Zamkati
- Ana ali ndi ufulu, olamulira, mphamvu, ndi ufulu monga akulu
- Lamulo la chala chachikulu ndi olamulira amabwera ndi maudindo ofanana
- Makolo ayenera kusankha malire a mwana wawo
- Kupatsa ana ufulu wodziyankhula
- Lolani ana kuti azinena zakukhosi kwawo
- Mwana aliyense ndiwanzeru m'dziko lawo
"Timada nkhawa ndi zomwe mwana adzakhale mawa, komabe tayiwala kuti ndi munthu lero" - Stacia Tauscher.
Ufulu wofotokozera umatanthauzidwa ngati 'ufulu wofotokozera malingaliro ndi malingaliro ako mwaufulu kudzera pakulankhula, kulemba ndi njira zina zoyankhulirana koma osavulaza dala mikhalidwe ya ena kapena / kapena mbiri yawo ndi mawu abodza kapena osocheretsa.'
Ana ali ndi ufulu, olamulira, mphamvu, ndi ufulu monga akulu
Ali ndi ufulu wofunikira:
Ali ndi ufulu wonena zakukhosi kwawo, kugawana malingaliro awo, malingaliro awo ndi kupereka malingaliro omwe angakhale osiyana ndi makolo awo.
Ali ndi ufulu wodziwitsidwa, kudziwa zomwe zikuchitika padziko lonse lapansi, kupeza zambiri zomwe zimawathandiza. Amatha kugawana malingaliro awo pamutu uliwonse kapena mutu uliwonse.
Stuart Mill, wafilosofi wodziwika ku Britain adati ufulu wolankhula (womwe umatchedwanso ufulu wamawu) ndikofunikira chifukwa anthu omwe akukhalamo ali ndi ufulu kumva malingaliro a anthu.
Sizofunikira chabe chifukwa aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi ufulu wofotokozera (zomwe ndikukhulupirira zimaphatikizaponso ana). Ngakhale Malamulo osiyanasiyana a National and International amalimbikitsa ufulu wamawu wofotokozera.
Malinga ndi CRIN's (Child Rights International Network) Article 13, "Mwanayo adzakhala ndi ufulu wolankhula; Ufuluwu uphatikizira ufulu wofunafuna, kulandira ndi kupereka zidziwitso ndi malingaliro amitundu yonse, mosasamala malire, kaya pakamwa, polemba kapena posindikiza, mwaluso, kapena kudzera pazofalitsa zilizonse zomwe mwana angasankhe ”.
- Kugwiritsa ntchito ufuluwu kumatha kukhala ndi zoletsa zina, koma izi zizikhala malinga ndi malamulo ndipo ndizofunikira:
- Kulemekeza ufulu kapena mbiri ya ena; kapena
- Pofuna kuteteza chitetezo cha dziko kapena dongosolo la anthu (kulamula anthu onse), kapena zaumoyo waboma kapena zikhalidwe.
Gawo loyambirira la Article 13 limalimbikitsa ufulu wa ana 'kufunafuna, kulandira ndi kupereka chidziwitso ndi malingaliro amitundu yonse', m'njira zosiyanasiyana komanso m'malire.
Gawo lachiwiri limachepetsa zoletsa zomwe zitha kuyikidwa kumanja uku. Ndi pofotokoza zakukhosi kwawo ndi malingaliro awo pomwe ana amatha kufotokoza momwe ufulu wawo umaperekedwera kapena kuphwanyidwa ndikuphunzira kuyimilira ufulu wa ena.
Kuphatikiza pa izi, Article 19 ya The Universal Declaration of Human Rights inafotokozera ana kudzera mu United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child, ikulamula ufulu wa mwana aliyense kuti atenge nawo mbali pazonse zomwe zimawakhudza. Zithandizanso kuwerenga ndi kumvetsetsa zambiri zazinsinsi za ana pa intaneti komanso ufulu wolankhula.
Lamulo la chala chachikulu ndi olamulira amabwera ndi maudindo ofanana
Ufulu wolankhula kwa ana ndikofunikira koma ndikofunikira kuphunzitsa ana athu kuti akakhala ndi ufuluwu akuyenera kuchita nawo ufulu wa ena wosagwirizana nawo.
Ngakhale simukugwirizana, ayenera kumvera ndikulemekeza malingaliro a ena.
Ufulu wolankhula umaphatikizaponso kudziwa nthawi yomwe sitiyenera kutenga nawo mbali. Mwachitsanzo: - Ngati gulu la chidani likufalitsa mphekesera pa whatsapp kapena facebook tili ndi ufulu kuletsa gululo kapena munthuyo ndipo ndiudindo wathu kuti tisamafalitse mphekesera zotere.
