Zamkati
- 1. Ganizirani za malo anu
- 2. Mutu wake
- 3. Nyimbo
- 4. Alendo
- 5. Mavalidwe
- 6. Chakudya
- 7. Unali phwando
- 8. Miyambo
- 9. Ndalama
- Zonsezi ndizachikondi komanso ulemu kwa wina ndi mnzake
Ndakwanitsa kugunda nthawi imeneyi ndili pakati pa makumi awiri pomwe zikuwoneka kuti aliyense pafupi nane akwatira. Zinayambira ndi msuwani wakutali koma tsopano ndili ndi mwayi kutha sabata yonse popanda chilengezo chachitetezo pa Facebook.
Kuwawa kwanga kumadza chifukwa chakuti ndimakonda maukwati. Onse amakonda kuyang'ana ndikuchita zomwezo - diresi yoyera idayenda pamsewu, zikhulupiriro zachipembedzo, malo okwera mtengo, vinyo wotsika mtengo, ndi bala yamtengo wapatali.
Mabanja ambiri amawoneka otengeka kwambiri ndi bolodi lawo la Pinterest kuposa ukwati weniweni, ndipo ngati bambo anga amalimbikira kuti "andipatse", ndimakhala pansi kuti ndikambe nawo nkhani yolimbikitsa zachikazi.
Koma ndidapita kuukwati kumapeto kwamlungu angapo apitawo omwe anali achimwemwe osakhala kokha chifukwa choti malankhulidwe anali ochepa mphindi iliyonse.
Mutha kukonda kumva munthu wabwino kwambiri akumuseka kwa mphindi 30, koma alendo anu amatopa ndikuwona bala.
Ukwati waposachedwa kwambiri unali wosangalatsa chifukwa unatsutsana ndi miyambo ndi misonkhano yonse, komabe mosakayikira unali ukwati. Pakati pa akwatibwi awiriwo, adayang'ana miyambo, momwe amawagwiritsira ntchito, ndi zomwe akufuna kuti ukwati wawo uyimire.
Ukwati wawo unamveka wapadera komanso wotentha mtima, ngakhale ndalama zawo zinali zochepa.
Chifukwa chake, zinthu zochepa zomwe mungachite kuti ukwati wanu ukhale wosagwirizana komanso wokha -
1. Ganizirani za malo anu
Akwatibwi adaganiza zotsutsana ndi tchalitchi chifukwa sanali achipembedzo.
Izi zitha kuwoneka zowoneka, koma ndi anthu angati amene mukudziwa omwe akwatirana mu tchalitchi chifukwa zithunzizi ziziwoneka bwino?
Ili ndi tsiku lanu laukwati, tsiku lokondwerera chikondi chanu ndi anthu omwe mumawakonda. Kodi ndinu osazama mumangosamala za zithunzi pambuyo pake?
2. Mutu wake
Maukwati asanu mwa asanu ndi limodzi apitawa omwe ndidapezekapo, onse amawoneka kuti ali ndi mutu womwewo. Idangofuula, "Ndili ndi bolodi lowoneka bwino la Pinterest". Ngati izi ndi zomwe mukufuna, zonse zili bwino, koma ukwati wachisanu ndi chimodzi udapita ndi mutu woti udalemba chifukwa akwatibwi onse adalumikizana kale chifukwa cha kukonda kwawo mabuku.
Sikuti mlendo aliyense adangokhala ndi gawo lachiwiri loti amuchotsere (lomwe limamenya mtsuko wa uchi tsiku lililonse!), Koma ukwatiwo udakhala wapadera mosadabwitsa.
Zidathandiza kuthana ndi zokonda zawo komanso zomwe abale ndi abwenzi amagawana. Izi ndi zakudya zopatsa chidwi zidandiseketsa!
3. Nyimbo
Akwatibwi onsewa amakonda nyimbo zomwezi, ndipo ndizomwe amagawana ndi mabanja awo. Nyimbo zakhala zofunikira nthawi zonse kwa iwo. Ndipo ndikutanthauza "nthawi zonse pachikondwerero cha nyimbo wamba" chofunikira.
