Zamkati
- 1. Tsegulani ku kudzoza
- 2. Dzifunseni mafunso ofunika
- 3. Kubweretsa kumverera
- 4. Lembani chikalata chanu choyamba
- 5. Yambitsani kulemba kwanu
- 6. Lankhulani kuchokera pansi pamtima
- Zitsanzo za malumbiro achikwati omwe si achikhalidwe komanso oseketsa
- Muthanso kugwiritsa ntchito mawu odziwika a Rumi akuti:
- Chitsanzo china cha lumbiro laukwati losangalatsa koma loseketsa ndi:
- Ngati mukufuna kukhala wotsimikiza, nthawi zonse mumagwiritsa ntchito malingaliro monga:
- Mfundo zofunika tsiku lalikulu lisanachitike
- Kupsinjika pakudzipereka kwa mnzanu
- Ganizirani za chiyembekezo
- Onetsetsani malonjezo anu
- Onjezerani mwatsatanetsatane
- Lembani pasadakhale
Gawo lofunikira kwambiri paukwati ndi malumbiro aukwati. Ndiwo lonjezo la moyo, chikhulupiriro, ndi moyo, kutanthauzira kudzipereka kwa moyo kwa anthu awiri. Kudzipereka kumeneku pakati pa anthu awiri ndikowonekera kwambiri kwa iwo omwe ali panjira yoti adzalemekeze monga momwe amafunira kuti adzalemekezedwe.
Kunena zowinda zanu ndi kukhudza kosakhala kwachikhalidwe kumapangitsa tsiku lanu laukwati kukhala lofunika kwambiri chifukwa limakuthandizani kukhala tsiku lofunika kwambiri pamoyo wanu. Malumbiro ambiri aukwati angawoneke osasangalatsa komanso osasangalatsa kwenikweni. Komabe, ndimadzi pang'ono opanga komanso kudzoza, mutha kupanga malonjezo anu paukwati wanu mwatsopano komanso mosiyana.
Kulemba malumbiro achikwati omwe si achikhalidwe kumatha kukhala njira yovuta kwambiri ndimanjenje mlengalenga ndikuopa kuzizira. Kodi mungayang'ane bwanji pakutsanulira zakukhosi kwanu ndikufotokozera zomwe mukumva? Osadandaula chifukwa zomwe zatchulidwa pansipa ndi zina mwanjira zolembera zabwino, zopindulitsa, zosakhala zachikhalidwe zaukwati patsiku lanu lalikulu.
Malangizo polemba malumbiro achikwati omwe si achikhalidwe
1. Tsegulani ku kudzoza
Ili ndi gawo lofunikira pankhani yolemba malumbiro aukwati. Zolimbikitsazi zikuthandizani kuti musangopeza malingaliro komanso kuti mupeze malingaliro. Mverani nyimbo zaukwati, werengani ndakatulo, makhadi a moni, ndi mabulogu achikwati. Komanso, yambani kuwerenga mabuku olumbirira omwe ali ndi mawu achikondi omwe mabanja ena amagwiritsa ntchito.
Onerani makanema achikwati ndikuwunika pa intaneti pazotengera zachikondi, chifukwa mwanjira imeneyi mupeza mawu oti munene ndikusonkhanitsa malingaliro. Mutha kusinthanso mizere kuchokera mufilimu yomwe mumakonda. Chitsanzo cha kanema akanati "Ndiwe chinthu chokhacho chomwe chimandipangitsa kufuna kudzuka m'mawa" kuchokera kwa Ine Pamaso Panu. Chifukwa chake limbikani ndikupenga pachikondi cha Achinyamata.
2. Dzifunseni mafunso ofunika
Tsegulani tsamba lopanda kanthu kapena chikalata chazinthu pakompyuta yanu ndikudzifunsa mafunso ofunika kwambiri.
Mudakumana bwanji?
Nchiyani chinakupangitsani kuyamba kukondana?
Kodi kukhazikika kumatanthauza chiyani kwa inu?
Kodi mumakonda chiyani za ena anu ofunika?
Mukuganiza bwanji zamtsogolo?
Ndi nkhani iti yomwe mukufuna kuti aliyense adziwe?
Kodi ndinu wokonzeka kupita pati kwa mnzanu?
Mukayankha mafunso osavutawa, mutha kugwiritsa ntchito mayankhowo powaphatikiza ndi malonjezo anu.
