Zamkati
- Kodi nchifukwa ninji anthu amakhalabe muubwenzi wankhanza?
- 1. Amachita manyazi
- 2. Amamva kukhala odalirika
- 3. Alibe kopita
- 4. Amachita mantha
- 5. Amayembekezera kuthandiza owachitira nkhanza
- 6. Amada nkhawa za ana awo
- Mapeto
Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti akangopeza munthu woyenera, azikhala limodzi moyo wawo wonse. Poyambirira, ubalewo ndi wachikondi komanso wothandizirana koma patapita nthawi, amayamba kuwona kusintha. Izi ndi chiyambi chodziwika cha nkhani iliyonse yopweteka onenedwa ndi ozunzidwa m'banja padziko lonse lapansi.
Kufufuza kochitidwa ndi United Nations kukuwonetsa kuti pafupifupi 35% ya akazi padziko lonse lapansi khalani wodziwa mtundu wina wa thupi kapena nkhanza zogonana. Komanso, ngati mungaganizire zomwe zachitika, mudzawona kuti pafupifupi 32% ya azimayi ndi omwe amachitilidwa nkhanza ndipo 16% azimayi amachitilidwa nkhanza ndi anzawo apamtima.
Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, awo Mnzanu akuyamba kuwonetsa zachilendo zomwe nthawi zambiri zimakhala zachiwawa. Komabe, nkofunika kuzindikira kuti sikuti nkhanza zonse zapakhomo zimakhala zakuthupi. Ambiri ozunzidwa komanso amakumana ndi nkhanza zamisala, zomwe sizingasokoneze kwenikweni.
Mwayi wake ndikuti kuzunzidwa kukuchitika motere, kumakhala koipitsitsa.
Palibe amene amaganiza kuti adzakumana ndi izi.
Palibe munthu amene amafuna kupwetekedwa ndi kunyozedwa ndi mnzake. Ndipo, pazifukwa zina, ozunzidwa amasankhabe kuti asasiye omenya akazi awo.
Ndichoncho chifukwa chiyani?
Tsopano, kusiya chibwenzi chankhanza sikophweka momwe zingamvekere kwa inu. Ndipo, mwatsoka, pali zifukwa zambiri bwanji anthu amakhala m'mabwenzi ankhanza, omwe, nthawi zambiri, amapha.
Kodi nchifukwa ninji anthu amakhalabe muubwenzi wankhanza?
Munkhaniyi, tilingalira mozama pamutuwu ndikuwona zomwe zikulepheretsa ozunzidwa kuti achoke ndikufotokozera omwe akuwazunza.
1. Amachita manyazi
Sizodabwitsa kuti manyazi ndi chimodzi mwazifukwa zazikulu chifukwa chomwe ozunzidwa m'banja amakhala. Ndizodabwitsa kuti kumverera uku nthawi zambiri kumalepheretsa anthu kuchita zomwe akufuna ndikumverera kuti ndi zolondola.
Ambiri amaganiza kuti kuchoka panyumba, kutha kwa omwe amakuzunza kapena kusudzula ndiye kuti alephera. Sangalolere abale awo, anzawo, komanso dera lawo kuwona zomwe adakumana nazo ndikuwonetsa kuti ndi ofooka.
Kusakwaniritsa zomwe anthu amayembekezera nthawi zambiri kumawapanikizira, ndiye chifukwa chake amamva kuti ayenera kukhala ndi kupirira. Komabe, kusiya wozunza ndi osati chizindikiro cha kufooka, ndi chizindikiro cha mphamvu izi zikuwonetsa kuti wina ali ndi mphamvu zokwanira kuti athane ndi mayendedwe ndikuyang'ana moyo wabwino.
2. Amamva kukhala odalirika
Ena ozunzidwa m'banja ali za malingaliro kuti iwo anachita chinachake kuti kuyambitsa chiwawa. Ngakhale palibe chomwe munthu angachite kuti ayambitse zigawenga, anthu ena amadzimvabe kuti ndi omwe amachititsa izi.
Mwina adalankhula zinazake kapena adachita zomwe zidakwiyitsa wokondedwa wawo. Izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala malingaliro omwe amawaika m'mutu mwawo omwe amawazunza.
Omwe amachitira anzawo nkhanza nthawi zambiri amawawuza kuti ndi achipongwe, amangokakamira komanso kuti amawakwiyitsa chifukwa cha zomwe amachita. Palibe ndi chimodzi mwazifukwa izi zomwe zimakhala zachiwawa, komabe ozunzidwa m'banja amakhulupirira zomwe amauzidwa.
Kuphatikiza apo, ngati nkhanza ndi zamaganizidwe, amaganiza kuti sizinaphatikizidwe mgulu la nkhanza pomwe alibe mabala oti awonetse.
Komabe, kudzidalira kwawo kumakhudzidwa mpaka pomwe amakhulupirira kuti akuyenera mawu okhadzula.
3. Alibe kopita
Nthawi zina, nkhanza zapakhomo ozunzidwa alibe kopita. Ndipo, ndichifukwa chake akuopa kuchoka zotero maubale.
