Zamkati
- 1. Adzakuikani pazinthu zonse
- 2. Adzalemekeza malingaliro anu
- 3. Amanyadira za inu
- 4. Amakulimbikitsani kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu
- 5. Adzafuna kukondana nanu
- 6. Akukuwonetsani makolo ake
- 7. Iye amayima pambali pako m'zovuta ndi zopyapyala
- 8. Amakukhulupirirani ndi malingaliro ake
Amuna samadziwa nthawi zonse kufotokoza malingaliro achikondi kwa anzawo. Chifukwa chake, ndizovuta kudziwa kusiyana pakati pa mnyamata yemwe akufuna kukwatitsa chibwenzicho ndi gawo lotsatira ndi amene akungopita kumene.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti mnzanuyo amakukondani, kuphunzira mayendedwe ake ndi momwe amakukhudzirani kungathetse kusokonezeka kwamutu kwanu. Pali zizindikiro zina zowonekera zakuti chibwenzi chikukula. Kuzindikira zizindikirozi kudzakuthandizani kuti muyende bwino.
Nazi zinthu zisanu ndi zitatu zomwe bae wanu adzachite akakukondani kwambiri ndipo akufuna kuti mukhale gawo la moyo wake
1. Adzakuikani pazinthu zonse
Chimodzi mwazizindikiro zomwe akufuna kuti azichita nanu ubale ndi pamene mudzakhale chinthu chofunikira kwambiri kwa iye.
Mukakhala ndi chibwenzi ndi munthu wina, munthuyo ayenera kukupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu apadera ndikukuyikani patsogolo pazonse. Mosakayikira, ntchito, kuphunzira, banja, ndi thanzi ziyenera kukhala pamndandanda wake patsogolo nthawi ina; komabe, ngati amakukondanidi, adzaulula zakukhosi kwake, kukupangitsani kudzimva kuti ndinu ofunikira komanso ofunidwa.
Kuphatikiza apo, manja osavuta angakuuzeni zambiri zamomwe amakukonderani, ndikukupatsirani malo anu pamoyo wake. Mwachitsanzo, mukamakonzekera usiku wamakanema kapena chakudya chamadzulo limodzi, amayesetsa kuti azipezeka nthawi isanakwane. Momwemonso, ngati akukumbukira kukufunirani pa zochitika zapadera komanso zochitika zazikulu m'moyo wanu zomwe ndi, chikondwerero cha banja lanu kapena tsiku lanu lokwezedwa, zikutanthauza kuti amakuganizirani. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazizindikiro zomwe akufuna kuchita.
2. Adzalemekeza malingaliro anu
Kodi amakuganizirani? Mudzadziwa yankho lokhazikika mukapeza kuti munthu wanu akuyika malingaliro anu ndi zolowetsa zofunikira.
Popeza kuti mamuna wanu amakulemekezani komanso amakukondani amamva kufunika kolankhula nanu ndikumvera malingaliro anu pankhani inayake. Kaya akugwirizana nanu kapena ayi, amayamikira malingaliro anu ndipo amawatenga mozama.
Ngati mwamuna wanu amakhala omasuka nthawi zonse pamawu anu, amakuphatikizani nthawi zonse popanga zisankho zazikulu, ndikumvera upangiri wanu, ndi chisonyezo kuti ali mwa inu ndipo amalemekeza malingaliro anu. Sikuti amangokupezani kuti ndinu okongola komanso amasirira luso lanu lanzeru.
3. Amanyadira za inu
Chizindikiro chodziwika kwambiri cha ubale wabwino ndi pamene awiri amakopeka ndi zina zomwe amawona mwa wokondedwa wawo. Mwamuna amene amasamala za chikondi chake chachikazi amatenga nthawi kuti amvetsetse mphamvu zake ndi zovuta zake ndikumulandira momwe alili.
Ngati bwenzi lanu lakusankhani kuti mukhale okonda moyo wake, saphonya mwayi wofotokozera momwe amakunyadirani. Mwamuna akakhala wotsimikiza za inu, amakuthokozani nthawi zambiri ndipo adzitamandira pazomwe mwachita.
Atanena izi, amuna ochepa sangakhale odziwa kufotokoza momwe amayamikirira zomwe anzawo akuchita. Komabe, amatha kuchita zinthu zina zomwe zidzawulule zakukhosi kwawo.
Mwachitsanzo, mnyamata wanu akhoza kukubweretsani pafupi ndi abwenzi ake kuti akuwonetseni pang'ono (mwa njira yabwino!) Kukhala nanu m'moyo wake. Momwemonso, ngati amanyadira luso lanu, amakupatsaninso chinthu china chokhudzana nacho.
4. Amakulimbikitsani kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu
Ngati bwenzi lanu lili nanu nthawi yayitali, amvetsetsa tanthauzo la maloto anu ndi zolinga zanu ndikukulimbikitsani kuti muzikwaniritse.
