Zamkati
- 1. Fufuzani thandizo lina
- 2. Khazikitsani nthawi yoti muulule ndi wokondedwa wanu
- 3. Khazikitsani lamulo lololedwa kufunsa komwe ali
- 4. Funsani mnzanu kuti atsuke zonyansa zawo
- 5. Landirani zomwe zinachitika, muzilole ndikukhululukire
Chiyanjano chilichonse chimakumana ndi zovuta zambiri zomwe zitha kukhala zosiyana ndiubwenzi womwewo kapena kugawana nkhope zodziwika bwino ndi maubwenzi ena ozungulira.
Chimodzi mwazomwe zimachitika kuti ena amachita ndi nkhani yosakhulupirika. Ndipo anthu amachitapo kanthu mosiyana.
Anthu ambiri amalangiza kuti wina ataye chibwenzicho m'malo mokhala ndi wonyenga pomwe ena amalimbikitsa kuti abwerere ndikuyesa kukonza zinthu. Mwanjira iliyonse, ndi nthawi yovuta muubwenzi yomwe ingafune upangiri waluso kwa onse.
Chifukwa chomwe anthu amasankha kukhala pachibwenzi ngakhale atakhala osakhulupirika
Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe zimapangitsa anthu kusankha kukhala pachibwenzi kapena mbanja ngakhale atakhala osakhulupirika. Kwa amayi ambiri, zimawavuta kuti azikhala pabanja okha. Kwa ena, ndichifukwa cha zifukwa zachuma- mwina sangathe kupezera ana kapena sangathe kusiya moyo wabwino.
Kwa anthu ena, sibwino kusiya chibwenzi cha zaka zambiri osamenya nkhondo.
Chifukwa chake, pansipa pali maupangiri 5 ofunikira kwa iwo omwe, pazifukwa zina, amasankha kumangokhalira kumenya nkhondo kapena kuyesa kuyanjananso pambuyo poti wina wachita chigololo.
1. Fufuzani thandizo lina
Zilibe kanthu kuti waberedwa chani, akhale mkazi kapena mwamunayo. Kuchira kusakhulupirika ndichinthu chovuta. Pali zovuta monga ma egos osweka, kudzimva osakwanira, zikhulupiriro zosweka ndi mnzake yemwe tsopano akumva ngati mlendo zomwe ziyenera kuchitidwa moyenera.
Simukudziwa zomwe muyenera kukhulupirira zakale, ndipo osati zamtsogolo kapena zamtsogolo.
Mwadzidzidzi, mumakhala tcheru kwambiri, okayikira, ndikukayikira zinthu zomwe kale sizinali. Mumakhala snoopier, ndipo simudaliranso mawu amkati mwanu.
Pamaso pa zonsezi, si sayansi ya rocket kulingalira chifukwa chake wina amafunika kuthandizidwa ndi zina zambiri. Fufuzani kwa anzanu odalirika, mabanja, mabuku, magulu othandizira komanso kuchokera kwa akatswiri omwe mungafikire ndikuwakhulupirira.
2. Khazikitsani nthawi yoti muulule ndi wokondedwa wanu
Zilibe kanthu kuti adadzifotokozera okha bwanji atapeza kusakhulupirika. Muli ndi mafunso miliyoni omwe mukufuna mayankho.
Konzani nthawi yoti mudzayankhe mafunso anu okhudza kuchuluka ndi mbiri yakuba kuti iyankhidwe.
Tengani nthawi yanu kuti muwafotokozere, ganizirani za iwo ndikuyesa kufananiza zikhalidwezo ndi nthawi zomwe mudamva kuti zinthu sizili bwino.
Ngati mutha kuchira pakubera, wokondedwa wanu ayenera kubwera poyera, onetsani kufunitsitsa kuti musadzachitenso zomwezo mtsogolomo.
Izi zitha kuchitika pokhapokha akaulula zonse zomwe muyenera kumva komanso zowonjezereka momwe chinyengo chinachitikira, zifukwa ndi momwe zinayambira.
