Zamkati
Anthu ambiri amakondana ndikuganiza kuti chikondi chidzagonjetsa zonse ndikukutengani zaka zambiri. Ngakhale chikondi chimakhala chofunikira kwambiri muubwenzi, sitiyenera kuiwala kuti zina zomwe zimapangitsa kuti ubale ukhale wopambana, ndi kulumikizana, kukhulupirirana, ndi ulemu.
Mukamaganizira, ubale uliwonse ungakhale bwanji popanda chilichonse chophatikizirachi chikusowa?
Ndagwirapo ntchito ndi mabanja ambiri kuti ngakhale ali ndi maziko azomwe zingalimbikitse chibwenzi, chimodzi mwazomwezi zikusowa mwina chifukwa choti adataya, kapena chifukwa adalibe kale.
Ndikutanthauza kuganiza za izi, ubale uliwonse ungakhale motalika bwanji popanda kulankhulana, kukhulupirirana, kapena kulemekezana.
Ngati mukuwerenga izi, mwina mukuyesetsa kuti ubale wanu ukhale bwino, ndipo ndikukuyamikirani chifukwa anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti atakhala ndi bwenzi, ndi pomwe zimayima, pomwe mowona mtima, ndi pomwe zimayambira chifukwa Kugwira ntchito paubwenzi wanu kuyenera kukhala kudzipereka kwanthawi yonse.
Anthu sayenera kusiya kuyesera, ubale wanu ndiye gawo lofunikira kwambiri m'moyo wanu, ndipo inde zitha kukhala zodabwitsa.
Kulankhulana
Kuyankhulana ndi gawo lofunikira komanso lofunikira kwambiri paubwenzi, tiyeni tikumane ngati mulibe, muli ndi chiyani?
Ndikofunika kulumikizana ndi bwenzi lanu, ndipo liyenera kukhala lotseguka komanso lowona mtima. Mabanja ambiri zimawavuta kukhala omasukirana komanso achilungamo. Mulimonsemo, sizowona kwa iwo eni kapena kwa wokondedwa wawo.
Anthu sayenera kukhala ndi zoletsa zomwe zingawalepheretse kugawana ndi anzawo. Nthawi zambiri, anthu amakwatirana kapena kukwatirana, ndipo ali ndi zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana, kapena adaleredwa ndimikhalidwe ndi zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana.
Chifukwa chake, anthu akuyenera kutenga nthawi kuti adziwane, kumayambiriro kwaubwenzi. Khalani ndi nthawi yodziwana wina ndi mnzake, kufunsa mafunso, kucheza nthawi yabwino, kukhala omasuka kukambirana zovuta, kapena kukambirana mitu yovuta.
Malangizo olumikizirana bwino
- Khalani owona mtima ndi otseguka, ngati china chake chikukusokonezani dziwitsani wokondedwa wanu, fotokozani chifukwa chake zimakupangitsani kumva choncho, fufuzani zosankha ndi njira zina zomwe mungamve bwino mukamakambirana zina ndi zina.
- Funsani mafunso, ndikufotokozera.
- Sankhani nthawi yamasana yomwe mudzapereke kuti muzitha kulumikizana bwino, ipangeni kukhala nthawi yanu, kaya ndi m'mawa kwambiri mukamamwa khofi wam'mawa, kapena usiku.
- Musamakambirane zoipa musanagone, ndipo musamapite kokagonera mnzanu.
- Palibe vuto kuvomereza kuti simukugwirizana, sikuti nthawi zonse mumangothetsa zokambiranazo nonse mukugwirizana pankhani inayake, mutha kuyambiranso.
- Ngati wina akumva kukhala wosavomerezeka, musakakamize nkhaniyo, tengani zokambiranazo tsiku lina ndi nthawi ngati zingatheke.
- Lankhulani motsitsa ndi mwaulemu; simuyenera kukuwa kuti mumveketse mfundoyo.
Ulemu
Nthawi zambiri ndimadzifunsa, chifukwa chiyani anthu amasiya kapena osachitira ulemu theka lawo lina.Ngakhale ndimakonda kuwona anthu akulemekeza alendo, nthawi zambiri amalephera kulemekeza omwe amakhala nawo moyo wonse.
Ndikutsimikiza kuti sizingavulaze kuyesa, ulemu wamba ndi anzawo. Tivomerezane; anthu ena samanenanso za m'mawa. Samanena kuti zikomo, ndipo samangogwira zitseko kapena kutulutsa mpando akudya chakudya, komabe, amachitira ogwirira ntchito kapena alendo.
Nthawi zambiri, pomwe pali kusagwirizana anthu angagwiritse ntchito chilankhulo chovulaza komanso chopanda ulemu, chilankhulo chomwe sangagwiritse ntchito pagulu, kapena pamaso pa ena, chifukwa chiyani amaligwiritsa ntchito ndi munthu amene amamukonda?
Kudalira
Kukhulupirirana ndichimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri pamgwirizano uliwonse. Popanda kukhulupirirana, ubale wanu ndiwofooka ndipo ufunika kugwira ntchito.
Kudalira ndichimodzi mwazinthu zomwe mukadzataya, zidzakhala zovuta kuti mupezenso.
Kudalirana kumatha kutayika pamagulu osiyanasiyana, ndipo pakapita nthawi, njira imodzi yotaya kukhulupiriridwa ndi munthu ndikunena zachinyengo mobwerezabwereza, ndikutanthauza momwe mungakhulupirire munthu amene amangonama mobwerezabwereza.
Njira ina kudaliranaku kwasweka kwathunthu pakakhala kusakhulupirika m'banja. Nthawi zambiri, njira yothetsera kukhulupirirana siyingakonzedwenso. Ngati pali kukhulupirirana muukwati, chinthu chabwino sichikhala kutaya, kulumikizana kumatha kukonzedwa, ulemu ungapezeke, koma kudalirika kuyenera kupezedwa.
Ngakhale ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito ndi anthu omwe aphunziranso kudaliranso, ndichimodzi mwazinthu zovuta kuzipezanso zitasweka.
Tengera kwina
Ulemu, kudalirana komanso kulumikizana zimayenderana. Mu ubale uliwonse, kusapezeka kwa izi pamapeto pake kudzakhala kusokonekera. Ndiye chifukwa chake pamafunika khama nthawi zonse. Chifukwa chake onetsetsani kuti muli ndi zinthu zofunika kwambiri pachibwenzi kuti chikhale cholimba, chokwaniritsa, komanso chokhalitsa.