Mnyamata akakhala wotsimikiza za inu, amayesa kutulutsa zabwino mwa kukupatsani chilimbikitso, kutsutsa koyenera, upangiri, ndi malingaliro othandizira kukuthandizani kuyandikira zofuna zanu. Kutenga nawo gawo mnzanuyo pakukwaniritsa zomwe mwakwaniritsa ndi chimodzi mwazizindikiro zosonyeza kuti akufuna kukhala pachibwenzi.
5. Adzafuna kukondana nanu
Mosasamala kanthu kuti amakukumbatirani mwachisawawa, amakumbatirana nanu, kapena amangogwira dzanja lanu, kukhudza thupi kumatumiza zizindikiritso zopanda mawu zomwe zimafotokoza zambiri zaubwenzi womwe mumagawana nawo.
Ngakhale kukondana ndikofunikira kwambiri paubwenzi, bae wanu sadzangokhala ndi chidwi chongokuwonetsani njira yopita kuchipinda chake. Atha kuwulula chikondi chake mwa kuphika chakudya musanabwere kuchokera kuntchito, kukutumizirani uthenga wokonda masana, kukuwonani mwakachetechete mukamayankhula, kapena kubisa kakalata kakang'ono kolemba mawu achikondi mchikwama chanu. Ngati mwamuna wanu ali ndi chidwi ndi inu, ayesetsa kuti azicheza nanu ndikupangitsani kuti muzimukonda.
6. Akukuwonetsani makolo ake
Chizindikiro china chodzipereka kuubwenzi ndi pamene akufuna kuti mukumane ndi makolo ake. Chowonadi chakuti makolo ake amadziwa za inu ndichofunika kwambiri muubwenzi wanu. Bae wanu sangafunse makolo ake kuti akumane ndi mtsikana aliyense wosasintha.
Pokukuwonetsani kubanja lake, sikuti amangoulula zomwe sizidziwika kwenikweni m'moyo wake komanso kuwauza makolo ake kuti ubalewu uli ndi tsogolo.
Kuphatikiza apo, samalani momwe amakudziwitsirani kubanja lake. Ngati akutchula kuti 'msungwana wanga, wokondedwa, kapena mnzanga', ali ndi chidwi ndikudzipereka komwe adakupangani.
7. Iye amayima pambali pako m'zovuta ndi zopyapyala
Ngakhale patadutsa zaka mamiliyoni ambiri kuchokera pakusintha kwachilengedwe, chikhumbo chamunthu ndi chibadwa chachilengedwe kuteteza yemwe amamukonda sichinasinthe.
Popeza bae wanu amakuwonani ngati msungwana wake, amakuthandizani munthawi zovuta, kusangalala ndi zomwe mwachita, kukwaniritsa zosowa zanu mukadwala, ndikukutetezani kuvuto lililonse lamaganizidwe ndi thupi. Ngati chibwenzi chanu chadzipereka kwa inu, nthawi zonse amakupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu otetezeka ndikuwonetsa kuti amakusamalirani.
8. Amakukhulupirirani ndi malingaliro ake
Izi zitha kumveka ngati zofananira, koma ndizowona kuti abambo nthawi zambiri zimawavuta kufotokoza momwe akumvera ndikulankhula za mantha awo, kusowa chitetezo, komanso nkhawa. Mwamuna angangouza mkazi yemwe amamkhulupirira za zovuta zomwe zimachitika pamoyo wake. Trust ndiye mwala wapangodya pachibwenzi ndipo ngati abwera kwa inu ndi zokhumudwitsa zake ndikukuuzani zinthu zake zachinsinsi, ali ndi chidwi nanu.
Mnyamata amene akukuuzani zakukhosi kwanu ndi chizindikiro chodziwikiratu choti amakulemekezani, ndipo izi zimatsimikizira kuti amakukondani kwambiri. Chifukwa chake, ngakhale sizingamveke ngati zazikulu, podalira inu ndi zinsinsi zake akukupatsani malo apadera pamoyo wake.
Kukulunga
Mukakhala pachibwenzi, zimakhala zovuta kudziwa ngati mwamuna wanu amakukondanidi kapena ayi. Pali mafunso okhudzana ndi ubale omwe muyenera kudzifunsa nokha ndi mnzanu kuti muwone ngati chibwenzicho ndichokhalitsa. Muyenera kuyang'ana pamakhalidwe monga kudzichepetsa, chifundo, kukhululuka, ndi kuleza mtima kwa mnzanu. Kungakhalenso bwino kuzindikira zomwe akufuna kuchokera kwa inu komanso lingaliro lake la ubale wangwiro. Chimodzi mwazizindikiro zosonyeza kuti chibwenzi chanu chikufika pachimake ndi pamene onse ayamba kukambirana zolinga limodzi.
Mfundo zomwe zatchulidwazi zikuthandizani kudziwa ngati chibwenzi chanu chikutsimikizadi za inu komanso tsogolo lomwe nonse mungakhale nawo.