Adasankha kuyenda pamsewu (kapena kulowa muofesi yolembera!) Kupita ku Bastille. Ichi ndi gulu lomwe amakonda komanso linali losiyana kwambiri ndi mayendedwe achikwati.
Ngakhale sinasankhe mwanjira yanyimbo, zidatanthauza zambiri kwa onse awiri.
Zalangizidwa - Njira Yokwatirana Yoyambira Pa intaneti
4. Alendo
Ndikukayika kuti panali alendo opitilira 30 patsiku lonse. Mlendo aliyense amabwera pamwambowu ndipo amakhala mpaka kuphwandoko. Kupewa kupewa nkhani ya omwe adayitanidwa pamwambowu komanso omwe akungoitanidwa kuphwandoko, izi zidapatsa tsiku lonse chisangalalo chachikulu.
Panali achibale ochepa ochepa paukwatiwo. M'malo mwake, adayitana anthu omwe amawakonda kwambiri.
Makochi amaperekedwa kwa iwo omwe adayenda ulendo wautali, ndipo kuwerengera kwapansi kumachepetsa mtengo.
5. Mavalidwe
Mkwatibwi wina adavala jekete la tweed ndi ma jeans wakuda. Wina anali atavala diresi lobiriwira. Alendo adadzipangira zomwe amafuna, kuyambira kilt mpaka jeans ndi flannel.
Izi zidapatsa tsiku lonse kukhala omasuka, omasuka. Palibe amene anali kudandaula za zidendene kapena zovala zolimba masana.
Tonse tamva nkhani zowopsa za Mkwatibwi wouza alendo kuti awoneke ngati oyendetsa ndege, koma bwanji izi zili zofunika? Kodi ndi za zithunzi? Kodi mawonekedwe akunja ndi ofunikira kuposa chisangalalo ndi chikondi chomwe nonse mumagawana?
Zachidziwikire, alendowo akadatha kuvala suti itatu ngati angafune. Amayi a mkwatibwi onse adavala bwino.
Ukwati uwu unali wokhudza kuvomereza ndi kumvetsetsa.
Kuphatikiza apo, palibe amene anali atavala zidendene zopusa zomwe zikutanthauza kuti aliyense anali kuvina mpaka usiku.
6. Chakudya
Ndakhala ndikupita kuukwati komwe chakudya chidawononga $ 50 pamutu, ndipo ndidatsala ndi supuni ya azibale anga. Ndinayesa kulingalira izi. Mwinanso, mtengo wokwera pamaphikidwewo unali chifukwa operekera zakudya anali atavala ndipo msuwani wawo adapatsidwa nsalu yopukutira nsalu.
Ngakhale ndizokoma, ndikutsimikiza kuti msuwani siwokwera mtengo.
Paukwati uwu, ndinali ndi chakudya chenicheni chifukwa akwatibwi adalemba ganyu yakudya yakomweko yomwe amawakonda. Kuphatikiza apo, adatumikira ma burger owerengera omwe amafanana ndi mutu waukwati. Sikuti izi zidangotanthauza kwa akwatibwi, koma zinali zotsika mtengo komanso zabwino kwenikweni.
Amakhalanso ndi bala yomwe amadzipangira okha popita ku sitolo yapafupi ndi golosale yapafupi.
Ngakhale izi, sizimamva kutsika mtengo. Panalinso kuponderezana pomwe kulengeza zosankha za gluten ndi vegan zidalengezedwa. FYI, ndidasankha burger "ng'ombe kapena ayi". Kuphatikiza apo, ndinatenga ma popcorn onse otsala. Chogoli.
7. Unali phwando
Zili ndi banja lililonse kukondwerera ukwati wawo momwe adasankhira, ndiye mwina ndikungoganiza pang'ono. Pokhapokha ukwati uwu unali phwando lenileni. Chikondwerero.
Pakati pa ma cocktails, mindandanda yosanja mosamalitsa, ndi mipingo ingapo yopanda tanthauzo yomwe idafalikira pamalowo, inali phwando lenileni.
