kuti mawu ogawikana amayenera kulingaliridwa.
3. Kuyendera ana
Izi zikugwira ntchito kwa maanja omwe ali ndi ana. Popeza kupatukana kwa mayesero ndichinthu chachinsinsi pakati pa banja, inu ndi mnzanu muyenera kusankha kuti ndani asunga anawo kwa nthawi yayitali bwanji komanso nthawi yomwe akuchezere. Mwachitsanzo, amuna anu amatha kusunga ana nthawi yopuma ya Khrisimasi ndipo inunso mutha kuwasunga ana nthawi yopuma kapena nthawi ina. Makonzedwe onsewa amayenera kulingaliridwa bwino kuti achepetse mavuto ndi zovuta kwa ana anu omwe angakumane nawo chifukwa chodzipatula koyesedwa.
4. Udindo
Kupatukana kwamayesero kumabweretsa maudindo. Mwachitsanzo, ngati wina akukhala m'nyumba pomwe wina wachoka, mugawana bwanji mabilo? Komanso, ndani angakhale akulipira ndalama za ana kusukulu? Kodi mudzasamalira bwanji nyumba yanu ndi malo anu? Zonsezi ziyenera kukambirana nonse. Pokambirana za maudindo okhudzana ndi zachuma, maanja ena amadziwika kuti amagwiranso ntchito mofanana ndi momwe analili muukwati wawo ndipo ena amabwera ndi ena atsopano.
5. Nthawi
Mmodzi mwa malire omwe muyenera kuganizira ndi nthawi yomwe mudzasiyanane ndi mnzanu. Nthawi yayitali imakhala pakati pa 1 mpaka 6 miyezi kenako, nonse muyenera kuwunika momwe zinthu ziliri ndikupanga chisankho. Sizabwino kuti chibwenzi chikhale chokhomedwa pa ndowe.
6. Kulankhulana
Pakati pa kupatukana koyeserera, sikulimbikitsidwa kuti okwatirana azilumikizana kwambiri chifukwa iyi ndi "nthawi yozizira" kutuluka mkhalidwe wanu wosasangalatsa. Munthawi imeneyi, lankhulanani pokhapokha pakakhala kofunikira kwambiri. Kupanda kutero, gwiritsani ntchito nthawi ino kulingalira ndi kusankha zomwe mukufuna kuchita. Komanso, nonse awiri komanso mnzanu wina ndi mnzake muyenera kuvomerezana kuti musamanene za mavuto am'banja mwanu koma mukhale ndi 1 kapena 2 anzanu apamtima, kapena abale apamtima, omwe mungakambirane nawo.
7. Chibwenzi
Alangizi ambiri azokwatirana ali ndi malingaliro akuti maanja azikhala pachibwenzi nthawi yopatukana poyeserera m'malo mwa anthu ena. Komanso, kukondana kuyenera kukambidwa poyera kuti akhazikitse malire omveka. Izi, aphungu amakhulupirira, zitha kupangitsa kuti ubale wanu ukhalenso wathanzi.
Kutenga komaliza
Pomaliza, nonse muyenera kuvomerezana kuti musapite kukayeserera mpaka nthawi yopatukana itatha ndipo nonse mukambirane zomwe mukufuna. Komanso, panthawiyi, muzilemekezana zachinsinsi.