3. Kubweretsa kumverera
Musanayambe kulemba, pumani kaye mpweya ndikulumikizananso ndi mphindi yomwe mudamva mphamvu, mphamvu, komanso matsenga omwe amakupangitsani kukhazikika. Yang'anani kumbuyo panthawi yomwe mudasankha kuti munthu amene mudzakhale naye moyo wanu wonse ndi inu 'Kukwera kapena Kumwalira.' Kumbukirani momwe chisangalalocho chidakusangalatsirani. Ganizirani zinthu zonse (ngakhale zazing'ono) zomwe mnzanu amachita kuti azikhala osangalala.
Mukalola kuti malingaliro anu ayambe kuwinduka ayamba kutsanulidwa ndipo mutha kuzikwaniritsa.
4. Lembani chikalata chanu choyamba
Malonjezo oterewa angaganizidwe ngati kalata yaying'ono yachikondi. Mutha kuyamba ndi momwe mudakumana koyamba ndi zomwe mumakonda za ena ofunika, kaya ndi momwe amamwetulira, kapena momwe mphuno zawo zimasokonekera akakwiya kapena momwe amakupangitsani kumva.
Mutha kulembanso zifukwa zoseketsa ndikuyang'ana zomwe mukuyembekezera mtsogolo nawo. Mutha kuwonjezera pazolemba ngati mumalemba tsikulo. Khalani omasuka kuwonjezera kukhudza kwanu kwapadera.
5. Yambitsani kulemba kwanu
Tsopano kulemba malonjezo ndi gawo lofunikira, ndipo simungathe kusiya kanthawi kotsiriza. Ngati simukuyesa kutenga nthawi kuti mulembe malumbiro aukwati, ndiye kuti simungalembe zabwino ndi kukakamizidwa kwa tsiku laukwati. Muyenera kuyang'ana kwambiri pakulemba malonjezowa mwachangu chifukwa kusanja kwanu koyamba kudzafunika kusintha zambiri ndikukwaniritsa zambiri.
6. Lankhulani kuchokera pansi pamtima
Musaope kutsamwa, lolani malingaliro anu kuti asayende ndipo musachite manyazi kuwonjezera nthabwala. Gawani chilichonse chomwe mungafune ndipo musachite mantha kuti mupite kwa mnzanu. Ino ndi mphindi yanu, ndipo ndi tsiku lanu lalikulu! Pangani kukhala yapadera komanso yapadera momwe mungafunire. Pangani malonjezo anu kukhala enieni ndipo akwaniritse ndi mtima wanu wonse.
Zitsanzo za malumbiro achikwati omwe si achikhalidwe komanso oseketsa
Kuti mupeze malumbiro achikwati osakhala achikhalidwe muyenera kusaka kudzoza. Zomwe zatchulidwazi ndi malumbiro achikwati anzeru kwambiri kuti mumvetsetse, limbikitsani ndikukhazikitsa malonjezo anu achikhalidwe pa izi:
"Ndikulonjeza kuti ndikukhulupirirani mukandiyamikira, ndipo ndikukulonjezani kuti ndidzayankhanso ndikunyoza zikafunika."Dinani kuti Tweet “Ndikulonjeza kuti ndimakukondani nthawi zonse, ndimakulemekezani nthawi zonse, ndikukuthandizani ngati simukudziwa zomwe mumalankhula koma koposa zonse onetsetsani kuti sindimakulopani ndili ndi njala komanso ndikudwala. ”
Dinani kuti Tweet “Ndikulonjeza kuti ndimenya nkhondo pafupi ndi iwe ngati kutachitika kwa zombie apocalypse. Ndipo ngati mungasanduke umodzi (osati kuti simunakhale nawo pakadali pano) ndikukulonjezani kuti mundiluma kuti tidzakhale Zombies limodzi. ”
Dinani kuti Tweet "Ndikulonjeza kuti ndidzakhala makutu omwe amamvera nthawi zonse ngakhale titakalamba kwambiri ndipo timafunikira zothandizira kumva."
Dinani kuti Tweet "Ndikulonjeza kuti sindidzawonanso gawo lotsatira la pulogalamu iliyonse yomwe tikhala, popanda inu kumbali yanga ndipo ngati ndingatero, ndikulolani kuti muwone nyengo yonse popanda ine."