Zomwe ndimakumana nazo maukwati ndi gulu la anthu omvetsa chisoni omwe akhala ndikukambirana pang'ono pomwe DJ amayesetsa kulimbikitsa anthu kuti azivina ndi ma 2000s oyipa omwe palibe amene amawakonda.
M'malo mwake, akwatiwo adakonza mndandanda wazosewerera ndipo bambo wabwino kwambiri adakhala mphindi ngati mphatso kwa iwo. Nyimbo yomaliza idatha pomwe malowa adatsekedwa.
Ngakhale tidakhala ukwati wosasinthika, tidavina koyamba mwachizolowezi ndikugwetsa misozi. Unali chikondwerero chenicheni chonse.
8. Miyambo
Miyambo imatanthauza zinthu zosiyanasiyana kwa anthu osiyanasiyana.
Anthu ena amalota za diresi yoyera wamba, kuyenda pamsewu kuyambira ali aang'ono. Kwa ine, miyambo yambiri ili ndi mawu ogonana. Kuyambira "kupereka" mkwatibwi, kupita ku diresi yoyera ya "anamwali" kuti "mutumikire" mwamuna wanu watsopano ndikutenga dzina lake.
Ukwati uwu sunayende pansi, m'malo mwake adalowa mchipindamo limodzi. Palibe abambo omwe 'adapatsa' akwatibwi, m'malo mwake, adayang'ana ndikuyesera kuti asang'ambe. Banja limodzi silinkakhulupirira kuti kuli Mulungu, kotero palibe zipembedzo zabodza zomwe zidalipo ndipo malingaliro aliwonse achipembedzo adachotsedwa pamwambowo.
Izi zidamveka ulemu kwambiri m'mabanja onse komanso kwa anthu omwe amapembedzadi. Miyambo idapotozedwa ndikusinthidwa kuti itanthauzidwe kwambiri kwa akwati onse.
Kusunga miyambo chifukwa cha miyambo kumatha kukhala koopsa ndikupangitsa ukwati kukhala wosasangalatsa komanso wovomerezeka.
9. Ndalama
£ 50 pamutu. £ 10 pa painti imodzi ya mowa. Tonse takhalapo kuukwati monga choncho. Nthawi zonse ndimadzifunsa ngati banjali lilidi losangalala ndi $ 20k + yomwe amathera pamalowa.
Ukwati uwu udasungira mtengo wake, koma sunamve wotsika mtengo. Pakati pakukonzekera mphunzitsi wonyamula alendo, ndi abwenzi omwe amapereka masofa, kotero palibe amene amayenera kuthamangira ku hotelo, ukwatiwo udakhala womasuka komanso wofikirika. Amathandizira mashopu awo opereka zachifundo pogula mabuku am'manja kuti apereke monga mphatso zokometsera ukwati.
Adachita lendi kapamwamba kam'deralo ndikusunga mitengo yakumwa yotsika mtengo. Chilichonse chimawoneka kuti chikupezeka ndikuthandizira.
Zonsezi ndizachikondi komanso ulemu kwa wina ndi mnzake
Ndikayang'ana m'mbuyo, mabanja onse athanzi, osangalala kwambiri omwe ndikudziwa akhala ndi maukwati osavomerezeka.Okwatirana adakwatirana atavala zovala zapamwamba, pomwe wina adasankha kulowa muofesi yolembetsa panjira yopita ku Botswana.
Ukwati uwu unali wapadera, osati chifukwa anali LGBT. Amatha kunyalanyaza miyambo pomwe akumva zachikhalidwe. Zinkawoneka pafupi, zokondana, komanso zaumwini. Uwu sunali ukwati womwe umangotanthauza kuti ukhale pazithunzi pazanema. Ichi chinali chikondwerero chovomerezeka cha chikondi pakati pa anthu awiri.
Kupatula apo, zonse ndizokhudza chikondi ndi ulemu zomwe mumamverana. Kumbukirani! Ukwati ndi phwando. Ndi chikondwerero chokonda wina kwambiri momwe mudzadziperekera kwa moyo wawo wonse. Ngati zithunzi zanu ndi bolodi la Pinterest ndizofunika kwambiri kwa inu, kodi muyenera kukwatira?
Kupatula apo, mutha kupanga miyambo yanu.