Izi zimachitika makamaka ngati amadalira wozunza anzawo pazachuma. Ngati akumva kuti akufuna kuchoka panyumba, zili ngati kuvomereza kuti agonja. Mwina sangabwerere kwa makolo awo.
Kutembenukira kwa abwenzi nthawi zambiri kumangokhala yankho lakanthawi, kuphatikiza iwo amaika pachiwopsezo wokondedwa wawo akubwera pambuyo pawo ndipo mwina atha kuphatikizira abwenziwo kukangana.
Mbali inayi, ozunzidwa nthawi zambiri zimakhala choncho olekanitsidwa kuti iwo alibe moyo kunja kwa nyumba ndikumverera nokha ndi palibe abwenzi omwe angadalire.
Komabe, atha kuyang'ana nyumba yotetezeka m'derali, powona momwe mabungwewa amaperekera nyumba, thandizo lalamulo ndi upangiri, kuphatikiza pakuthandiza anthu kuti abwezeretse moyo wawo.
4. Amachita mantha
Kumva nthawi zonse za zovuta zamabanja chifukwa cha nkhanza zapakhomo pa nkhani sizolimbikitsa ndipo sizosadabwitsa kuti nkhanza za m'banja ozunzidwa akuopa kuchoka panyumba.
Mwachitsanzo -
Ngati angasankhe kukauza wokondedwa wawo, ali pachiwopsezo chowonjezerapo nkhanza, nthawi zambiri ngakhale mwankhanza, ngati apolisi sachitapo kanthu kuwathandiza.
Ngakhale atakhala kuti apambana mlandu ndipo mnzake wapezeka wolakwa, ali ndi mwayi wowafunafuna atatuluka m'ndende kuti abwezere.
Mbali inayi, Kulandila chilolezo kwa ozunza anzawo ilinso a kuthekera koma ndikofunikira kwambiri kuyeza maubwino ndi zoyipa zakupanga chinthu choterocho, zomwe ndi zomwe akatswiri ochokera ku The Legal Advisory Service angathandize nazo.
Komabe, mosasamala kanthu momwe akumvera za wokondedwa wawo akufuna kubwezera ndikuwapweteka atachoka, a nkhanza mnyumba amathanso kukhala ndi zotsatirapo zoyipa ngati samvera nthawi.
5. Amayembekezera kuthandiza owachitira nkhanza
Chimodzi mwazifukwa zazikulu zomwe amayi samasiya omwe amazunza ndi chifukwa chakuti ali mchikondi ndi omwe amawazunza.
Inde! Nthawi zina, nkhanza zapakhomo ozunzidwa komabe onani mwachidule za munthuyo, iwo adagwa mchikondi ndi, powazunza. Izi nthawi zambiri zimawapangitsa kuganiza kuti atha kubwerera momwe zidalili kale. Amakhulupirira kuti amatha kuthandiza womenya ndi kuwasonyeza chithandizo chokwanira kupewa nkhanza.
Kupereka kukhulupirika ndi chikondi chopanda malire si njira yothetsera chiwawa, popeza kuti omwe amakuzunzayo apitilirabe kukulirakulira.
Anthu ena nthawi zambiri amakhumudwitsa wokondedwa wawo chifukwa cha momwe aliri, monga kutaya ntchito kapena kholo. Mbali inayi, ozunza anzawo kawirikawiri ndikulonjeza kuti ndiyimitsa ndi kusintha ndi ozunzidwa amakhulupirira iwo mpaka zitachitikanso.
6. Amada nkhawa za ana awo
Pomwe pali ana omwe akukhudzidwa, nthawi zonse zimakhala zovuta kwambiri.
Wovutitsidwayo nthawi zambiri safuna kuthawa ndikusiya anawo ndi wokondedwa wawo wachiwawa, pomwe kutenga ana ndi kuthamanga kumatha kubweretsa mavuto ambiri azamalamulo. Chifukwa chake, ali ofunitsitsa kukhalabe m'banja lankhanza ili pewani ana awo kuchokera akukumana a msinkhu womwewo wa nkhanza.
Kumbali inayi, ngati wozunza alibe chiwawa kwa ana, wozunzidwayo amafuna kuti anawo akhale ndi banja lokhazikika pomwe makolo onse awiri alipo, mosasamala kanthu kuti izi zimawapweteka motani. Izi zati, ozunzidwa nthawi zambiri samazindikira momwe kuchitira nkhanza ana kumakhudzira ana.
Itha kukhala ndi kuwononga ntchito yawo yasukulu, thanzi lam'mutu komanso kuwalimbikitsa kuti adzadzachite zachiwawa mtsogolo m'moyo wawo.
Mapeto
Izi sikuti ndi zifukwa zokha zomwe ozunzidwa amasankhira kukhalabe, komabe, ndi omwe amapezeka kwambiri ndipo zachisoni, nthawi zambiri pamakhala kuphatikiza zinthu zonsezi.
Pomwe alipo palibe njira yokakamiza wina kuti kusiya malo awo owopsa, tonse titha kugwira ntchito yopanga gulu labwino pomwe tikhulupirire ozunzidwa osawalola kuti achite manyazi kuvomereza china chonga ichi.