Dinani kuti Tweet "Ndikulonjeza kuyika chimbudzi pansi ndikapanda kutero ndikulonjeza kuti ndizichapa zovala mwezi wonse."
Dinani kuti Tweet "Ndikulonjeza kuti ndikukhulupirirani ngakhale titachotsa njira yathu ya GPS, mndandanda wazogula kapena zolinga Zamoyo."
Dinani kuti Tweet "Ndikulonjeza kuti ndikupeza kukutentha kuposa Vin Diesel."
Dinani kuti Tweet "Ndikulonjeza kuti ndidzakukondani ndikukhala okhulupirika kwa inu malinga ngati tingathe kupirirana"
Dinani kuti Tweet "Ndikulonjeza kuti ndikatsuka magalasi anu akadzasokonekera."
Dinani kuti Tweet
"Ndikulonjeza kuti ndidzakhala mnzako paumbanda ndipo ndikulola kuti undiimbe mlandu tikadzagwidwa."
Muthanso kugwiritsa ntchito mawu odziwika a Rumi akuti:
"Ine kulibe, sindine wadziko lapansi kapena lotsatira, sindinachokere kwa Adamu kapena Hava kapena nkhani ina iliyonse yoyambira. Malo anga alibe malo, tsatanetsatane wa opanda chiyembekezo. Palibe thupi kapena moyo. Ndine wa okondedwa, ndawona maiko awiriwa kukhala amodzi ndipo kuitana kumodzi ndikudziwa, poyamba, kotsiriza, kunja, mkati, kokha mpweya umenewo ukupuma munthu. ”Dinani kuti Tweet
Chitsanzo china cha lumbiro laukwati losangalatsa koma loseketsa ndi:
“Ndimakonda kuti mumachapa bwino kuposa ine ndipo ayi sindikunena choncho chifukwa chake mumachapa, koma ndikutanthauza. Ndimakonda kuti mumayenda ndi galu nthawi yachisanu ndipo mumaonetsetsa kuti nthawi zonse mumakhala ayisikilimu mufiriji. Ndikulonjeza kuti ndizisangalalabe ndi ma Jets nanu ngakhale mobisa ndimakonda Mabilo. Ndikulonjeza kuti ndidzakhala ndi makiyi apadera kuyambira pomwe mwataya ndipo ndikulonjeza kuti ndikupatsirani fry yanga yomaliza yaku France. Tili mgulu ili ndipo chilichonse chomwe chingatibweretsere, ndikulonjeza kuti ndikhala nawo pafupi kuti timenyane nawo chifukwa ndinu nkhanu zamuyaya. ”Dinani kuti Tweet
Ngati mukufuna kukhala wotsimikiza, nthawi zonse mumagwiritsa ntchito malingaliro monga:
“Tili pano, tikuyang'anani m'maso ndikugwirana manja. Kulumikizana kwa zala zathu chizikhala chizindikiro cha moyo wathu pamene tikuyenda limodzi ndi dzanja lero mpaka kumapeto kwa masiku. Nthawizonse ndi Mpaka Muyaya ”
"Sindikukulonjezani kuti zidzakhala bwino kapena zosavuta, mwina sizingakhale zongoyerekeza kapena zamoyo zonse zodzaza ndi zopangika. Tilimbana, titsegulani zitseko, titenga bedi ndikukhala zenizeni momwe tingathere koma ndikukulonjezani kuti ndidzaima pambali panu, kukuthandizani pamene ndingathe ndikukhulupirirani ngakhale moyo uno ukutitsogolera. ”
Malumbirowa akuyenera kupanga wokondedwa wanu, ndipo alendo anu atulutsa maso kotero musaiwale kusunga chopukutira nanu.
Mfundo zofunika tsiku lalikulu lisanachitike
Kuti mulembe malumbiro achikwati osakhala achikhalidwe muyenera kumvetsetsa kufunikira kwake komanso momwe mungakwaniritsire. Muyenera kukumbukira mfundo zazikulu tsiku lalikulu lisanadze. M'munsimu muli zolemba zina zofunika kuzikumbukira tsiku lanu lalikulu lisanafike.