3. Khazikitsani lamulo lololedwa kufunsa komwe ali
Khazikitsani lamulo lololedwa kufunsa zakomwe kuli komanso zitsimikizo za omwe mwabwenzi omwe adabera, nthawi iliyonse yomwe simukukhulupirira kapena osakhutira.
Komabe, simuyenera kupanga chizolowezi kapena ntchito yanthawi zonse kuyang'anira mnzanu. Palibe vuto kufunsa komwe muli komanso umboni wa zomwezo mukamawona kuti zinthu zina sizikuwonjezera. Mwinanso mawu awo ndioseketsa, kapena dongosololi limamveka lachilendo kwambiri.
Ngati muli ndi mbiri yokometsa mutu wanu mumchenga ngakhale pali zowoneka bwino, wokondedwa wanu ayenera kuchita chizolowezi kufunsa kuti muwone ngati mukukayikira kapena ngakhale kugawana nawo.
Mnzanu akuyenera kumvetsetsa kuti chidaliro chanu chidasokonekera pomwe amakunyengani ndipo njira yokhayo yomangiranso pamaso pa mbendera zofiira zambirimbiri ndikufufuza zotsimikiza zanu. Ayenera kumvetsetsa zovuta zakukhala ndi wonyenga ndikuthandizira kuti achire.
4. Funsani mnzanu kuti atsuke zonyansa zawo
Mnzanu amene amachita zachinyengo ayenera kukhala wokonzeka kuchotsa zodetsa zawo pothetsa kulumikizana ndi anthu onse, mautumiki, masamba kapena mapulogalamu omwe alumikizidwa ndi machitidwe achinyengo omwe apezeka kumene.
M'malo mwake, amalimbikitsidwa kuti awonetsedwe umboni wakutha. Ena amalangiza kuti izi zimachitika pamaso panu kuti athetse kukayika konse komwe kumadza mtsogolo.
5. Landirani zomwe zinachitika, muzilole ndikukhululukire
Chinthu choyamba kuchita ngati mungasankhe kukhalabe mu chibwenzi ndi kuvomereza zomwe zidachitika ndikuyesa kupitiliza. Potero, mukuwuza mnzanu yemwe mumawakonda kuti mumawakonda kwambiri kotero kuti ndinu okonzeka komanso okonzeka kupereka mwayi wachiwiri ngati ali okonzeka kusintha.
Ngakhale anthu ambiri atsimikizira zonena zakuti "ukakhala wonyenga, nthawi zonse umaba," sizowona.
Komabe, khalani tcheru kuti mnzanu asapezere mwayi pakulandilani kwanu ndikuzigwiritsa ntchito kukutsutsani.
Mukavomera kusakhulupirika ndipo mwasankha kukhalabe, muyenera kuzisiya ndikukhululukirana. Simungasinthe zomwe zidachitika kale, ndipo palibe chifukwa chokhalira ndi nkhope tsiku lonse ndikuwononga mwayi wanu wokonzanso chidaliro chanu.
Ichi ndi chisankho chanzeru chomwe mukutenga kuchokera pansi pamtima mwanu kuti mupulumutse ubale wanu. Ngati mungaganize zokhala, mukuchita izi chifukwa mnzanu yemwe akuchita zachinyengo watsimikizira kuti ali okonzeka komanso okonzeka kuyenda nanu mtunda wonse osayang'ana kumbuyo.
Izi sizitanthauza kuti mukakhululuka, simudzazindikira mbendera zofiira.
Ngati mukufuna kuyambiranso kukhulupirirana, funsani mafotokozedwe a mbendera zofiira.
Zonse zanenedwa ndi kuchitidwa, chisankho chokhala ndi wonyenga kapena kusiya chimakhala cha mnzanu yemwe waberedwa. Ndi nzeru kumangoganizira zonse musanapange chisankho ngakhale mutakhala osakhulupirika.