Chachiwiri, powapatsa ufulu wamawu, musasanduke kholo lokonda kupereka ufulu kwa mwana wanu. Ndimangotanthauza kuwalola kuti adziwonetse okha, kuti aphunzire zomwe zili zachilungamo komanso zopanda chilungamo kwa iwo osayimitsidwa kapena kulangidwa.
Makolo ayenera kusankha malire a mwana wawo
Ufulu wolankhula uli ngati chidaliro. Akamagwiritsa ntchito kwambiri, zimakhala zolimba.
Kuti mupulumuke mdziko lokhala ndi mpikisano, kuti mupambane mpikisano ndikupeza mwayi perekani mwana wanu chida chokhwima kwambiri - ufulu wonena.
Lolani mwana wanu kufotokoza momasuka zomwe amakonda (ngakhale mukuganiza kuti akulakwitsa) ndi kuwaphunzitsa kuti amve zomwe ena anena (ngakhale akuganiza kuti ena kapena akulakwitsa). Monga ananenera George Washington kuti ngati ufulu wolankhula utachotsedwa ndiye osalankhula ndi chete tikhoza kutsogozedwa, ngati nkhosa kukaphedwa.
Kupatsa ana ufulu wodziyankhula
"Ana amapeza chilichonse pachabe, amuna samapeza chilichonse" - Giacomo Leopardi.
Nthawi yopuma ndikafunsa mwana wanga wamkazi wazaka zisanu kuti ajambule ndikulemba mu buku lake, amandiyang'ana ngati kuti ndidamufunsa kuti agawire ayisikilimu yemwe amakonda kapena kuyeretsa nyumba yonse.
Ndikamamukakamiza amakhoza kunena, "Amayi, ndizosangalatsa". Ndikukhulupirira kuti ambiri a inu mumvetsetsa izi. Makolo angapo amaganiza kuti zaluso ndi luso lobadwa nalo lomwe mwanayo ali nalo kapena alibe!
Mosiyana ndi izi, kafukufuku (inde, nthawi zonse ndimagogomezera kwambiri kufufuza komwe kumachitika ndi maphunziro osiyanasiyana popeza kwatsimikiziridwa) kumawululira kuti malingaliro amwana amawathandiza kuthana ndi ululu.
Lolani ana kuti azinena zakukhosi kwawo
Luso lawo limawathandizanso kukhala olimba mtima, kukulitsa luso lawo komanso kuwathandiza kuphunzira bwino. Kulenga kumafotokozedwa ngati kuthekera kwa munthu kupanga malingaliro kapena malingaliro atsopano, zomwe zimabweretsa mayankho apachiyambi. Ndikutsimikiza kuti tonse tivomereza ndi Einstein kuti kulingalira ndikofunikira kuposa kudziwa.
Mtanthauziramawu wa Webster amatanthauzira kuyerekezera monga, "kutha kupanga chithunzi m'malingaliro mwako cha zinthu zomwe sunaziwone kapena kukumana nazo; luso loganiza za zinthu zatsopano ”.
Mwana aliyense ndiwanzeru m'dziko lawo
Kumvetsetsa ufulu wa ana kumakhala ndi mwayi wopititsa patsogolo kukula kwa ana.
Ndiudindo wathu monga kholo kukulitsa diso la malingaliro a mwana wathu ndikusangalala ndi kuweruza kwawo ndi mayesero.
- Sankhani malo m'nyumba mwanu momwe angagwiritsire ntchito luso. Pogwiritsa ntchito danga sindikutanthauza kuti tiwapangire malo osewerera m'nyumba kapena chipinda chopangira zinthu zawo. Ngakhale gawo laling'ono kapena ngodya yaying'ono ndiyabwino!
- Apatseni zonse zofunikira / zida zomwe angafunike kuti apange ntchito zaluso. Ingokonzekerani zinthu zofunikira monga cholembera / pensulo pomwe amatha kusewera masewera kapena makadi osiyanasiyana, kumanga nsanja za Cassel, zotchinga, ndodo zofananira ndi mipanda.
- Apatseni zokongoletsera zoyenera zaka, makapu, miyala yamtengo wapatali, sock, mipira, maliboni ndikufunsani kuti apange sewero. Mutha kuwathandiza ngati ali ochepa koma osathandiza kwambiri.
- Ngakhale atapanda kuchita malinga ndi zomwe mukuyembekezera musawadzudzule kapena kuwadzudzula chifukwa chowononga zinthu kapena zinthu zina. Apatseni mwayi woti afotokoze bwino momwe akumvera.
- Nyumba zosungiramo zinthu zakale, zowonetsa, zikondwerero zachikhalidwe komanso zochitika zaulere zaulere ndi njira zabwino zopititsira patsogolo kukwera kwamaluso ndi luso.
- Mobwerezabwereza, ndikukulangizani kuti muchepetse nthawi yophimba.