Kupsinjika pakudzipereka kwa mnzanu
Muyenera kukumbukira kuti tsikuli ndi tsiku lanu ndi la mnzanu kotero muiwale kuti aliyense ali mchipinda ndikuwonetsa chikondi chanu monga amachitira m'mafilimu aku Hollywood. Komanso, yesetsani kupewa mawu monga "zoyipa," "matenda," "osauka" ndi "imfa" popeza sizidzaza tsikulo ndi chiyembekezo. Yang'anani pa mphamvu zabwino, ma vibes achimwemwe ndikuwonetsetsa kuti mnzanu ali bwino.
Ganizirani za chiyembekezo
Malonjezo okhudzika amachokera pamalingaliro anu ndi mawu anu, ndipo mutha kubweretsa cholembapo pogwiritsa ntchito mawu anyimbo yomwe ili yofunika kwa inu ndi mnzanu. Mutha kuwonjezera mwatsatanetsatane za wokondedwa wanu zomwe zili zoyenera mlendoyo osati wapamtima ndikuwonetserana chikondi.
Onetsetsani malonjezo anu
Ndi mphamvu yomwe tsiku laukwati limabweretsa komanso kusonkhana kwa omvera, mwina sikungakhale koyenera kunena china mwachinsinsi. Pofuna kupewa zovuta zilizonse ndi zodabwitsanso onani malumbiro anu aukwati momwe mungathere. Ngati mukufuna kuphatikiza zodabwitsa, tengani thandizo kuchokera kwa bwenzi labwino kapena wachibale wapafupi kapena wachinsinsi ndikuwapangitsa kuti akwaniritse malonjezo anu. Onetsetsani kuti chilichonse chomwe mwalemba chisakhumudwitse aliyense.
Onjezerani mwatsatanetsatane
Ngati mukufuna kuwonjezera kukhudza kwanu, musaiwale kuwunikiranso momwe mukuyendera. Tengani mphindi khumi mpaka khumi ndi zisanu kuchokera nthawi yanu mukakagona kapena kutsuka mano ndikuwonjezerapo kena kanu pa lonjezo lanu lomwe kulibe kale. Izi sizikuthandizani kuwongolera zomwe mwalemba komanso zidzakuthandizani kuloweza malonjezo anu.
Ngati simukwanitsa kulemba ndiye kuti, monga tanenera, pitani pa intaneti, fufuzani momwe mungalembe malonjezo omwe si achikhalidwe, gwiritsani ntchito mawu amakanema, nyimbo zamalangizo kapena malonjezo a wina yemwe angakwaniritse mnzanu. Ndipo ngakhale kuli bwino kukhala waluso ndikusintha malonjezo, ngati simukudziwa bwino yambani ndi malumbiro a wina.
Nthawi zina kuyambitsa malonjezo ndiye gawo lovuta kwambiri chifukwa chake gwiritsani ntchito malumbiro achikhalidwe ndikusintha mawu awo ndi anu.
Lembani pasadakhale
Monga tanenera kale musasiye izi mphindi yomaliza chifukwa zimatenga nthawi yambiri komanso kuyesetsa kwambiri kuti mulembe malonjezo ndikuwapanga kukhala angwiro. Kulemba ndi kuliwerenga tsiku lililonse kwa miyezi isanakwane tsiku lalikulu silidzakuthandizani kuloweza pamtima komanso kukuthandizani kukonza zolakwika zilizonse zomwe mungakhale mutachita.
Dziwani kuti malumbiro sayenera kukhala olemetsa koma ndichinthu chofunikira kwa inu ndi mnzanu choncho musataye mtima ndikudekha ndikutolera.
Tsiku lanu laukwati ndi tsiku lachimwemwe. Chifukwa chake, musachite mantha ndi malonjezo anu mpaka kuiwala kuyika malingaliro anu mmenemo. Nenani zomwe mukufuna komanso momwe mukumvera, kusangalala ndikupanga nthabwala zili bwino.
Siyani chizindikiro kwa mnzanu ndikusangalala ndi njirayi. Chilichonse chomwe mungasankhe kuchita ndi malonjezo anu omwe si achikhalidwe, kumbukirani kuti ndizowonetseratu zomwe mumamva za wokondedwa wanu komanso ulendo wotsatira.Mukamaliza, mutha kudziwitsa mnzanuyo kuti "Ndinu lonjezo langa ndipo ndidzalemekeza ndikukondani tsiku lililonse kwa moyo wathu wonse."